I know this may sound weird or crazy but please help?!
Question: I know this may sound weird or crazy but please help!?
Ok my problem is that I hate men!. Im so negative when it comes to them and it bothers me!. I try to be positive about them but I cant stand them!. Im not a lesbian or anything!. My mom raised me to be very independent and liberal and pretty much a feminist!. shes basically just taught me to be very aware of everything bad and to make sure i dont take crap and blah blah blah but i feel like i took it to the next level and has become this thing i cant overcome!. Has anyone ever known anyone like this!? What should I do!? I mean i guess im going to have to deal with them some day so i wish i was a little more positive about them!. but they just urk me!. everything they say, the way they act, the way they treat people!.just the thought of having to marry one really turns me off!. but im human and need that love and affection like everyone else so what the hell am i gonna do!. help please! Www@Answer-Health@Com
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My Mom is basically a feminist also!. I was raised hearing things like "men are pigs" and so on!. But I rebelled and am more middle of the road now!.
The thing is though that men and women are all just people!.
And if you were happy thinking the way you do I would say then just wait and keep looking!. You would find a guy who doesn't irk you!. But since your thinking obviously upsets you maybe you could just try to cut men a little slack!. And don't generalize one man to another!. Just like women, every man is different!. Get to know some of them!. You might just find that you see that there is a man out that that doesn't bug you quite so much!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
The thing is though that men and women are all just people!.
And if you were happy thinking the way you do I would say then just wait and keep looking!. You would find a guy who doesn't irk you!. But since your thinking obviously upsets you maybe you could just try to cut men a little slack!. And don't generalize one man to another!. Just like women, every man is different!. Get to know some of them!. You might just find that you see that there is a man out that that doesn't bug you quite so much!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Hey!!!!!!!! you mum a wise lady--you lucky to have her-you are a very aware special person---you make sure you stay that way honey--you stay that way -you stay safe-and happy-
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There are 2 genders!. Pick 1 and get on with it!. "Them" is a bit too all-inclusive!. I am sure he is out there, but he will still scratch and burp!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Seek professional help Www@Answer-Health@Com
are you sure that you aren't a lesbian!?
or maybe you're just too picky!.!.!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
or maybe you're just too picky!.!.!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
this may sound a bit crazy but my mom hated males even her own and i swore when i found the man i loved it wouldn't happen to me!. well i've been married for 25 years to the same man and i cant stand him anymore hes become selfish its all about him, his health [ when all this time i've been telling him he was doing wrong] but i don't have the equipment to be as smart as a man!. and my opinion doesn't mean anything, he overrides everything i say or do!. so getting to your situation it could be the way you were raised!. mine sure seems to be and i've prayed and prayed about this many times wondering whats wrong with me!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
An old friend of mine sounds exactly like you when it comes to women!. There is something in your life, not too far beneath the surface that planted those feelings in you!. With my pal, its the crowd that he ran with for much of his life that was basically "bad people" Now he has radically changed his lifestyle, meaning he no longer associates with his old crowd!. (except perhaps at his AA an NA meetings) however , he still will not let go of these bad feelings he has for the opposite sex!.
Try to identify what it is, besides the things you listed above!. You are probably a great person, so I wouldn't dare say it's all your own doing!. I have a cousin who is the sweetest woman you could ever imagine!. Yet the poor girl has been married and divorced three times!. Now married again, she seems to have finally found her right one!. Don't give up the ship!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Try to identify what it is, besides the things you listed above!. You are probably a great person, so I wouldn't dare say it's all your own doing!. I have a cousin who is the sweetest woman you could ever imagine!. Yet the poor girl has been married and divorced three times!. Now married again, she seems to have finally found her right one!. Don't give up the ship!.Www@Answer-Health@Com