How do you know if you are addicted to internet porn?!


Question: How do you know if you are addicted to internet porn!?
does anybody know how to stop!? should you stop!? is life better without internet porn!?Www@Answer-Health@Com


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1!. Is internet porn is adversely affecting your relationship, quality time spent with your spouse or family!.

2!. Is internet porn adversely affecting your job!.

3!. Has internet porn replaced healthy exercise, hobbies, volunteer activities and helping those less fortunate in life!.

4!. Has your need for internet porn changed your views on morality so sex acts previously considered vulgar \ taboo are now raging desires!.

5!. As your appetite for porn has grown does it take more graphic no holds bared depictions of sexual activities to produce the same state of arousal that tamer fare once provoked!.

6!. Has your straight heterosexual nature been changed to a bi-curious state by exposure to porn!.

7!. Do you need to see images of people engaging in degrading painful or other abnormal sexual behavior to achieve arousal!.

8!. Has watching porn caused you to seek fulfillment of alternative sexual pleasures outside of your marriage or other committed relationship!.

9!. Have you had anonymous sex for no other reason than the fact that you needed to seek sexual release after watching porn!.

10!. Has watching porn introduced you to poppers, dildos, bem wah balls, leather, harnesses or any other type of sexual pleasure enhancing drugs or devices!.

If you answer yes to more than three of these questions I would suspect you have a porn addiction!. If internet porn is a form of sexual release that does not mutate and grow taking over more and more of your life then its not an addiction!. The ket facet of addictions are that they grow!. An addiction can grow slowly or quickly but the common theme of addiction is that it creates a need loop in an individual that requires an ever greater amount of a certain type of stimulation to be only temporarily fulfilled!.

A love of porn that does not motivate a person to seek every greater intensity of depicted imagary, does not cause a person to seek every greater physical stimulation and finally does not intice a person to sneak out to new drugs, prostitutes, paramours and sex enhancing devices to find pleasure is not likely porn addiction!.

Simply stated if porn is destroying your life because it is a growing part of your life then it is an addiction!. All growing addictions fool the addict into thinking they can successfully manage the growth!. Only when it is often too late does the porn addict realize they are not managing the porn addiction!. In time porn addiction changes people so much that in time all life becomes mere flesh to be experienced, altered and exploited like a drug!. This is rock bottom for porn addicts when life love and respect is gone and all humanity becomes just MEAT to be sampled and discarded like an old newspaper!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

Porn is simply the male version of romance novels, but the problem is that we have allowed society to demonize Porn!.

The simple truth is that men are stimulated visually, and women ae more likely to be stimulated aurally (not orally sorry)!.

Almost every invention since the dawn of time is to allow men to be stimulated, ranging from Drawing, Painting, Print, Pictures, Movies, and now the Internet!.

Its sad that as a guy you are punished for looking at porn, yet NOBODY thinks of punishing a woman for reading a Mills and Boon book, and yet both are the same, both distort life to enhance an aspect of relationship!.

(relationships are in 3 parts, Lust, Infatuation, and Attachment), with Porn, you are just in the first part, Lust, where visual stimulation provides the excitement you need!. most women are stuck in Infatuation, where they want to hear nice things and be pampered and put on a pedestal!.

Life isn't better without porn, it's just more acceptable to the narrow views of our society, that devalues the stimulus for men, at he same time as exalting the romantic point of view!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

-I know i addicted to internet porn when i can't stop myself to not open any porns site everytime i connect online!.
-How to stop it is depend on yourself!. Doing other activities will help you to forget porns (at least for that time), such as sports, hang out with friends (eating together, play games) or just go to this site to answer questions will help you to forget porns, as you can give advice to many people =)
-Yes better stop it, because when i was addicted very much, i can't focus on other activities, became lazy and just sit there to surfing some porns and ended with masturbate (most of time)!. Therefore my days will end with nothing, so it's not worth it!. But still i wouldn't advice you to stop it entirely, i just suggest you to stop the addictness (so that way you wont rely or depend by it to make you "alive")!.
- Life isn't better if internet porns are gone because sometime we all need something to relaxing our depressed mind and accessing internet porns for few times (not too often, so about twice in a month considered normal) can make us bit entertained!. Well not all people have same releasing method but internet porns is needed although is bad if being addicted by it!. Some people also prefer internet porns because if they go to store and buy porns, people will know him/her and this person might labelled negative!. Many other reasons, but that's some of mine, and my friends too!.


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If you are spending time looking at porn and it's getting in the way of your job or your relationships and also if you get annoyed if you can not indulge in porn then yes, you are addicted!. You need an addiction counsellor to help get over it!. Don't be embarrassed - they hear everythingWww@Answer-Health@Com

Anything that takes you away from your responsibilities, like family or work, then yes you have a problem!.

However, if no one is being affected and you can hold a job and pay the rent and food on the table, then surf away!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

idk not really unless its affecting your life and causing u problems than no if its taking u away from things and ud rather do that than spend time with your family or children or friends than u probally should cut down Www@Answer-Health@Com

if in all your free time u watch it if u masturbate all the time if u spend a lot of money on it if thats all u think about or if your thinking bout taken it up the but that's when u know n need to get some help
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i wonder the same thing!.!. anything that is not done moderatly is not healthy is one thing i know for sureWww@Answer-Health@Com





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