Questioning my mental health?!


Question: Questioning my mental health!?
here's the deal, i think i may have some kind of disorder!.
i have this 'fear' thing where i hate the thought of forgetting the past!.
to give an example!. i have written out by hand every text i have received in the last 18months so i will never forget what they say!.
also i have listed every significant memory i can think of so my ever fading memory will last longer!.

Also i like to collect things, even if i know i wont look at them again i just like to own it!. like films if its a good film and i like it i must own it even if i know i will not even look at it again!.

i also have difficulty making friends!. im a nice guy, attractive and athletic but cant make friends!. i moved to australia a year ago and havent made any good friends!. a say hi to people and im not unpopular but i have never met up with anyone outside of school!. im desperatly lonely!.

Please give your best advice!. feel free to make harsh comments if you like but it doesnt really help!. sorry its so long
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Answers:
Your lonely, so your converting every text and memory for comfort!.!.!. Your collecting things, things you don't need, things you may never see or look at again because this gives you some sort of reassurance, your comforted by the fact that you have these things around you, and that there yours, you own them!.!.!. None of which is healthy!.!. To me it sounds like you have to much time on your hands to dwell on the small things!.!.!. (if only i had the time to hand write all my messages and memories!!!) You need to start becoming more social, even if that means volunteering somewhere local!.!.!. Maybe take up some hobbies!.!. And most of all Make time for the people you know, sometimes you have to be pushy, whether your in college, school, or work, Talk to people, ask them if they would like to hang out some time etc!?!? Whats the worse that could happen!! They say no, well move on, and ask someone else!.!.

You hang on to the past because you have no hope for the future!.!.!. You will always remember the past, but make room for new memories and the future!.!.

I hope this has helped!.!. good luckWww@Answer-Health@Com

It sounds like you may have OCD!. Obsessive compulsive disorder!. When you have a mental problem, it is hard to make friends because you are self conscious anyway and this disorder takes up your time!. See a doctor to get referred to a shrink!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

ha! Other than some OCD "quality's", sounds like you just need to be a little more assertive, and ask some people out!. Jees, wish I had your problemsWww@Answer-Health@Com

Sounds like OCD and compulsive hoarding!.Www@Answer-Health@Com





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