Help...listen to your heart or your head...things have to get better right?? ?!
Question: Help!.!.!.listen to your heart or your head!.!.!.things have to get better right!?!? !?
I have been with my boyfriend for almost 5 years!.!.!.!.living together 2 years!. We were doing great managing his bipolar & ADHD!. In the last year insurance changed!. They stopped covering all his meds!. We thought we could get away with paying them out of a pocket!. But we just couldn't!. After fighting with the insurance companys we finally got his meds back!. But he was off them for about 4 months!. Since then he has hit rock bottom!. Every little thing in his life has become a huge thing!. He cut himself for the first time in over 4 years about a month ago!. He bites himself!. He drinks every night!. I try to understand its because he is in alot of pain but its so hard!. He goes from everything is wonderful to!.!.!.!.freaking out!. It seems like the poor guy has lost his mind!. He works 10-16 hours a day 5 or 6 days a week!. He has never missed work!. But I'm scared they will fire him because of this!. He worrys & over things all day long!. Some nights aren't so bad things seem almost normal!. Other nights I look at myself & wonder what the hell are you doing in this relationship!. I do love him & have & will do again anything for him!. I just don't know what to do next!.!.!.!.I can't live like this forever!
Today will be day 2 on his meds again!. He claims they are fake since he did feel the way he used to on them!.
I just don't know where to turn!. I have cut ties with most of my friends and part of my family since I can't talk to them about these kinda things!. I did once & they made a laughing stalk out of us and judging him!. I could never tell him these fellings I have in fears of making things worse!. His family trys to help but at the same time hes an adult what can they really do!?
Things have to get better right!?
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Today will be day 2 on his meds again!. He claims they are fake since he did feel the way he used to on them!.
I just don't know where to turn!. I have cut ties with most of my friends and part of my family since I can't talk to them about these kinda things!. I did once & they made a laughing stalk out of us and judging him!. I could never tell him these fellings I have in fears of making things worse!. His family trys to help but at the same time hes an adult what can they really do!?
Things have to get better right!?
Whats next!? Www@Answer-Health@Com
Answers:
Well that's a good attitude to start with!. Too many people lose hope which makes things worse!. Yes it has to get better!. It has no choice!. No matter what he is going through,its just a "problem"!. Every problem has a "solution"!. Before he got off the meds for 4 months were they working good!?I mean was things this way that they are now!?or even close to it!?I would suggest him talking to his doc and switching meds!. You guys don't have to live like this!. That's why they make meds!. There has to be one that works like a charm for him!. He jsut has to try a few different ones till the right one is found!. Also he should try to find a 8 hour a day job!. I know that's hard to do with bills and living expenses!. But stress can multiply all these problems!. Also if he don't have a counsler then he needs one asap!. Docs or ok but therapist/counsler have all the skills for dealing with the problems he has and also more knowledge on what meds would work best!. Sounds like u love him and ur the only one he's got!. So hang in there!. In the end it will make yall that much more stronger!. God BlessWww@Answer-Health@Com
ok!.!. i dunno seriously,, this is a major problem,, i dunno!.!. but i know that if i love him!.!. ill stay with him no matter what!.!.!.!.!. anddont worry everything gets better eventually!.!. hopefully!.!. so dont worry!.!.!.and if you want help !.!. there are friends who would understand you more!.!. they are faithful!.!.if this is unhelpfulll cu z i rly dunno if it is!. i guess you should see those ppl who r specialists in this stuff, i dunno in this situatuin they are psychologists,, just hold on!.!.Www@Answer-Health@Com