Ive beat my depression but people are still trying to drag me down?!


Question: Ive beat my depression but people are still trying to drag me down!?
To thier level,even my own mother!.My life was really badly going down hill because of drug addiction to marijuana i was depressed for years and didnt even know it because i had been dragged down so low by other people!.Now i am at a higher level of mind than these people,i feel like because im in a happy state of mind people dont want me to be so they insult me,i mean i just laugh now and look down on people but when its people that are supposed to be your friends thats a different story but i know who my real friends are now!.Before i used to think there was somthing wrong with me and my mind was full to the brim with stress and it felt like people were always looking down on me but now im looking down on them!.Im seeing people in thier true colours and im ditching sombody who i thought was a mate because he tried to drag me back down again for no reason just because somthing about me doesnt suit HIM!.Now i have to deal with my mother she is constantly overreacting with everything and taking her frustrations out on me all the time,she knows i was depressed but acted like she didnt care all that much!.Why are people trying to drag me back down!? Www@Answer-Health@Com


Answers:
Maybe it all boils down to the fact that you beat these problems and you're now a better person!. These people could be jealous of the fact that you managed to overcome these problems, when these people might not be able to over come small everyday problems!.!.
They might just use you as a bat - they take their frustrations out on you - Im not sure they do this to drag you back down, maybe its unintentional!.!.
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That's too ture! It's just human nature!. If someone is unhappy they want the poeple around them to be unhappy vice versa! Hold your head high yeah, so what you had a problem, but you beat it didn't you! If other people have a problem then thats there problem!. Don't let tyhem get you down!Www@Answer-Health@Com

perhaps they are jealous that you are happy!? i know its hard to beat such an illness, i myself am struggling with it right now!. well done for doing so well and getting out of that black hole!Www@Answer-Health@Com

People view the world differently!.You either have to learn to deal with this difference or move away from it and seek out new experiences and new friends!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

So long as you think that you have the right to look down on other people then other people have a problem with you!.You don't know the problems they have so how can you think them lesser beings!.!? Realise we are all in need of sympathy and understanding sometimes;that doesn't make us pathetic;it makes us human:realise that and you could become happy!Go on thinking as you wrote in this question and your life will fall apart!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

I think people feel safe, useful and in control when someone close to them needs their help!. It is strange as I have seen it before and experienced it firsthand - the people closest to you can sometimes prefer it when your life is not going well- have you noticed how some people come out of the woodwork just when things have gone wrong for you!? You are quite right to ditch those ones and pity the othersWww@Answer-Health@Com

good for you, i too have beaten it!.
i was on seroxat, 20mg night!. and it made me, feel suicidal
and iwas like it 4 well over 56hrs , and i took myself to the dr's and
told him, what was happening, and he, phoned a&e and got me
into the hospital, and i stayed there , and they were brill, and i came off, of the drug, and i was told i would get flu like symptoms -withdrawl for a while!.

and i can honestly say , that i now feel a whole lot better , than i
did before, but, i had the fright of my life , so, i had to come off
of them , or i would not be writing this!.

it , is not easy , for anybody , and i feel for all out there, who,
are having the problem!.

please do not give up hope,

i will help anybody i can , to try and get there probs , sorted

out!. if i can!. just remember that!. ok!

good luck to all out there!. !.



do not let anybody get you, down !.

they get pleasure out of it!.

show them how STRONG , YOU REALLY ARE!.

THEY CANNOT HANDLE THAT ONE!.
good luck LIS!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

well done you for beating your depression it is such a terrible thing to have to go through!. But you must try and stop looking for answers as to why other people are like they are!. unfortunately we are all different and some people cant get why you are happy!. Just concentrate on yourself and now you have found out who your real friends are then just keep yourself around them!. Dont let anyone drag you down stay away from people like thatWww@Answer-Health@Com





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