I cant cry... advice needed?!


Question: I cant cry!.!.!. advice needed!?
how can i cry!? i am unable to for some reason!. much thanx!. and dont be rude im serious Www@Answer-Health@Com


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everyone reacts to situations differently and some people have different emotional responses to the same situations!. you maybe responding to sad situations with anger or another emotion making you unable to cry!. when something you think most people would find extremly sad happens to you analyze how you respond to that situation and if you are not sad, try to find that emotion within yourself and dwell on it, really let that emotion take over every part of you, and do not let other emotions in, that will eventually lead to you crying as a release of this sadness!. do not go out of your way to make yourself cry the more u think about how to cry the longer it will take!. wait for a situation where it is appropriate and use it as a release, it is a healthy natural response so finding how to cry can help tremendously!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

I've had some experience in this area my friend, and I just want to throw out there that it's nothing to be ashamed of, nor "your fault"!. I do not have my counseling degree yet, but suppressed emotions seems to be the turning point in this situation, it wells up when you can't let go!. Basically your mind fears the chaos all the emotions will bring if it does let go, feelings of self doubt or perhaps inward anger, and slowly your mind conditions itself to simply not bring such feelings to the front!. I think of it as a self defence mechanism, I!.E!. you had a very harsh year, month or even week and your mind didn't have a chance to deal with everything, so locked it up in the vaults labled "deal with later"!. Self reflection worked wonders for me personally, it is hard to do and be honest with yourself!. Though I believe oneday it'll happen!. For me it was the death of my step father, seeing the rest of my family suffer finally brought it out of me in one big hit, not just the death but all of it came forwards, and i've been a cry baby ever since ;P sad movies, books, you name it!. I suggest, if your comfortable with it, possibly seeking out a counselor to aid you through this process!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

Some people cant cry!. And its uncureable!. Sometimes they cry without knowing!.But just remember its not just you, but some other people also cannot cry!. Www@Answer-Health@Com

read an article about something really sad that happened to a child or something about animal abuse!. that always makes me cry!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

A watched pot never boils!.!. let yourself feel your feelings as they come up, and it'll happen!. You aren't defective or cold, you're just a little guarded !.Www@Answer-Health@Com

first you can cut garlic and that wii make you cry or see sad movieWww@Answer-Health@Com

Be happy you don't cry!.

And don't worry, when the time comes, you will!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

watch a sad movie or if you don't mind reading, read Marley and Me really sad but cool bookWww@Answer-Health@Com

its good !.be happy!.if you want ,do some thing that will make you cryWww@Answer-Health@Com





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