What is wrong with me? Why do I think I deserve this?!


Question: What is wrong with me!? Why do I think I deserve this!?
I'm stuck in a messed up situation!. The guy I was seeing has major depression and I've compromised a lot to help him out financially and emotionally!. I've gone without, basically for the entire time I've met him!. I feel like I'm his mother and I hate it, but I can't help but worry!. As a result I've been walked all over, ending in a fight last night about OUR credit card debt in MY name, and a few other things!. He called me manipulative (I'm not), a b***h (I definitely am not), and a dog!. When I left his place I took my stuff but I feel guilty because I didn't leave him money, or smokes!. What's wrong with me!? I've allowed myself to become his doormat, I realise this, and I also realise I deserve so much better and to be blissfully happy!. I know he can't give me that!. So why does he still have a hold over me!?


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Answers:
Tia!.!. when someone knows how to manipulate others really good they can turn things around to make them seem to be your fault instead of his!. Also you have a motherly instinct kicking here which is not bad if given to the right person who appreciates you but wasted on jerks like this!.

Listen!.!. there's many MANY guys out there that know how to love and take care of the woman in his life!. Why waste time with his idiot!? So he can squeeze more money and guilt out of you!? Walk away!.!.!. don't look back!.!. don't call him!.!. to hell with him!.!. Girl straighten up your spin and know you can do better then this piece of trash!.

If you don't have any respect for yourself then he's not going to either!. Its time to put your foot down and stop this before it gets worse and trust me!.!. it can get worse and probably will if you keep giving in to it!.

STOP IT!!!! Find a man that will love you!.!. like you deserve!.!. Www@Answer-Health@Com

I'm thinking because of your feelings for him, or previous feelings, it's hard to let go!. I find it hard sometimes to insult the one I love, and you just have to break away and face the truth!. You might be subconsciously holding on, but you have to find that grip and break it! :] don't let him do this to you!. Www@Answer-Health@Com





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