Would my cousin be overacting?!


Question: Would my cousin be overacting!?
Im close to her and she told me something that shocked me!. Shes a drama queen but shy sometimes!.

Today we had people over!. My sisterinlaw brought more of her family, uncles brought friends!. Mostly the people we knew but my other sister brought her new boyfriend to meet us!. ok!. So my cousin went up to hug him and she said that when he hugged her he rubbed her back for like 10 seconds, finding her bra strap under her shirt and "Played" with it!.

I really dont know what to say, she said she got sexually assualted, but im like at a loss for words!?!! My cousin is 13 and my sisters bf is 30 something!.

someone i need advice!Www@Answer-Health@Com


Answers:
Even if it seems she's over reacting, do this, count one-Mississippi, two-Mississippi all the way to ten and ask yourself if a thirty something man should be hugging and rubbing the back of a 13 year old girl for that length of time, or any length of time!. Dude is your sister's boyfriend, a handshake would have been appropriate!. Your cousin wasn't necessarily sexually assaulted, but a grown man should offer the old shoulder to shoulder hug or hand shake, especially since they're just meeting!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

Her story doesn't ring true!. If she hugged him in a greeting and they held it for more than a few seconds then it would be really obvious!. She would have to be very attractive for a stranger to risk assaulting her in front of relatives at their house!.
Assuming there is validity to her story then the next time either of you see him just extend a hand to shake rather than open arms!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

i dont think a 30 year old man can do this to girl who is less than half of his age!.
but if it is true, get that child abuser out of ur sister's life cuz people like this are of no worth!.
console ur cousin and tell her that things like this happens sometimes!.
She was not actually SEXUALLY ASSAULTED!.
it is lot more different!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

yeah right in front of all your family someone would have noticed and called him out by finding this inappropriate shes a drama queen alright not in a good way this kid needs help!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

Maybe she is just flattering herself to get attention!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

Why would you go up and hug a stranger anyway!?

I would have a chat to your sister about it!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

If she feels violated, she was!. Talk to her about it!.Www@Answer-Health@Com





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