How can I start feeling good about myself?!
Question: How can I start feeling good about myself!?
I have been in many failed relationships, I gained 35 extra pounds that I can't seem to get rid of, and I don't like putting too much emphasis on looks!. I don't know how to feel good for myself!. I mean come on, the only reason why anybody takes care of themselves is for the opposite sex to look at them!. I would love to get back into the dating world, but with a very demanding baby boy and negativity everywhere (including home) I can't find the extra UMPH to get me going!. Www@Answer-Health@Com
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That's not exactly true-there are other reasons why people take care of themselves besides the opposite sex! A sense of pride, personal responsibility, careers, etc!. Some people only do it to attract the opposite sex, but many people don't!. It sounds like you might be slightly depressed and that's why you find it difficult and pointless to make the effort to present yourself well each day!. Also, if you're completely focused on making yourself look good only to attract a mate, it makes sense that after a few failed relationships that you have given up!. Watch an episode of What Not To Wear on TLC-Stacy and Clinton show women how good it can feel by looking great and how to present yourself in a positive light no matter what you look like, how much you weigh or where you are in life! The people they focus on have a variety of problems, including women who have given up and who feel that they don't have the time to get ready, feel like they don't deserve it or that they are selfish by spending extra time or money on themselves instead of other people!.
What you need to do is to realize that you're beautiful and worthy of celebrating yourself every day! Go to a salon and get a fabulous new cut and color! Get your makeup done professionally! Have them teach you how to do that for an easy, everyday look!. Go buy one or two new outfits that fit well and make you feel fabulous!. When you look amazing on the outside, your mind will start to catch up!.
If you don't or can't get to a gym, put your son in a stroller and walk with him for an hour each day!. He will enjoy the fresh air and sunshine as much as you! You need to make the effort each day and focus on yourself as a beautiful woman and a wonderful mother, and with that confidence in yourself you won't be relying on your confidence to come from a relationship!. Your confident new self will attract the opposite sex plenty! Good luck!Www@Answer-Health@Com
What you need to do is to realize that you're beautiful and worthy of celebrating yourself every day! Go to a salon and get a fabulous new cut and color! Get your makeup done professionally! Have them teach you how to do that for an easy, everyday look!. Go buy one or two new outfits that fit well and make you feel fabulous!. When you look amazing on the outside, your mind will start to catch up!.
If you don't or can't get to a gym, put your son in a stroller and walk with him for an hour each day!. He will enjoy the fresh air and sunshine as much as you! You need to make the effort each day and focus on yourself as a beautiful woman and a wonderful mother, and with that confidence in yourself you won't be relying on your confidence to come from a relationship!. Your confident new self will attract the opposite sex plenty! Good luck!Www@Answer-Health@Com
The way I look at it is that you have family and friends who love you!. The way I also look at it is that there are other people out there that have way worse problems then you!. Www@Answer-Health@Com