What can I do to get over my husband's suicide?!


Question: What can I do to get over my husband's suicide!?
Every time I go in the room where he hung himself, I am reminded of this tragedy!. It's been 5 months!. We were getting along fine and he didn't leave a note!. He had Bipolar Disorder!. Any advice is appreciated!. I don't want to be stuck in grief the rest of my life!.Www@Answer-Health@Com


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Sorry to hear of your loss!.
I dont think you should move away!. Its natural to grieve and to be reminded of the hurt when you enter the room but you need to remember its only been 5months!. Yoour husband had a terrible illness which made him take his life, if he didnt have the illness he would still be here!.
I think you need to see a councellor to help you grieve (not forget) Just remember your husband is watching over you and is pain free now!. You will be brought together again some day in a much more peaceful place then we're we are today!.
All the best and may your husband rest in peace!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

Moving may be an option and yet the fact this has occurred unless you go for some Type of help whether it be a support group, therapy either one-to-one or a group setting no matter what you do you will have it hard!. However with therapy it can do more good than one can imagine!. Sure the memory will remain with you but due to therapy and your work on yourself will help you to move on with your life and not allow this unfortunate situation take control of your life and preventing you from enjoying your life!. It's hard work but with the work and giving yourself lots of love, attention, and patience it can be done!. You have to believe you will make it in spite of the tragedy!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

I am so very sorry to hear this!. To be honest nothing will help you get over it!.!.!. you never will!. Over time you will just learn to deal with it more!.

Get involved in Suicide Survivor groups!. Talk with those who have been in your shoes- the biggest thing is to know you are not alone- it's not something you should be ashamed of talking about!.

Every 16 minutes in the US someone dies by suicide!.

Check out the American Foundation for Suicide Prevention- AFSP!.ORG

One thing that helped me tremendously was participating in an OVERNIGHT walk- it's a 20 mile walk for suicide prevention!.- i have made life long friends doing this, it's a huge help to be able to talk about it and cry with those who know your pain and won't say negative things about suicide or tell you to get over it- that's the last thing you want to hearWww@Answer-Health@Com

First of all, I'm very sorry for your loss!. I think you need to give yourself more time, 5 months isn't that long when you've lost a loved one!. You also seem to have a lot of unanswered questions, which you may never get an answer to, and that may hinder your healing!. All I can suggest is that you give yourself more time, and I hate to suggest it, but you may want to consider moving out of the home where this happened!. Maybe you need to talk to a professional!? Not sure what to say, except good luck, and God bless!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

I'm so sorry for your loss , sweetheart !.


I don't think you should move !.
Maybe you should look into going to a support group that helps people grieving over loved ones who have commited suicide !.

Don't try to rush your grief , though !.
Everyone grieves differently !.
some may grieve forever , but it just gets easier to live with and they learn to accept the death of their love ones !.

there are some books out there that can help you , i'm sure !.
but a support group would probably help a lot seeing that there will be people who can relate , you know !?



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Sorry but I'm going to go against the majority!. I found my husband dead May this year!. Your pain is worse than mine as he didn't commit suicide!.

What I do is go into the bedroom where I found my man dead and I talk to him, some may find this stupid!. We all find our way of dealing with the loss of a loved one!. You've lost your husband and no-one can ever understand the pain that this causes!.

If you feel it right to leave the home then that is your decision!. Personally I find comfort staying where I am as I know my husband is with me, but each to their own!.

I will pray that you can move forward!. If anyone says you've gone backwards, then I would say that, in the situation, that one step back means two forward!. Hugs, kisses and lots more!. xxxWww@Answer-Health@Com

maybe you should more and join a support group!.

i'm sorry about your lost!. a dear friend on mine killed herself, while we were still in high school!. months before graduation!. and its still hard for me to think about her!. Www@Answer-Health@Com

I would seriously consider moving!. I wouldn't want to be reminded of him whenever I walk into a certain room in my house!. Good luck, and I'm sorry for your lossWww@Answer-Health@Com

You should seek professional help it will really hope you over come all the problems your having!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

move!.

or don't go in the room!.

will help!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

so so sorry for your loss ='[ Honey, you need to pack up and move, start out fresh!! I know it will be alot of work but I think you will feel much much better!! Give yourself more time!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

seal the room!. don't move its alot of work trust i've been there!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

You should move!. It will help!! Www@Answer-Health@Com





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