I got a sick feeling in the pit of my stomach w.this cop?!


Question: I got a sick feeling in the pit of my stomach w!.this cop!?
We had talked on the phone about me filing charges for a stalker, well I thought he was this old guy and he came over to get some emails!.!.!. he stepped out of the car and was very young!. Something about the uniform and him being in power triggered like a feeling of sickness!? The way he carried himself and walked was real aggressive!?

This ill feeling happened before when my ex grew a beard and I hadn't seen him for days, it triggers some kinda panic and I don't know why!. It's like a "get away he's dangerous" feeling!.

I don't expect anyone to know what this is but it's just the most nauseating feeling!. Anyone else!?Www@Answer-Health@Com


Answers:
Perhaps something happened to you when you were a child that triggers this feeling!. You might want to talk to a therapist about it!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

Wow!.!.!.sounds like you had some abuse as a kid by an authority figure w/ a beard! You've probably buried the memory!. It may be that the old guy stalking you and emailing you is indeed that abuser!.!.!.the cop that came to your house may be his son!.!.!.and yours! The nausea could be the 4 bowls of oatmeal and pickles you ate!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

okayyyyyyyyyyyWww@Answer-Health@Com

i don't really understand, i'm sorryWww@Answer-Health@Com

Part of a policeman's survival skill set is to be effective intimidating others!. Being a policeman is not about using your gun, mace or night stick as your first line of defense!. A policeman's first line of defense is to maintain control over a situation by an authoritative \ somewhat intimidating presence!.

Sorry if you were upset by his doing his job effectively but a policeman is walking into unknown situations often times!. That presence is sometimes all that separates him from harm!. Telling a policeman not to use all the tools at his disposal to manage unknown situations is to give criminal a psychological advantage!. A good policeman will let his guard down and become more friendly and approachable only after they have determined the peaceful intent of the actors in a situation and the safety of the surroundings!.

As a mentally challenged black man, policemen have not always been good to me!. However I have found most police officers do honestly try to help me when I am in distress!. I have big fat chronically muscular ugly 6 foot 8 inch bikers as friends!. They are either autistic or suffer mental problems that make them look very frightening when walking toward you on the street!.

But they can not help what they look like!. They are honestly the nicest people you could ever want to meet if you do not try to take advantage of them!. I try not to make judgments about people I have yet to meet just on gut feelings alone!. I look like an ugly half crazy mental patient or serial killer to some people who don't take time to get to know me!. Good people take the time to give others a chance just as they want to have a chance to be accepted!.Www@Answer-Health@Com





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