My wife is possibly manic depressant? ?!


Question: My wife is possibly manic depressant!? !?
As of late we moved out of our area and then my wife got laid off!. Of course with the economical situation my business has slowed down!.

Anyways, my wife has always shown signs of anxiety and depression, but has been able to snap out of it!. This time she hasn't!. She hasn't slept in days!. Her sleep habits have been poor for over two months!. She is showing signs of either bi-polar or manic depression!. I doubt it's polar because it's all down and no ups!.

This situation is very stressful for her and us (family)!. She has horrible thoughts, some very intense!. Because she was laid off we don't have medical insurance what should we do!? Who has experience in this!? I know she needs medical attention!. Some say take her to General Hospital and try to get medical!.

I feel if we get a doctor to prescribe Ambien so that she can sleep, she will get it more together and we can take our time in getting her the necessary help!. Am I wrong or should I do!?Www@Answer-Health@Com


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It sounds like your wife may have severe major depression (or commonly called "clinical depression")!. Since there are no good days or "highs" for her it's very unlikely that she's bi-polar!. I would strongly recommend taking her to a General Hospital where she can be seen by a psychiatrist for a proper diagnosis!. I would hold off on the Ambien until it is clear what she is suffering from and can be put on a medicine regime!. If her sleepless nights still persist, then she may want to talk with the psychiatrist who can prescribe the Ambien, or whatever medication he feels would benefit her!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

Getting her Ambien is just going to treat a symptom not the problem!. If she is manic depressive then her "down" periods will keep getting longer while her "up" periods will get shorter!. She needs a proffesional to meet with her to discuss her needs and possible treatments!. Don't wait or things may just get way out of control!. Good luck!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

You are not wrong at all, she's your wife and you're just worried for her!. I think just with everything going on it's getting tough!. Just be there for her ya know!? But it wouldn't be a bad idea to get it checked out!. Because if that is it, it would be better for the both of you!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

manic depression and bipolar are basically the same thing!.
she just sounds very very depressed!.
you should help her for sure, bring her to a doctor!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

treat ur wife with love, peace, and care!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

In order to be bipolar (manic-depressive) she would also have to show signs of mania, or states of elation!. It sounds more like she suffers from depression!. I wouldn't suggest taking her to the hospital unless you think she will harm herself or someone else!. Maybe you should take her to see a psychiatrist and/or psychologist!. A psychologist would talk to her about her problems and give their notes to the psychiatrist, who would then talk with her directly and be able to prescribe medication if needed (sleeping meds, anti-anxiety, anti-depressants)!. If you don't have insurance, you could always check into medicaid and see if she would qualify!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

as the above answers are very good I am going to offer a different piece of advice!. I don't know where you live but some states the pharmacist can not fill a drug that is considered for psychological reasons like ambien unless it is prescribed from a mental health clinic!. My husband found this out when he tried to fill his prescription for ambien from his regular doctor!. Anyways, most if not all mental health clinics have sliding pay scales, so you can take her there without insurance and the bills will be based on your income, for some people it ends up costing very little to being freeWww@Answer-Health@Com

she proabably has more than one problem!. insommina may be one of then which is triggering other ones!. when you have troble sleeping many other things can go wrong!. sleep is enegery and your body needs enegry to work properly!. i would suggest taking her to a spa to relax a little!. then once she seems a little relaxed make her an appointment with a physcatrist!. and take her there once a week or so!. and she may be able to perscribe her somthing!. try and comfort her and not hinder with what "problems" she has!. if she doesnt want to go the the doctors, say its what you think is best for her, but if she doesnt want to go then she doesnt have to!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

to help her get sleep without needing a prescription I'd say use NyQuil or Benadryl!. they work pretty well for everyone!. but this won't help with her depression!. for that you will need to get her medical attention!. otherwise help her with finding a hobby to get her mind off of all the recent bad things that have happened!. go for walks, go fishing or just build a swing in the backyard for the two of you (or anyone else)!.

some people find little things that they do when they were younger help alot and relieve stress which im guessing might be a factor into all of this!. no job and a move can be traumatizing - especially with the economic times we are in!.

but if these don't work!. see her to get medical help right away!. don't worry about the finances of it, if she needs help, get her some!. Www@Answer-Health@Com

some people dont handle struggles with ease!.!.a lot of people get themselves into a state of panic!. and if she has had a history of this--times like these only enhance it!. with that said, make sure to be her support thru this rough time!. do not give her a hard time when she looks at things pessimistically!. instead, be her optimistic sidekick!. ppl who r going thru hard ties tend to point out all the bad and negatives as a guard--its kind of like them thinking of all the possible bad things that can happen so that if they do happen- they were mentally prepared for it!. therapy is always a wonderful thing to do!. i no it costs money but it would be a tremendous help for her to sort out her problems, consider them rationally and come up with some good ideas as to how to fix them!. if u r with her- it would be even better!. if u absolutly cant afford therapy!.!.!.perhaps you can help her in this matter!. do some online research of helping anger and sadness!. i personally have doe this for myself and it is a tremendous help!. she isnt sleeping bc she is stressed out!. i know im stating the obvious here but its pretty much that simple!. she doesnt need medicine to help her sleep- she needs peace of mind!. medicine only covers up the problems!.!.!.therapy (whether it be professional or personal) helps fix the problem!. and that is whats most important!. i wish you both the best of luck!.!.!.and as you said in ur vows!.!.!.tgether thru the good times and the bad!.!.!.!.help her now in these bad times!. and remind her why she married you!. u r her other half!.!.!.if she is in pain--so r u!. take care :-)Www@Answer-Health@Com

People who suffer from bi-polar disorder have high highs and low lows and will switch from one to the other with lightning speed!. Manic depression is the old name for bi-polar!.

As for Ambien!.!.!.the side effects have been shown to be quite dangerous!. Some people have walked in their sleep, driven in their sleep, etc!., without having any knowledge of having done so!.!.!.I doubt this will help her with depression!.

Your wife needs a medical evaluation!. You can't do that yourself!. Convince her to go to the doctor and write down all the symptoms you've both noticed!. The doctor will likely prescribe an anti-anxiety or anti-depressant and will probably suggest some therapy!.

Good luck to you both!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

This is a situation I am familiar with!. First, while sleeping is important, it isn't the only thing going on here!.
She is clearly depressed and the most important thing for you to do is be 300% supportive!. Her medical needs are very important at this time and maybe being laid off was a blessing in disguise as she can now take the time to focus on her well-being!. She needs to be reassured that she is beautiful and talented!. If she is going to look for a new job she needs to be confident!.

The sleep will come with time once she is feeling better!. Sometimes medicines mask the underlying problem!.

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