I keep having nightmares?!
Question: I keep having nightmares!?
where im walking by my friends hosues late at night, and someone parks a car by the side of the road, and i know therye gonna rape me, and then i walk by them and they chase me,
or, where im sleeping in my bed and someone is trying to break in my window,
or im in my car, and someone is trying to come in and get me!.
or im holding hands with my friends boyfriend willl be trying to get me to hold his hand and ill say no but then i guess i change my mind, and everyone starts yelling at me and he says it was all a joke to proove if i was really a good friend!.
idk whats wrong with me!?!?!?Www@Answer-Health@Com
or, where im sleeping in my bed and someone is trying to break in my window,
or im in my car, and someone is trying to come in and get me!.
or im holding hands with my friends boyfriend willl be trying to get me to hold his hand and ill say no but then i guess i change my mind, and everyone starts yelling at me and he says it was all a joke to proove if i was really a good friend!.
idk whats wrong with me!?!?!?Www@Answer-Health@Com
Answers:
Basically, what I'm getting from the dreams that you've told here is a sense of a loss of control!. I'm guessing you make a lot of decisions that you regret later on or that people get on you about!. You don't trust your first instincts and something bad happens!. Do you second guess yourself a lot and end up saying, "I should have went with my first thought'!?
Dreams and nightmares are really the same thing!. It's the way you interpret them that makes all the difference!. You only think a dream is a nightmare when you wake up with a bad feeling!. One of the important things to note is how you feel when you wake up from any dream - whether you feel like it's a dream or a nightmare!.
One of the common themes in your dreams is rape, being chased, being "got," being tested and failing!. All of this points to you feeling an intense lack or loss of control in your life!. Notice how you walk by the car even though you know you're going to get raped!. In all your dreams someone is trying to "get" you!. And in all your dreams - you do nothing to stop what's happening and nothing to protect yourself!. You are always "reacting" and never "proactive!."
And that's scary! Note that you've even awoken from a dream feeling like you are being "possessed" and you can't breathe!. You don't do anything about it though - you just go back to sleep (possibly so it can happen all over again)!. Do you see the pattern here!?!? Your life is telling you that - yes, not being in control of your life or in control of what happens to you is a "nightmare" - it's a horrible thing!.
So you have to ask yourself some questions - Where in your life do you feel most out of control!? Is it in your thoughts!? Is it with your boyfriend!? Your friends!? Your family!? Do you sometimes find yourself doing things you don't wanna do even though you know what you're doing could be bad for you!? Are there any people in your life right now that you place their opinions and wants and needs above your own!? Do you find yourself feeling guilty about the decisions you make that don't fall in line with your family or friends!?
It's a very dangerous thing to go against your own wisdom!. Your body and mind are telling you that many times your first thought is the right one to have and that if you keep ignoring the warning bells when they go off - there's going to be an unpleasant result!. It doesn't necessarily have to be "rape" per se!. What is rape!? Basically, rape is someone taking advantage of you to do harm to you without your consent!. "They" raping you - means more than one person could take advantage of you - and not in a good way!.
My suggestion to you is to STOP RUNNING from bad situations in your dreams!. Give your mind and body confidence that you will do right by yourself!. Next time you have that dream about coming up to the car and you KNOW you're gonna get raped - make yourself look around for a weapon of protection!. FIND a weapon and carry it!. SO when you approach the car and people get out - turn around and yell "WHAT DO YOU WANT!? I HAVE A WEAPON AND I'M NOT AFRAID TO USE IT ON YOU!." And be prepared to do so if they display violent attitudes!. Otherwise - they may tell you something important and move on!. In fact - they may be chasing you TO tell you something!. But you won't know!. Likewise, if someone is trying to break in the window - turn on the light and say, "WHO'S THERE!? IF YOU NEED TO GET IN GO TO THE FRONT DOOR! DO NOT COME THROUGH MY WINDOW - I HAVE A WEAPON AND I WILL HURT YOU!." Same thing in the car!. If you don't know the person say, "PLEASE LEAVE MY DOOR ALONE!. I DON'T KNOW YOU - WHAT DO YOU WANT!? I HAVE A WEAPON AND I'M NOT AFRAID TO USE IT!." The bottom line is that your dreams are always trying to tell you something!. It's wise to listen and when you wake up from a dream - try to figure out what area of your current life is like the dream!. That may help you figure out what message your subconscious is trying to send!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Dreams and nightmares are really the same thing!. It's the way you interpret them that makes all the difference!. You only think a dream is a nightmare when you wake up with a bad feeling!. One of the important things to note is how you feel when you wake up from any dream - whether you feel like it's a dream or a nightmare!.
One of the common themes in your dreams is rape, being chased, being "got," being tested and failing!. All of this points to you feeling an intense lack or loss of control in your life!. Notice how you walk by the car even though you know you're going to get raped!. In all your dreams someone is trying to "get" you!. And in all your dreams - you do nothing to stop what's happening and nothing to protect yourself!. You are always "reacting" and never "proactive!."
And that's scary! Note that you've even awoken from a dream feeling like you are being "possessed" and you can't breathe!. You don't do anything about it though - you just go back to sleep (possibly so it can happen all over again)!. Do you see the pattern here!?!? Your life is telling you that - yes, not being in control of your life or in control of what happens to you is a "nightmare" - it's a horrible thing!.
So you have to ask yourself some questions - Where in your life do you feel most out of control!? Is it in your thoughts!? Is it with your boyfriend!? Your friends!? Your family!? Do you sometimes find yourself doing things you don't wanna do even though you know what you're doing could be bad for you!? Are there any people in your life right now that you place their opinions and wants and needs above your own!? Do you find yourself feeling guilty about the decisions you make that don't fall in line with your family or friends!?
It's a very dangerous thing to go against your own wisdom!. Your body and mind are telling you that many times your first thought is the right one to have and that if you keep ignoring the warning bells when they go off - there's going to be an unpleasant result!. It doesn't necessarily have to be "rape" per se!. What is rape!? Basically, rape is someone taking advantage of you to do harm to you without your consent!. "They" raping you - means more than one person could take advantage of you - and not in a good way!.
My suggestion to you is to STOP RUNNING from bad situations in your dreams!. Give your mind and body confidence that you will do right by yourself!. Next time you have that dream about coming up to the car and you KNOW you're gonna get raped - make yourself look around for a weapon of protection!. FIND a weapon and carry it!. SO when you approach the car and people get out - turn around and yell "WHAT DO YOU WANT!? I HAVE A WEAPON AND I'M NOT AFRAID TO USE IT ON YOU!." And be prepared to do so if they display violent attitudes!. Otherwise - they may tell you something important and move on!. In fact - they may be chasing you TO tell you something!. But you won't know!. Likewise, if someone is trying to break in the window - turn on the light and say, "WHO'S THERE!? IF YOU NEED TO GET IN GO TO THE FRONT DOOR! DO NOT COME THROUGH MY WINDOW - I HAVE A WEAPON AND I WILL HURT YOU!." Same thing in the car!. If you don't know the person say, "PLEASE LEAVE MY DOOR ALONE!. I DON'T KNOW YOU - WHAT DO YOU WANT!? I HAVE A WEAPON AND I'M NOT AFRAID TO USE IT!." The bottom line is that your dreams are always trying to tell you something!. It's wise to listen and when you wake up from a dream - try to figure out what area of your current life is like the dream!. That may help you figure out what message your subconscious is trying to send!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
ok so here's what i do!.!.im not a profressional though! i have nightmares alllll the time and i've learned to literally wake myself up, or actually change my dream! if you know you're gunna get raped turn around and while you're walking in the other direction of the rapists car start thinking about something you LOVE like maybe pink roses and for me the whole dream changes drastically! try it out! and then try waking yourself up, not by slapping yourself but by literally thinking really hard and waking up! just try it!.!.!.!.it can't hurt!Www@Answer-Health@Com
Remember that nightmares are just dreams! If they consist for months, consult with a doctor!. Ask if any medications (if any) your taking, and see whether it's being caused by a medication!. I would also visit this website!. It has always helped me with meWww@Answer-Health@Com
nightmares - and any type of dreams - can be caused by anything and everything!. your dreams could reflect a lack of feeling safe around a certain area of town or a certain person!. or it could anything in your subconscious!.
watch any horror or action movies lately!? hear a story about anything like that happening to someone else!? dreams can come from anything in your mind!. it may have just been a flash on a commercial on TV or a movie preview!. no one really knows what exactly causes dreams to do what they do!.
and the one rule about dreams is this: no two dreams are EVER the same!. different colors, different person, walking stance, streets, car, hair color!.!.!. anything!. i would google 'dreams and meanings' and see what you get!. there are books that (generally) tell you what an object means in a dream!. might help!. Www@Answer-Health@Com
watch any horror or action movies lately!? hear a story about anything like that happening to someone else!? dreams can come from anything in your mind!. it may have just been a flash on a commercial on TV or a movie preview!. no one really knows what exactly causes dreams to do what they do!.
and the one rule about dreams is this: no two dreams are EVER the same!. different colors, different person, walking stance, streets, car, hair color!.!.!. anything!. i would google 'dreams and meanings' and see what you get!. there are books that (generally) tell you what an object means in a dream!. might help!. Www@Answer-Health@Com