Why am I such a "loner?"?!
Question: Why am I such a "loner!?"!?
Well, it's my senior year of high school and unfortunately, it's terrible!.!. I pretty much lost all my "friends" because either they were backstabbing bitches or they just were never real friends!. Now that it has finally taken full effect, I pretty much have no friends!.!. nobody to hang out with, to talk to, to go to events with, etc!. And yes, i've tried making friends and being more outgoing but there might be something wrong with my "rich prep school" because everybody just seems so obnoxious and close-minded!. Maybe it's a race thing!? I'm asian!.!. However, I do well with people outside of school!.!. I've been told a lot that im attactive, nice, funny, smart, and athletic and it's easy for me to meet guys anywhere (just not at my school)!. It's just realyl difficult for me to make real friends!. What's wrong with me!? How do I end this misery that's bringing me down more and more!?Www@Answer-Health@Com
Answers:
If you are having no problem finding people outside of the school, you should be fine!. Not everyone can fit into every environment!. I believe that you need to find healthy friends who you can connect to and talk to!. If they are bothering you this much and there is a issue of trust, then try to find people outside of your school!. It sounds that you are a well rounded person and I am sure there are many people who would love to be with you as a friend!. High school can be tough and the good news is you don't have much to go!. If you are planning to go to college, you will find people are much more mature and willing to stick by you!.
I hope you find many good people by your side soon!. Www@Answer-Health@Com
I hope you find many good people by your side soon!. Www@Answer-Health@Com
Nothing at all is wrong with you!. You don't sound like a loner to me at all, it is the people who aren't true friends that make you feel this way!. Eventually you will find friends who like you for you and that will be enough for them, race doesn't matter!. If race matters to somebody then they are very shallow and pathetic!. All you need to do is continue to be yourself and things will get better!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Read "How To Win Friends And Influence People" by Dale Carnegie!.
Seriously!.
I read it as a sophmore in college b/c I was the same way as you (except I'm a guy, I'm not Asian or athletic or attractive - but i am nice andf funny and smart)!.
I'm not kidding!. This is the best book on how to meet people!.
Also - remember - most people only have a handful (as in 4 or 5) really close friends!. Www@Answer-Health@Com
Seriously!.
I read it as a sophmore in college b/c I was the same way as you (except I'm a guy, I'm not Asian or athletic or attractive - but i am nice andf funny and smart)!.
I'm not kidding!. This is the best book on how to meet people!.
Also - remember - most people only have a handful (as in 4 or 5) really close friends!. Www@Answer-Health@Com
hey your not a loner , don't say that about you, their is nothing wrong with you , your ok ! those people weren't your real friend in the first place! you don't need them , maybe they are jealous of you, maybe your smarter than them , and they don't like that , maybe you more beautiful than them and they are jealous of you, maybe because you have a great personality and they have a snub personality! all in all they are just jealous of you, don't let them know you feel this way , or they will win, hey hey just cheer up in my book your ok ! Www@Answer-Health@Com
although it dosnt seem like it now, the way things are now will mae you stronger!.its good in the long run, believe me!. since you are a senior, you just have to suffer through one more semester, then you can go to college, or work and reinvent yourself -if you want to!.it is really easy to make freinds in college,as kids are not as stupid and immature as they were in high school!.good luck!Www@Answer-Health@Com
I think that you care a lot about what people think of you!. Plunge yourself into a new hobby!. It can be anything from building something, to working with a volunteer group!. I am building a dollhouse! By your writing I see that you are smart and articulate!. Closed-minded preppies are not cool!. They just think they are!. Do something interesting and open their minds!. And be friends with others outside of your school too!. Go build a real house with Habitat For Humanity and give a home to someone who would never have one otherwise!. There you will meet real friends!
Remember how many things you have to be grateful for, and feel happy for them!Www@Answer-Health@Com
Remember how many things you have to be grateful for, and feel happy for them!Www@Answer-Health@Com