Why do people make it a big deal when someone cuts them selves?!


Question: Why do people make it a big deal when someone cuts them selves!?
i cut my self sometimes and 1 of my teachers saw the cuts and she made a really big deal about it!. why!? it's not like i it's so bad!. and it's not like i was hurting someone else!. why do they make a big deal out of nothing!?Www@Answer-Health@Com


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When you ask this sort of question you are seeking help!. I say,"Are you not someone!?" You are wrong when you say that you aren't hurting someone else!. What you are doing is an outward expression!. Looking for attention!. Sending signals to the world that you have depression!. Then when someone like your teacher sees what you've done, it concerns her!. Nobody wants to see you hurting yourself, and even when you don't know it there are people who care about you!. Your teacher making a big deal of it shows that she cares for your well-being and doesn't want to see you go further in!. The problem is you don't see that what you are doing is destructive behavior to yourself and you need to seek help/treatment for the cause!. Find a hobby!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

Just like everyone has said, it's cause you're hurting yourself!.
Not many people enjoy seeing cuts, so they'll jump to the conclusion that something is seriously wrong, and I'm not saying that there is something SERIOUSLY wrong, but when you start to think it's not a big deal to be hurting yourself, that's when you should really start questioning it!.
It becomes an addiction for some!. I'd suggest questioning why you don't think it's a big deal!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

The thing is, that although you think you're not hurting anyone else, you are!. Not only are you hurting yourself, but you're also hurting your loved ones because they have no idea what they can do to help you!. You can hurt yourself because one day you might cut too deep, lose a lot of blood, and have to be hospitalized!. I mean, you may think it's nothing now, but sooner or later it will hit depression!. I mean, my friend cuts, and i try and tell her to stop, but since I know it's not going to be that easy, i try to sympathize and see where she's coming from!. I understand your reasoning, but it's still dangerous!. Just don't let it go too far, and you'll be fine!. It's just your way of dealing with troubles going on with your life!. hope this helped, i guess!. = )Www@Answer-Health@Com

You're hurting yourself!. Which *is* hurting someone!. Most people cut for the emotional release or for a temporary distraction from emotional pain!. When an outside person sees the cuts/scars they usually jump to that conclusion!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

you cut yourself because you are hurting inside!. people make a big deal about it because they care about you and dont want you to be troubled!.!.sure it starts as cutting now but if you stay hurting long enough your problems get alot worse!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

Wrong, you're hurting yourself!. You'll realize what I'm talking about after a while!.Www@Answer-Health@Com





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