Porn addiction what are the success rates of beating this sickness?!
Question: Porn addiction what are the success rates of beating this sickness!?
I have been married for 6 years!. My dh is hooked to porn like I dont know what!. He is seriously screwing up our family!. I am feeling very angry because he also neglects our kids!. He stays up all night and then sleeps all day so he can be up all night again on the computer looking up pornography!. I am going through a time of depression and anxiety due to his behavior and he also has blamed me for his issues!. He says things like "If you were better in bed I wouldnt have to resort to this" or "If you lost weight I wouldnt have to look somewhere else to get turned on!." That is some cruddy stuff because I only gained weight AFTER he was already doing this because of the antidepressants I had to take due to having a husband who is totally perverted now only turns to me when he wants sex and neglects our kids totally!. He refuses to get counseling of any kind!. Claims I am the one with the problem because I must have low self esteem because I mind him watching it!. That is not the biggest issue!. The biggest issues are the neglect of our kids and the disrespect and disregard for me and my feelings!. I am at my wits end!. What can I do!? What are the chances of him being freed of this addiction!?Www@Answer-Health@Com
Answers:
Firstly you need to think about yourself, put yourself first!
If he's saying he needs to look at porn to get turned on because your not turning him on then he's mad! Porn is full of fake people doing fake things! Screw him go out and buy a new mascara and foundation, get a new top & underwear and say **** HIM! Your worth more than him!
Tell him if he wants a fake women then he know were the door is!
Go out with your kids, take them to a theme park and have fun!
Enjoy yourself with your children and remember your pretty, kind and your worth billion of him!
Yes, there is things he can do to change :
He can go cold turkey, Take of the computer etc
Psychiatric Help
Injected with a small part of our hormon Estrogen wich can calm his sex drive!.
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If he's saying he needs to look at porn to get turned on because your not turning him on then he's mad! Porn is full of fake people doing fake things! Screw him go out and buy a new mascara and foundation, get a new top & underwear and say **** HIM! Your worth more than him!
Tell him if he wants a fake women then he know were the door is!
Go out with your kids, take them to a theme park and have fun!
Enjoy yourself with your children and remember your pretty, kind and your worth billion of him!
Yes, there is things he can do to change :
He can go cold turkey, Take of the computer etc
Psychiatric Help
Injected with a small part of our hormon Estrogen wich can calm his sex drive!.
Hope this helps and sorry if it doesn'tWww@Answer-Health@Com
Yes, it is normal for men to look at porn!. I just accept it, tease, not belittle mine, and we have a few laughs together about it!. I am just happy he isn't cheating on me, and I accept it!. It isn't because of you!.
He does it because he enjoys it and maybe because it upsets you!. I just wouldn't get upset anymore and as long as he isn't cheating accept it!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
He does it because he enjoys it and maybe because it upsets you!. I just wouldn't get upset anymore and as long as he isn't cheating accept it!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Zero, if he is not willing to see he has a problem!. Recognition and self-awareness is the first step to cure!. You might try an intervention with a pastor and a close friend but most men don't see this as a problem!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
statistics show that going w/o an addiction for about 21 days beats the habit b/c u have gone so long w/o it!.
trust me it def!. helpsWww@Answer-Health@Com
trust me it def!. helpsWww@Answer-Health@Com
put a lock on the computerWww@Answer-Health@Com
My first advice would be to go to counseling together!. Yes, its his sickness, but you need to be there to help him through it!. I have a friend who's husband had a porn addiction, and they tried to get help but he refused to talk!. Needless to say, their marriage ended, and alot of it had to do with that addiction!. If he loves you, he will agree to the help!.
My second advice, either break the computer, or get rid of it when he is asleep!. This way, he can't get on the computer!.
I know I like tp play around online!. my wife is the one that is usually looking up porn, which I think is hot, but we are pretty normal!. We don't spend all night looking at it!.
Before I met my wife, I would download porn and look at it!. I can admit, it consumed me, but I grew out of it!. It got boring, plus, my hard drive filled up too fast!. I still look, but not nearly as much, mainly because I found new hobbies!.
Unfortunately, he will have to admit his problem!. What you can do, if he thinks you are fat, lose the weight!. I am not saying that is a problem, but it would kill that excuse of his!. Plus, if he sees that you are getting attention from other guys, he might get his act in gear!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
My second advice, either break the computer, or get rid of it when he is asleep!. This way, he can't get on the computer!.
I know I like tp play around online!. my wife is the one that is usually looking up porn, which I think is hot, but we are pretty normal!. We don't spend all night looking at it!.
Before I met my wife, I would download porn and look at it!. I can admit, it consumed me, but I grew out of it!. It got boring, plus, my hard drive filled up too fast!. I still look, but not nearly as much, mainly because I found new hobbies!.
Unfortunately, he will have to admit his problem!. What you can do, if he thinks you are fat, lose the weight!. I am not saying that is a problem, but it would kill that excuse of his!. Plus, if he sees that you are getting attention from other guys, he might get his act in gear!.Www@Answer-Health@Com