How can i focus while on the verge of a breakup?!


Question: How can i focus while on the verge of a breakup!?
i have my last 2 tests before break tomorrow and i have to ace them both!. but i think my bf is gonna break up with me and if he doesnt i probably will but i dont want to, its just not working and i dont know what to do cuz its tearing me up!. how can i focus for my history and geometry tests!?Www@Answer-Health@Com


Answers:
Deep breath, deep breath!. And I am not trying to be funny here at all!.

This is a very hard time for you!. You have tests going on, it's the holiday season and you are worried that you're boyfriend is going to breakup with you!.

First thing:

I don't know how old you are!. It doesn't matter!. Guys are a dime a dozen (so are women)!. Your education is more important!. I realize your heart isn't telling you that at all, BUT in the long run, you will look back at this and be glad that you "Aced" your tests and didn't put so much worry into the guy!. I wish I had done that SO many times!. PLEASE, study hard and do well on your tests, don't worry about the guy!. If he wants to break up with you, it's his loss!. Celebrate the holidays and spend time with people who truly love and care about you!. That will help!.

Merry Christmas and Be Happy!.!.!.Life goes on!.!.!.it really does!. I promise!

Married and extremely happy,
60's ChickWww@Answer-Health@Com

studying under that type of pressure is hard!. but what you can do is defer the breaking up until after your exams!. You're not going to gain much if you break up now!.

If he does break up with you before the exams, get all your range and anger and direct it towards studying!. stay in the library and just block that from your mind!. it's ok to feel bad about it but look at the big picture and try to but the importance of the exam in perspective!.

i know it's hard!. something similar happened to me, but then I collected my self and turned out fine at the end!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

It sounds like a breakup is the best thing for you both!. Congratulate yourself on this awareness!. It is better to remain in the solution than the problem!. Still, we all have feelings - so allow yourself to experience!. Study well and do your best on those finals!. Keep in mind that you are doing a healthy thing!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

You've just got to put all thoughts of him and the relationship out of your mind until the tests are done!. Don't call or txt him tonight/tomorrow morning and then he can't break up with you!. Once your tests are done and you have a clear head then you can deal with these problems!.xxWww@Answer-Health@Com





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