I might commit suicide, help?!
Question: I might commit suicide, help!?
my life sux!. just a couple of minutes ago my dad was screaming at me because he thought i chipped a piece of granite in my house!. he said that it was probably me because i usuall damage the house but this time i didnt! he made me feel like crap!. the whole reason this argument started is because i kindly asked one of my brothers to wash his plate and he said exactly this, "no, i dont think i will" so what i did is a sprayed him with a little bit of water and being the retard he is, started crying and brought my dad over!. he yelled at me and treated me like a piece of $#!t!. now i just feel like dirt on the ground, open for everybody to step on!. at school my life is great but when i get back home, my life sux!. my brothers (both younger than me) are always picking on me since they are younger and are always excluding me from their games!. im tired of being left out, treated like dirt and feeling like dirt, and im also tired of people blaming everything on me!. my parents are in a rough time right now and usually fight every night!. they are on the verge of divorce and i am tired of the screaming and yelling and talking to people like crap!. every day that my dad gets home, my heart sinks because he never lets me do anything fun like just even go outside and shoot hoops!. this is a very depressing stage of my life!. plz help, im tired of this crap!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!Www@Answer-Health@Com
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Hi my dad was the same - he never wanted me to have any fun and he was way too strict so I know what you are saying!. I'm also the oldest of 3 and sometimes it totally sucks being the oldest but remember you are the oldest and your brothers most likely look up to you and are a bit intimidated by you because of that!.
If your little brothers are being brats why not ignore them for a while and go and do something fun without them - like go watch a good movie or something and then they might come to you because they want to join in!?
Parents fighting is hard on anyone!. It sounds like you have issues with your dad's behaviour!. Have you tried talking to your mum about how your dad is upsetting you!? Could she tell your dad that you want to spend more time outside!? Maybe you could even join a sports team and go to training after school because that would give you an excuse to get out of the house!.
I hope you tell your mum whats bothering you because I'm sure she would be nice about it and she probably doesnt realise how bad you are feeling because sometimes adults can be caught up in their own worlds!.
Good luck!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
If your little brothers are being brats why not ignore them for a while and go and do something fun without them - like go watch a good movie or something and then they might come to you because they want to join in!?
Parents fighting is hard on anyone!. It sounds like you have issues with your dad's behaviour!. Have you tried talking to your mum about how your dad is upsetting you!? Could she tell your dad that you want to spend more time outside!? Maybe you could even join a sports team and go to training after school because that would give you an excuse to get out of the house!.
I hope you tell your mum whats bothering you because I'm sure she would be nice about it and she probably doesnt realise how bad you are feeling because sometimes adults can be caught up in their own worlds!.
Good luck!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
you know, technically your dad is being abusive!. you do not have to commit suicide!. Child Services might be able to put you in a different home, because verbal abuse is still abuse!. if you do not want to be there anymore, look into it!. suicide should not be an option!. not a good way to go!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
i had the same feelings growing up, but once i moved on in my life i was strong and secure and im doing pretty well for myself i think! so basically grind through it, get some friends, have fun!Www@Answer-Health@Com
I don't know what to tell ya kid!. When I was a kid, I had a great life at school and I hated goin home!. Life is so much better for me as an adult!. All I can say is hang in there kid! Life gets way betterWww@Answer-Health@Com
Don't do it!.
Why don't you just stay with another relative that isn't so mean to you!.!? Can you stay at a friends' house!?Www@Answer-Health@Com
Why don't you just stay with another relative that isn't so mean to you!.!? Can you stay at a friends' house!?Www@Answer-Health@Com
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!.!.!. uhhh!.!.!. wow!. this is sadWww@Answer-Health@Com
You know what bro!? Your not going to do it, you know why!? Because you are better then them and you know it!. You will get through this because you are stronger than them!. you just said that things at school are better than they are at home so focus on that!. Have fun there!. When you come home, get into your own projects, Be creative!. Life is full of changes!. While things may be rough now, times will change and perhaps things will as well!. You will get older!. It isn't easy but try hard to be respecful and if it isn't an abusive household than be strong!. If it is abusive, tell someone!. Be vocal!. You deserve to be happy!. Good parents even have rough times but bad parents need to realize that kids come first!. I hope yours are ones that relaize that all their kids are important and hopefully things will turn out ok!. Never let it cross the line but be tolerant and stand tall!. Always succeed and prove to everyone that you will be the best in the family at everything and you will end up being the one who reaps the benefits in life!. Don't let this get you down!.
Good luck and stay strong!. You always have friends here!Www@Answer-Health@Com
Good luck and stay strong!. You always have friends here!Www@Answer-Health@Com
first understand that is will get worse before it gets better, about the brats stay as far away from them as possible, and find reasons to stay after school, sports, clubs anything so you don't' have to rush home and be in hell,and if you are getting blamed for stuff make them prove it was you and if it was not fight until you are believed,get tough you will need to be strong for what is coming and later when the divorce is final your little brothers will really need you and you have to be strong for them too, good luckWww@Answer-Health@Com
WHAT IF SOMEONE COMMITS SUICIDE!?
Again, this may be something that some may find it very hard to read!. What if someone commits suicide!? The idea has been expressed that in the Christian tradition the person would be expected to "go to Hell!." What is someone tries!? The idea has been expressed that the person has committed a major sin!. Is that true!? Is there something broader that should be considered!? What kind of issues could we be thinking about!?
First, let
Again, this may be something that some may find it very hard to read!. What if someone commits suicide!? The idea has been expressed that in the Christian tradition the person would be expected to "go to Hell!." What is someone tries!? The idea has been expressed that the person has committed a major sin!. Is that true!? Is there something broader that should be considered!? What kind of issues could we be thinking about!?
First, let
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