Will my husband ever forgive me?!
Question: Will my husband ever forgive me!?
I am 25 and my husband is 28, we have been married for 4 years!. we love each other so much its sick(in a good way)!. Recently about 2 months ago i made a huge mistake of having a one night stand!.I have been under a lot of stress lately!. I told him about it myself & he flipped at me(understandable) but said he never wants to lose me!. I have been regretting it ever since & am doing everything to win his trust back!. He can bearly touch me anymore let alone have a proper conversation with me, although he still sleeps with me when he feels like it!. I packed everything from NY & moved to New Jersey to live with him, and still travel to the city to work which is hard!. Will we ever be the way we use to be with each other or is it all over for us!? He is the only stable man i have in my life as my dad is very dangerous & has been in jail since i was a child & my mother died of an over dose when i was 16, so he has always been there for me and i owe him so much! Or where we too young to get married!?Www@Answer-Health@Com
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You two have a long road ahead of you!. It is possible to stay together if he wants to!. He has to be willing to give you another chance and trust you again!. This is going to take time!. You have to give him that time and not get upset or frustrated at him!. love can overcome anything!. you need to evaluate yourself and see if you truly want to be with him and figure out why you cheated in the first place!? good luck!Www@Answer-Health@Com
It's possible!.
But you'll definetly have to rebuild your trust again & show him how much you love and care, & that you realized you made a big mistake!.
Honestly, your lucky he didn't leave you, alot of people, whether it be male or female,usually they would have left in this situation!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
But you'll definetly have to rebuild your trust again & show him how much you love and care, & that you realized you made a big mistake!.
Honestly, your lucky he didn't leave you, alot of people, whether it be male or female,usually they would have left in this situation!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
I think you have your work cut out for you and you better work very hard if you want things back to the way they used to be!. I don't think you were too young to get married!.!.that's like saying people in their 20's are too young to commit and are supposed to sleep around for a while first!. That's totally not true!Www@Answer-Health@Com
pray!.!.!. Only Time will heal he's hurts!.!. I feel sorry for him because if you really love some one that much and then hurt you like that!.!.!. he feels that he lost everything!.!.!.!. I'm sure over time he'll forgive you and thing will get easier but he won't ever forget what happened!.!.
I'm sorry you are having a hard time!.!.!.!. but If you really loved him you wouldn't have done it!.!.!.
God bless and Hope your mar rage works out!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
I'm sorry you are having a hard time!.!.!.!. but If you really loved him you wouldn't have done it!.!.!.
God bless and Hope your mar rage works out!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
It might take time, but if he says that it's fine and he doesn't want to loose you then don't bring the subject up unless he does
He doesn't need to be reminded by the thing that hurts the mostWww@Answer-Health@Com
He doesn't need to be reminded by the thing that hurts the mostWww@Answer-Health@Com
No, it can't be the way it was beforehand!. You ruined that!. Your best recourse is to try to start rebuilding the trust you once shared!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
It's hard to say!. With time, some people get over these things, some people don't!. Marriage counseling usually helps a great deal in these situations!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Your husband sounds like a great man after what you did!. So I believe he will!. And try harder to earn his trust!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Why would you do that!?Www@Answer-Health@Com
time might heal his broken heart, do what you can to prove to him you made a bad mistakeWww@Answer-Health@Com
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Just try to make him realize that you are very much regretting it and it was huge mistake!. Tell him that you really trust him and feel very sorry that you hurt his feeling!.Be affectionate, caring and loving!. Also if possible take a break from your job , give your hubby some exclusive time!. When he sees that he matters a lot to you, he will get soft and things will start to get normal again!. And don't lose hope, your firm determination matters a lot!.Try to win back his love and trust!. I hope he will get over it as the time passes!. Best wishes :)
Yahya!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Yahya!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Time is the only answer!. Be understanding, not condescending!. If he wants to talk about it, talk about it!. Be sensitive to his concerns, show him you really care how much you hurt him and how sorry you are!. Don't try and defend yourself and try and justify what you did w/ "stress"!. It was a deliberate mistake, you didn't just "Oops! I fell in to your bed and now I'm accidently sleeping with you!"!.!.!.it happened!. The good thing you have done was come clean!. I'm sure it felt like the world was lifted off your shoulders when you did that!. Lastly but not least, in all my doubts I talk with the only one who truely knows!.!.!. Jesus!. Prayer is a powerful tool, don't be afraid to use it!. Hang in there hun!Www@Answer-Health@Com
i don't think you was too young to get married, i was 21 when i got married! you are very lucky woman for him to take you back, i had an ex boyfriend who cheated on me all the time, he was also violent and controlling which made my self confidence go down so i didn't want anybody because i thought he was helping! i would always forgive him for what he had done and he would still abuse my trust, but for a couple of months after the first time i couldn't look at him because i felt that disgusted by what he had done!! i did get over it so maybe your husband will to!! just really build his trust back up, it will take a long time and A lot of hard work will have to go into it, but he has already started to forgive you because he still wants to be with you! just think about what you have done talk to him about it tell him how guilty you feel about it and tell him it was mistake, but the trust is never going to be there 100% with either of you now because deep down you will be waiting for him to do it to you!!
hope everything works out for you!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
hope everything works out for you!.Www@Answer-Health@Com