Personality disorder...?!
Question: Personality disorder!.!.!.!?
Ok, I'm 16 years old and male!.!.!. And I know I have a good personality(lots of new friends, etc etc), but it's like I don't always have it!.!.!. Even when I'm around my family, like I'm eating lunch with my bro and I have this weird nervousness and I lose all of my humor or can't think of anything decent to say/respond!. Other times I'm really entertaining!. I've always had this, and I always just thought it's because I'm moody or something but lately that nervous introverted side has been taking over my whole life and I'm like this almost all the time!.
This probably doesn't make a whole lot of sense, but has anyone experienced something like this before!? I just don't know what to do and my family is to poor to buy me a therapist or medicines!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
This probably doesn't make a whole lot of sense, but has anyone experienced something like this before!? I just don't know what to do and my family is to poor to buy me a therapist or medicines!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Answers:
It sounds like your having some major anxiety!. Has maybe something really awful taken place in your life recently!? Sometimes anxiety is caused by a bigger problem, a death, some one moving away, or maybe the fear of something that's about to happen!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
It's okay to feel like this once in awhile!. You don't have to be "on" all the time!. It sounds like if you are not entertaining you feel nervous!. It's perfectly okay to be calm and peaceful and not fill up every second with noise of some sort when with others!. In the meantime, make sure you are not using caffeine, lots of sugar, any kind of drugs!. Take a multivitamin every day and also you can try St!. John's Wort if you still feel too anxious, it is relatively inexpensive and is an herbal product!. Hope this helps!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Personality does not merely mean good physique and appearance!. Face is the index of man!. God has given face, we have to give a real expression to our face!. Personality consists of variety of things like habit, behavior, character, attitude, vision, approach, etc!. Increasing knowledge and decreasing ignorance improves personality!. Like that nobility, virtue, pious nature, good tongue (speech), clear and proper understanding, adjustment, cooperation, sacrificial nature, service, politeness all these count in knowing the real personality!. Smile!. It gives good personality!. Gain lot of good will and invest in good will!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Don't sweat it man!.
At that age a lot of things get weird!.
It's just part of growing up!.
Little kids need to be entertained a lot!.
They want to be the center of attention!.
Grownups entertain themselves by doing what interests them!.
You're just in between at the moment!.
It's O K!. - It'll pass!.
Take time for yourself when you need to!.
Figure out what your interests are!.
Your friends will be going through the same thing!.
They just won't admit it so easily
which is why everyone feels like it's only happening to them!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
At that age a lot of things get weird!.
It's just part of growing up!.
Little kids need to be entertained a lot!.
They want to be the center of attention!.
Grownups entertain themselves by doing what interests them!.
You're just in between at the moment!.
It's O K!. - It'll pass!.
Take time for yourself when you need to!.
Figure out what your interests are!.
Your friends will be going through the same thing!.
They just won't admit it so easily
which is why everyone feels like it's only happening to them!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Oh heck, we all act differently around different people!. Sometimes it is a subconscious thing because we respect those we are around!. In other cases, we may actually fear them!. And in still others, especially around someone we have a special and perhaps, secret affection for!.!.!. we tend to stifle or characteristics!.
I'm no doctor but!.!.!. I wouldn't sweat it none!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
I'm no doctor but!.!.!. I wouldn't sweat it none!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
It doesn't sound as if you have a personality disorder (this is a psychiatric condition - can be very serious and people affected cannot handle relationships or Integration in society very well)!.
It does sound as if you are very thoughtful and intelligent, going by what you wrote, and you are only 16 years old - this is probably all that makes you as you are at the moment - teenage years!
Maybe you don't like to hear that but it is probably caused by your hormones and growing up from a child to adulthood!. This can be quite a difficult time because you now have to relate to people in a different way, more as an adult, people will also treat you differently now that you are nearly grown up, sometimes without much thought to the fact that you are new to this!. It all can be a bit scary!.
As long as you have plenty of friends (they probably feel similar to you sometimes), and good relationships with your family you should be OK!.
But if you are really worried, is there someone you could talk to about these issues, such as a good friend, teacher, relative!?
If you feel really bad about things then do go and talk to your doctor, do not worry about having no money for medication at this stage, you might not need any!. A doctor can also refer you to a therapist if he/she feels that this is necessary!.
There are also counselling telephone numbers you could ring, some are aimed at young people!.
Hopefully this helps, good luck!Www@Answer-Health@Com
It does sound as if you are very thoughtful and intelligent, going by what you wrote, and you are only 16 years old - this is probably all that makes you as you are at the moment - teenage years!
Maybe you don't like to hear that but it is probably caused by your hormones and growing up from a child to adulthood!. This can be quite a difficult time because you now have to relate to people in a different way, more as an adult, people will also treat you differently now that you are nearly grown up, sometimes without much thought to the fact that you are new to this!. It all can be a bit scary!.
As long as you have plenty of friends (they probably feel similar to you sometimes), and good relationships with your family you should be OK!.
But if you are really worried, is there someone you could talk to about these issues, such as a good friend, teacher, relative!?
If you feel really bad about things then do go and talk to your doctor, do not worry about having no money for medication at this stage, you might not need any!. A doctor can also refer you to a therapist if he/she feels that this is necessary!.
There are also counselling telephone numbers you could ring, some are aimed at young people!.
Hopefully this helps, good luck!Www@Answer-Health@Com