Is our relationship TOO perfect?!


Question: Is our relationship TOO perfect!?
i have been with my boyfriend 10 years this year!. im 25 and madly in love with him!. he is an FDNY firefighter and since 9/11 after losing alot of people close to both of us, he has changed his out look on life & really lives for the moment!. last year when we were engaged we broke up for 2 months after i lost my dad(who was also a firefighter) i couldn't deal with it and i knew it wasn't fair on him so i broke up with him, but he was there for me all the way through it!. we are back together now and he has told me he never wants to lose me again & he really wants us to get married but i think i need more time after the loss of my dad!. he is amazing to me he treats me like im the only girl in the world and will sometimes even sing to me, at a party or somewhere!. i fall more in love with him every time i see him!. im just scared of being this happy as my whole life has been a whir wind of drama, being the youngest in a big family with older siblings, alcoholics in the family, fights,losing a baby,most my family are firefighters so i've been to alot of funerals & i also lost my brother a few years ago & lost my mom 2 years ago etc!. im scared something bad is going to take all this happiness away from me!.Www@Answer-Health@Com


Answers:
I'm so sorry for your losses, but I think your bofriends outlook on life is just right, live for the moment!
What you two have sounds absolutly amazing, I would give anything for that, i think anybody would give anything for that and you have it right there in your hands, and you're questioning over whether to throwi t all away!?!
Don't be crazy girl, live your life (:Www@Answer-Health@Com

There's no such thing as perfect!. There's nothing wrong with happiness, enjoy it!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

Enjoy the moment while it lasts!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

Hardly perfect!. What are you afraid of!? You use everything in your life as an excuse to avoid marriage!. I would suggest you let him lead his life and you lead yours, I would think you are the only one that can see all of the negatives in your life!. You probably don't like what I'm saying but it's time to let this poor victim of your insecurities get on with his life!.Www@Answer-Health@Com





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