Is there anything more painful than grieving?!
Question: Is there anything more painful than grieving!?
I'm coming up to the second anniversary of the death of the man I loved!. Its such a painful time as I miss him so much!. Does anyone have any advice on how I can get through this!?
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Answers:
Emotionally - there can be nothing worse!. I'm sorry to hear that!. Unfortunately the ONLY way to get over this is to move on with your life!. He would understand completely - he wouldn't want you to suffer in this way!.
It does not mean forgetting him, but it means immersing yourself in new things, and potentially even a new partner to distract yourself from the pain!. The old saying that time heals everything is a true one!. Eventually the pain will dim, but if you allow to sit on your chest heavily like a ton of bricks, it will take much much longer to recover from!.
I wish you all the best in this!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
It does not mean forgetting him, but it means immersing yourself in new things, and potentially even a new partner to distract yourself from the pain!. The old saying that time heals everything is a true one!. Eventually the pain will dim, but if you allow to sit on your chest heavily like a ton of bricks, it will take much much longer to recover from!.
I wish you all the best in this!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Oh sweetie, I'm so sorry!. Grieving affects people in so many different ways and it is usually a matter of time!. That time is again dependent on you and your coping methods!. Have you had any bereavement counselling!? any professional help at all!? It may be an avenue for you to explore!.
Perhaps planning something to do on the anniversary may help you!. Even if you decide to do something small and alone, like visiting his resting place and laying flowers or a poem or releasing balloons that take your love for him high into the sky!.
I found all this impossible for 8 years, tears would still come if his name was even mentioned!. I started to write a journal of my feelings and one day I found I didn't cry!. It was like I could let go enough to stop the terrible pain in my heart!.
I carried on journaling all my thoughts, however random, until one day, I realised I no longer needed to!.
I had let go of the pain and knew I had to rebuild my life for myself!.
Inside my heart he never leaves, his memory fills that empty space, he is always with me!.
Maybe even an internet site for grieving people might help you!.
Perhaps taking up a new hobby or interest may also help a little and as you progress with this, you will find that you can once again live without that emptyness and pain!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Perhaps planning something to do on the anniversary may help you!. Even if you decide to do something small and alone, like visiting his resting place and laying flowers or a poem or releasing balloons that take your love for him high into the sky!.
I found all this impossible for 8 years, tears would still come if his name was even mentioned!. I started to write a journal of my feelings and one day I found I didn't cry!. It was like I could let go enough to stop the terrible pain in my heart!.
I carried on journaling all my thoughts, however random, until one day, I realised I no longer needed to!.
I had let go of the pain and knew I had to rebuild my life for myself!.
Inside my heart he never leaves, his memory fills that empty space, he is always with me!.
Maybe even an internet site for grieving people might help you!.
Perhaps taking up a new hobby or interest may also help a little and as you progress with this, you will find that you can once again live without that emptyness and pain!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
which is better,the man you love most died or the man you love most love another!?
for me id rather choose the first coz i know hes not with someone else!.!.!.so,be happy!.!.!. hes up there,watching you!.!.and hel probably sad seeing you sad!.!. be happy so he will be happy too in heaven!.!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
for me id rather choose the first coz i know hes not with someone else!.!.!.so,be happy!.!.!. hes up there,watching you!.!.and hel probably sad seeing you sad!.!. be happy so he will be happy too in heaven!.!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
if only it was that simple,its possible one of the worst things you can go through,and as much as you may want to you cant switch it off,time is the healer,its just a waiting game!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
It is painful, but you do have to accept the facts and move on in your life!. I am sure he wouldn't want to see you this way!.
I wish you all the best!. Time does heal, everyone has there own time period!. All the best!. Stay strong!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
I wish you all the best!. Time does heal, everyone has there own time period!. All the best!. Stay strong!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
All the love he ever gave you is still yours, it hasn't gone anywhere!.
Make a new life for yourself!. You've lost the fantasy of being together forever!. All he ever was is still with you!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Make a new life for yourself!. You've lost the fantasy of being together forever!. All he ever was is still with you!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
It might sound hard but let go!. Would he want you to feel like this!?
I know it's hard, it will never go away but the pain will dull slightly!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
I know it's hard, it will never go away but the pain will dull slightly!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
I give you a very compassionate (and platonic) hug!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
think as it that he went to a better placeWww@Answer-Health@Com
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