Sometimes i just randomly cry and i dont know why?!
Question: Sometimes i just randomly cry and i dont know why!?
Just now i just had this random crying moment!.!.
Im 17 and i was thinking about one of my child hood friends!.!. there 18 and when we wer 13 and 14 they moved half way acros the country!.!. they had been my best friend since they wer 5 and stil r and always wil b!.!. we dont contact each other much but there is this unbreakable bond!.!. we will always be best friends!.!. anyway they rang me the other night and told me they are moving to europe! and i was just in my room and i started reminissing about all of our memories together and i started crying and although i was crying i was so happy for my friend who is doing so well with their life and i just wanted to tell them how proud i am to call them my friend and how important they are to me and stuff!.!. which i will when i get the chance!.!. but i still just cried and cried while i thought abou them!.!.
I didnt even cry when they moved away!.!. i figure that even thou i was so happy for them and happy reliving our memories that perhaps i was crying becuz subconciously i never dealt with them moving away when we were 13 and 14 and perhaps them moving from america to europe brought these emotions forward!.!.
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Im 17 and i was thinking about one of my child hood friends!.!. there 18 and when we wer 13 and 14 they moved half way acros the country!.!. they had been my best friend since they wer 5 and stil r and always wil b!.!. we dont contact each other much but there is this unbreakable bond!.!. we will always be best friends!.!. anyway they rang me the other night and told me they are moving to europe! and i was just in my room and i started reminissing about all of our memories together and i started crying and although i was crying i was so happy for my friend who is doing so well with their life and i just wanted to tell them how proud i am to call them my friend and how important they are to me and stuff!.!. which i will when i get the chance!.!. but i still just cried and cried while i thought abou them!.!.
I didnt even cry when they moved away!.!. i figure that even thou i was so happy for them and happy reliving our memories that perhaps i was crying becuz subconciously i never dealt with them moving away when we were 13 and 14 and perhaps them moving from america to europe brought these emotions forward!.!.
ANy ideas
THANKS SO MUCH :DWww@Answer-Health@Com
Answers:
Crying is just an outpouring, and you obviously need to be doing it for some reason!. You are amazingly observant for 17!. It is a release, a resolving, however subtle!. Or, as another answerer said, it is hormones!.
Being older, and pretty confident that I have the hormone thing under control, I have noticed I cry alot!. Not balling, but a wonderful kind of release!. I cry at beautiful things, and even if it something horrible, it feels good when it is happening because it is such an intense expression for what I am seeing or experiencing!. When you cried about your friend, not only was it sadness, but it was an expression of love!. Maybe that love could not be felt to such an extent had the release of sadness not happened!.
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Being older, and pretty confident that I have the hormone thing under control, I have noticed I cry alot!. Not balling, but a wonderful kind of release!. I cry at beautiful things, and even if it something horrible, it feels good when it is happening because it is such an intense expression for what I am seeing or experiencing!. When you cried about your friend, not only was it sadness, but it was an expression of love!. Maybe that love could not be felt to such an extent had the release of sadness not happened!.
This was a great post, very honest and interesting!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Cherish your memories!. They sound beautiful!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
sounds like ya hit the nail on the head!. :)
keep searching yourself, you may find other insights there!. :)Www@Answer-Health@Com
keep searching yourself, you may find other insights there!. :)Www@Answer-Health@Com
what you felt is what a compassionate caring human being feels when they care for someone!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
sounds like a normal reactionWww@Answer-Health@Com
Me too!. You know why!? Because life really sucks a lot and hard sometimes!. I mean sometimes, no matter what you can't be free!. You can be free in your mind but oh, it's not fair!. Then people tell you that it is fair, but they won't really help you, no they leave you to do that on your own!. Because that's the way this world is!. Slavery existed and still exists in this world!. Kids get abused everyday!. And people think life is beautiful like that Roberto Benigi movie!. It's absolutely sick this world is!. And when I die, I hope I don't come back!. Americanism sort of sucks!. I'm always going to hate society and thouse that impose their will on others!. and I'm going to hate life generally speaking!. I hate it because the cards weren't dealt right!. And even when they are, they aren't!.
You know!? You have such intent and then life says no, no!. You have such goals and visions and life says no way, no how!. And then you can't get away from it!. And you just become miserable!. And then, oh yes, it's your fault!. Oh sure, it's your fault for making the world suck some more!. Whatever!. This world is crazy!. Life itself is crazy!. And anyone who says different is trying to sell something!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
You know!? You have such intent and then life says no, no!. You have such goals and visions and life says no way, no how!. And then you can't get away from it!. And you just become miserable!. And then, oh yes, it's your fault!. Oh sure, it's your fault for making the world suck some more!. Whatever!. This world is crazy!. Life itself is crazy!. And anyone who says different is trying to sell something!.Www@Answer-Health@Com