I am dead emotionally..Why not be dead physically ?!


Question: I am dead emotionally!.!.Why not be dead physically !?
I am so serious it's not even funny!. I am so depressed and dead emotionally!. I cried for like 3-4 hours tonight!. It is just a never ending saga with me and this depression!. I was going to go to the emergency room tonight but than I figured that they would probably just laugh at me and tell me to go away!. I am just so argghWww@Answer-Health@Com


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Alright, babe, let me tell you something!.!.!. You're starting to sound like- way too messed up here! You need to take that child to your mom's house or to someone who can take care of her and then go take care of yourself!! You are very sick right now! I'm almost kinda scared for your baby's sake! You're actually starting to freak me out! You NEED to calm the HELL down! I'm not kidding!. I have been where you are right now!. I know what you are going through and I want to say that God has a plan for you! And it's NOT for you to kill yourself! Don't do it! You need to tell someone!. And you need to do it now!. RIGHT NOW!. Do you love that little girl!? Then you need to look at her and think about her!. If her daddy walked out on you and her, then what's her life going to be like later on when she's older when she has to tell all her friends where her mom is, too!? You think YOUR childhood was tough!? Well, why make your baby's tough, too!? Make hers better!. YOU CAN DO IT!! You are stronger than that! Come on!Www@Answer-Health@Com

I feel like that sometimes!. Instead of wanting to die, why don't you try to figure out what is making you feel that way!?
I am starting to realize for me, I am depressed during the week because since I was 18 I drink way too much on the weekends and probably am an alcoholic!. So I feel misplaced all the time and lethargic!.
Seek God and find the root of your problems, then work on them!.
All the best to you because I truly know from the bottom of my heart how hard depression is and it feels so lonely but your not alone!.
I forgot to add, I'm sure if you went to the emergency room they would give you some meds or refer you to someone not laugh at you!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

I'm wondering how long ago you had the baby and whether it may be post partum depression!. I'm not sure if I would go to the hospital due to the possibility they might "intervene" A personal and confidential counselor might be a better option if you can afford it!. Sometimes friends and family can just make it worse and tend to talk more about their own problems then listen to yours!.

There must be a good reason for the way you are feeling!. Once you understand what the cause is then you can work on it!. If there is no fixing it you could try playing MMORPG's
I know this sounds like crazy and stupid advice but it will help you forget your problems and give the illusion of a social life if that's what you are lacking!.

They can be pretty addicting and lower your productivity but!.!.!. if that's a sacrifice you are willing to make for your own sanity!.!.!.!.You could try World of Warcraft there's a 30 day free trial or some newer game!. You could play fiesta ( a lot of kids in this game) which is free and doesn't require a monthly subscription!. You could go to fileplanet and see what's available!. If nothing else it will take your focus off your depression, you just need something to keep your mind occupied, and other adults to talk to while you have free time!. And yes adults do play video games lol!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

apparently you are a mother!. Have you considered postpartum depression!? you should see a psychiatrist asap and get medicated if that is the case!. It's the safest way to deal with it right now!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

It sounds like you've been struggling with this for a long time!. But if you really wanted to die, I don't think you'd bother to write a yahoo question!. Just the fact that you're asking for help means you have the strength to deal with this!.

Go to the emergency room, ask for whatever help you can!. They won't laugh at you, they might just make you wait!. They certainly won't tell you to go away!. If you tell them you are thinking about dying, you might get seen more quickly!.

Depression is an illness, just like cancer!. And, like cancer, not everyone wins the fight with depression!. But the people who win are the ones who seek help and don't give up!. And you are seeking help!.

Don't let anyone (including yourself) tell you to just "get over it!." No one would say that if you were physically ill!.

Do you have a trust-worthy friend or family member you can turn to!? Someone you can talk to!? At the very least, having someone with you in the hospital would make the wait more bearable!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

listen, from your name it sounds like ur someones mom and proud of it dont kill yourself if im right children can be stressful play with your child more and if that doesnt help get your child to daycare and hang out with some friends or go see a movie or go to the mall and buy some stuff but dont make yourself go into debt just spend something that wont hurt your paycheckWww@Answer-Health@Com

I recommend you check out this social networking community called LetsReflect!.com!. There are people there going through situations similar to yours!. They are great for advice and encouragement!.

The process of Self Reflection has truly changed my life



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