I'm obsessed with him.....help?!


Question: I'm obsessed with him!.!.!.!.!.help!?
I have been in love with a man for seven years now!. At first he was interested in me, but I was so shy with him that he gave up on me and now he doesn't want anything to do with me!. I have been completely obsessed these entire 7 years!.!.!.I think about him many times in a day, fantasize about him, think of ways to impress him constantly!.!.I am so obsessed that if I could track him down, I would stalk him everyday just to watch him!. I know this obsession will never fully go away, but do you have any ideas on what could help it!? realistically!? and no i don't want to meet any other man!.!.only if he was exactly like this man I love!.!.Www@Answer-Health@Com


Answers:
Be strong enough to tell yourself the truth!
It's not gonna happen!

I'm pretty sure you're more obsessed with him because he's ignoring you!. He's not the only one who will ever be interested in you!. While you're imagining him in your life, imagine him as somebody else!. Might as well, this guy's not coming back!. It doesn't matter what you do, and especially since you keep trying that he will continue to avoid you!. You may have misinterpreted his interest even in the beginning!.

You know that it's unhealthy!. You want it to stop but you keep feeding into it because there isn't anything else in your life to fill the void of not having him in your life!. You just never got a chance to find out what might have been and you might be lucky you didn't!. He didn't stick around long enough to really know you so he's obviously not the right guy!.

If you want it to stop, you must starve your obsession or feed it something else instead!. Divert the energy chasing something that doesn't stay just beyond reach!.!.!.something that wants to be caught!. You can do this!Www@Answer-Health@Com

It is impossible for you to see how you will feel about this 5 years from now!. You wouldn't believe it anyway!. It is normal to pretend like he is with you during the day I do it too sometimes !.!.as much as I don't want to admit it!. As strong as your feelings are you are in control, not them!. It is hard but eventually you will get over him when you decide you want to!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

You need to seek professional help!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

Well, as much as i hate to admit it, I am getting over something like this!.

This guy really liked me a few yrs ago, and I finally noticed him, really liked him, we would flirt and all, but I was too shy to ever let it go anywhere!. Same deal-- he gave up on me!. I am still in love with him, I know I shouldnt be, but I am!. I am really starting to get over it lately tho!. I think you need some kind of closure!. Thats what I needed!. I needed him to flat out say he wasn't interested!. That's when I could fully start to get over it!. otherwise I was torturing myself with thoughts like "I can't let myself get over him-- what if he actually IS interested and I just don't know it!?" and things like that!.

But yea, I still think about him!.!. not as much as I used to, but I do!. And still from time to time daydream that he's with me while I am doing things during the day!.

I think you need to find a way to get some kind of closure from this man!. It WILL fully go away in time, it's just hard to see that happening right now!.

And it's hard to just "get over" them, and meet other people because you just end up comparing everyone to the guy you're in love with, and its just not quite the same!.

Good luck!. Email me if you wanna talk about it!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

wow and I thought I was obsessed
I'm still hung up on this guy and I haven't seen him in months
I wish I wish I could help you out on this but I'm trying to figure away out to forget about a certain person
sorry, good luckWww@Answer-Health@Com





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