How do you handle it when people whom you dislike, who you consider your enemy, !
Question: How do you handle it when people whom you dislike, who you consider your enemy, are nice to you!?
people who you avoid and would rather they avoid you to, and you dont want them in your life, they then approach your life in persistant ways , knowing that their happy niceness will annoy and aggravate you even more !?
seriously howd you handle that !? because it makes me angry, i become enraged , and i fail because i cant handle it!.!.
i avoid them, dont involve myself with anything about their life or their business , keep to my own affairs , but they still try to contact you or communicate with you in someway , even in ways whether its by making a comment about your situation on a public forum!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
seriously howd you handle that !? because it makes me angry, i become enraged , and i fail because i cant handle it!.!.
i avoid them, dont involve myself with anything about their life or their business , keep to my own affairs , but they still try to contact you or communicate with you in someway , even in ways whether its by making a comment about your situation on a public forum!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Answers:
My opinion is that they know you don't want this attention from them and they are either doing it on purpose to get a rise out of you which you should never give them the satisfaction of knowing it bothers you or they are trying to pull something on you!.
I wouldn't show anger that they can see and I wouldn't play their game either!. I would just shrug my shoulders as if you don't care and walk away with no expression what so ever!.
I wouldn't give them any answers or anything to go by on how you are feeling about them or what they are doing!.
I know this is so much easier said than done but take it from someone who has been in your place; I speak the truth and know they will eventually just leave you alone because they aren't getting any reaction at all from you be it negative or positive!.
If some are calling you on the phone; do not answer and do not reply to any messages left for you!.
You will still be angry but only voice that to someone who won't tell "the others" how it truly affects you!.
Just as ignorance is bliss so is ignoring people like this!.
I hope this helpsWww@Answer-Health@Com
I wouldn't show anger that they can see and I wouldn't play their game either!. I would just shrug my shoulders as if you don't care and walk away with no expression what so ever!.
I wouldn't give them any answers or anything to go by on how you are feeling about them or what they are doing!.
I know this is so much easier said than done but take it from someone who has been in your place; I speak the truth and know they will eventually just leave you alone because they aren't getting any reaction at all from you be it negative or positive!.
If some are calling you on the phone; do not answer and do not reply to any messages left for you!.
You will still be angry but only voice that to someone who won't tell "the others" how it truly affects you!.
Just as ignorance is bliss so is ignoring people like this!.
I hope this helpsWww@Answer-Health@Com
It could be them trying to be genuine or it could be them just trying to get a rise out of you!. Try just ignoring them at first, don't answer them and don't look at them!. If they keep doing I'd say just play along!. If they show they are being sarcastic than do the same to them!. If they show they don't like you, do the same to them!. The only thing you shouldn't do is let them see your anger because they feed of that!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Maybe they are serious!? Just play along and see if it is real!.!.!. if its not, then they'll stop eventually!. They will get bored!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Keep your friends close, your enemies closer!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
It depends on why I dislike them!. Like if someone rubs me the wrong way, I try to get over it and be friendly!. But if it's someone who has done something major or repeatedly to me, I avoid them like the plague and though I'll be civil to them, I try to remain unapproachable!. I avoid calls, delete emails!. The public forum thing is tricky!. On the one hand, you want to keep your dignity and the best way you can do that is by not responding!. However, maybe a direct response is called for in this situation!. Only you can make that call, though!. Good luck :)Www@Answer-Health@Com
I agree with all the answers above!. Just be polite to this person, don't show anger or contempt, and avoid being in the same place as they are if you don't want to be around them!. You don't have to answer your phone if they call, or say that you can't talk at the moment if you do answer!. If you are caught in the same place as them, stare past them or look at the base of their throat when speaking to them!. You avoid eye contact and thus could avoid a confrontational situation!.
You are giving this person way too much power over your life and your affairs, hence the reason behind your anger!.
How can someone comment about your situation on a public forum unless they know about your personal life and business!?
Do not give out any information that you don't want people to know!. Don't think about this person It sounds like you have created a loop in your mind about them and how they make you feel!. Distract yourself in other ways and stop thinking about them!. Short of physically harming you, there isn't much they can do to you otherwise!. Remember, "Sticks and stones will break my bones, but names will never hurt me!"
Good luck!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
You are giving this person way too much power over your life and your affairs, hence the reason behind your anger!.
How can someone comment about your situation on a public forum unless they know about your personal life and business!?
Do not give out any information that you don't want people to know!. Don't think about this person It sounds like you have created a loop in your mind about them and how they make you feel!. Distract yourself in other ways and stop thinking about them!. Short of physically harming you, there isn't much they can do to you otherwise!. Remember, "Sticks and stones will break my bones, but names will never hurt me!"
Good luck!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
well like i always say you cant put yourself up by putting others down thats what he/she is doing
or there trying to be sincereWww@Answer-Health@Com
or there trying to be sincereWww@Answer-Health@Com