Why am i this way?????!
Question: Why am i this way!?!?!?!?!?
i know i ask a lot of questions about my depression sorry!.ho do i stop being too scared to tell my parents that i want to kill myself!. im just SO scared!. i can barely go through my normal day anymore!. my mom seems so happy i dont want to make her sad!. i just cant tell her i dont know why i am so scared half th time im crying is because im so scared!. btw my gf dumped me today(was depressed bore i met her) so you cant say do it for your gf anymore or think of how scared your gf is for you!. im not worth being loved anyways i am too worthless the world would be a better place if i had never lived and it would improve if i killed my self!. see how i think!!!!! im just too scared to do anything, i have started emailing a therapist but its not helping yet(i dont know if it ever will) i hate being so depressed all the time i never asked for this i never wanted this but i have it and i dont know how do deal with it!. i suppose the first step is telling a parent but i dont know how to do it, i was thinking of texting her when shes out because i dont like talking face to face about suicide!. please give me some ideas on how to deal with it or how to tell her ore even how to stop being so scared so i can tell her!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
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Tell her when you two are driving somewhere so you don't have to look at her!. Explain to her that you don't want to do it because you love her and don't want to hurt her, but that it's worrying you that you think about it!. Tell her that you don't want to die, but you think you need some help!. Ask her if you can start seeing a therapist or if you can talk to your doctor!. She may be sad or upset, but it's only because she wants you to be happy!. And the only way you can be happy is if you get some help with this!. And you have to understand how great it feels to think positively again!. It really is worth it to get help with this, because it will make your life so much better!. Just plan out ahead of time what you're going to say (like, generally, not memorizing lines or anything haha) so that you're ready when you get the opportunity to talk to her!.
Good luck with this, and I hope you feel better!. =)Www@Answer-Health@Com
Good luck with this, and I hope you feel better!. =)Www@Answer-Health@Com
hey dude i know life is hard and stuff but don't ever consider suicide please try to talk to your parents about it i know its hard but just try think about what you are going to say before you tell them and maybe write it down, it might help you be less nervous!. i'm sorry about your girlfriend, but i know you have other things going for you!. Your life isn't worthless and you are important to many people like your parents!.!.!. my ex-boyfriend was "emo" but he never wanted to talk about stuff like that!.!.!. but i was always open for him to talk to please email me if you need to talk i'm here for you :) email me a sceneheart777@rocketmail!.comWww@Answer-Health@Com
I've been the same way my whole life, suicide is never the answer, you may be the only reason that your mom is so happy whether you realize it or not and whether she says it or not!. Depressions is caused in large part by isolation, whether it's physical or mental isolation, trust me I know from 24 years of experience!. No one truly wants to kill themselves, everyone wants someone to understand them and the only way that is going to happen is by expressing yourself!. Communicate more, especially with your parents, as life goes on more and more people become distant from their parents in individualistic societies like the USA and most of Europe!. People in Asian cultures know this better than anyone because they are primarily collectivist cultures, this means that the family is a unit and a chain is only as strong as it's weakest link!.
Why don't you try telling your mom that you love her, but you're depressed all of the time without even mentioning suicide!. A lot of times parents really care about their children so much that they can't see that they're depressed, they just see the child that they raised and love!. My friend committed suicide a few years ago and I never told him how much I cared for him, I have to live with that pain everyday now, his pain was transferred to me and the people that loved him!. I want to believe that he saw his death as the only way out, an escape, as if the world would be better without him, but it isn't in anyway!. Every man, and woman, no matter what their age and situation is is a worthwhile creature that was given life so that they can protect what they care for as long as they can!.
Every man's death affects me more than you can ever know, I know you hurt, but I'm making the decision for you!. I need you to understand that suicide isn't an option, it isn't an escape from pain; I loved my friend more than he could have known, and he made such a positive impact on my life that I forgive him, but his memory is all that I have now!. I know that he didn't realize that one man can change the world, and neither do you but he did, and you can!.
Everything happens for a reason, when we accept that this is true then we can find the reason!. Study hard, I can tell you're a smart person and you have great potential, tell your family that you love them everyday but don't just say it, feel it!. I started keeping a journal, and then a weblog a few years ago, this helps a tremendous amount because all of our thoughts have a tendency to be disorganized after awhile and we can only remember the things that made us feel how we feel currently but we are much more than this!. We have a lot to be thankful for, we need to remember this or we'll be taking our friends and family for granted!. When you wake up tomorrow I want you to breathe in and thank the countless men and women that gave their lives for this country, this world and our freedom!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Why don't you try telling your mom that you love her, but you're depressed all of the time without even mentioning suicide!. A lot of times parents really care about their children so much that they can't see that they're depressed, they just see the child that they raised and love!. My friend committed suicide a few years ago and I never told him how much I cared for him, I have to live with that pain everyday now, his pain was transferred to me and the people that loved him!. I want to believe that he saw his death as the only way out, an escape, as if the world would be better without him, but it isn't in anyway!. Every man, and woman, no matter what their age and situation is is a worthwhile creature that was given life so that they can protect what they care for as long as they can!.
Every man's death affects me more than you can ever know, I know you hurt, but I'm making the decision for you!. I need you to understand that suicide isn't an option, it isn't an escape from pain; I loved my friend more than he could have known, and he made such a positive impact on my life that I forgive him, but his memory is all that I have now!. I know that he didn't realize that one man can change the world, and neither do you but he did, and you can!.
Everything happens for a reason, when we accept that this is true then we can find the reason!. Study hard, I can tell you're a smart person and you have great potential, tell your family that you love them everyday but don't just say it, feel it!. I started keeping a journal, and then a weblog a few years ago, this helps a tremendous amount because all of our thoughts have a tendency to be disorganized after awhile and we can only remember the things that made us feel how we feel currently but we are much more than this!. We have a lot to be thankful for, we need to remember this or we'll be taking our friends and family for granted!. When you wake up tomorrow I want you to breathe in and thank the countless men and women that gave their lives for this country, this world and our freedom!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Your mother loves you very much, she wants to help whatever problem that you have!. Never worry about making your mother unhappy, If you tell her she has the ability to get professional help for you!. That is what a mother wants!. I speak as a mother of a depressed son!. If he had not discussed wtih me how he was feeling and the danger of his feelings I don't know what would have happened!. I of course was so sorry that he had this problem but I was so relieved to get help for him and the medications for him that actually changed his life for the better!. Allow your mother to do her job and to love and take care of you!. That is what mothers want and need to do!. Love of a child is the strongest love of all and helping your child is the most rewarding feeling there is also!. Give your mother the opportunity to help you!. Believe this or not she knows that there is something wrong and that is not a good feeling for a mother to not know what the problem is!. Online therapy won't help your depression unless you are discussing how to tell your mother!. She loves you and needs to know!.Www@Answer-Health@Com