Guys: Could you like/love someone who was sexually abused?!


Question: Guys: Could you like/love someone who was sexually abused!?
and is suffering with some anxiety and depression!.!. How would you feel if you suspected something, or if she told you!. Would you run away!?Www@Answer-Health@Com


Answers:
I wouldn't bc now is ur chance to show that Her that not all guys are the same > But even before I do that show her that I'm Essy to to talk to and trusting and Most Importantly don't leave her side show her that I will always b there no matter what > especially for her depression and ordeals in the past such as being sexually abused I'd show her that there is a Person out there who cares no matter what happened in her life!.

Ive been in this situation before with my current girlfriend One thing that holds True is that She needed some one to b with and confide in and also to prove that she could love again and move out from the dark from the rut that she was in and live and love once more just like she had in the past and learn from it and look foreword towards the future

Tho her past has scared her for the rest of her life I still view her as the same person i've come to know since High School,Middle and Elementary School

It's funny to a point we were friends for so long that little did we know it would turn in to love!.
But whats sad really is we're not Highshool sweet harts (Had crush on her But couldn't tell bc I was afraid of rejection so she didn't know for about 8 years till June of 2007

Bc she moved 4 years ago to a different state
before she would graduate

all tho I dont know what happened jn half of those 4 years I know of the last two with her ex and hes what caused her pain and anger and so much more for those two years and also her hiden past that she wasn't free of for so long I hade to do something I couldn't stand it any longer to see her in so much pain and angwish that i had to prove to her that that there are guys out there a guy like me to rescue her from her bitter end

All I know is I llove heer so much and m glade to shere a part of my life with her from now on and in to the future :)Www@Answer-Health@Com

I work in mental health!. When I was working for a social service agency, it got to the point where, if a woman said she was NOT sexually abused, that was something unusual!.

I don't think most guys would run away!. I wouldn't!.

However, I also think that the only real answers to anxiety and depression are found in only one place: The bible!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

if i found out the person i loved was abused in some way i would fine the person who did it and make them pay for what they did, i would honestly make them wish they had never been born, turns out i am overprotective in the first placeWww@Answer-Health@Com

No I wouldn't run away!. I would do the opposite by supporting her and loving her because that is something she couldn't control and has nothing to do with love!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

Yes, and I'm in that relationship now!. Only a fool runs away from something they don't understand or can comprehend!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

If you truly love someone, I believe that their past problems shouldn't be a hindrance to that love!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

I would not run away, and any guy who runs away isn't worth a damn, so it's no loss to you!.!.!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

No, I would like/love someone for who they are, ignoring what happened in the past if that's what they wanted me to do!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

yeah who cares its the past! *im a girrll!* but i have experience so dont askWww@Answer-Health@Com





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