Please only sensitive people, why am i feeling this way?!
Question: Please only sensitive people, why am i feeling this way!?
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Okay well two weeks ago I went on a trip with my friend, their step mom, the step mom's mom, his dad, and a baby!. I think the step mom is hot and very nice (that's not what this is about, just wanted to add that)!. So during the trip I kept staring at her!.!.!.I have never ever thought anyone (not anyone, but not many gals) was hot before this, so this is very strange for me!.!.!.Okay so anyways after the trip I felt very depressed about not being with the step mom anymore, and I really miss the cabin we were in too!. I know guys aren't usually this emo!.!.so just bare with me here!. Every day I play the trip back in my head and get alot of regret and dissatisfaction, and I don't know why!.!.!.It is very hard to sleep at night because of all the thinking I do (about the trip and random stuff) !. No matter what I can't clear my head!. I'm only 15 so I can't take any pills!. NO i won't tell my parents, that's just weird!.!.!.DO NOT tell me to talk to them and don't say go talk to someone else!.!.!.I simply am not going to do that!.
Have you ever been in this situation before!? Is this normal!? Advise!.!.!.
And again i'm not going to "talk" to anyone except the PC about this!.
Thanks!.!.!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Okay well two weeks ago I went on a trip with my friend, their step mom, the step mom's mom, his dad, and a baby!. I think the step mom is hot and very nice (that's not what this is about, just wanted to add that)!. So during the trip I kept staring at her!.!.!.I have never ever thought anyone (not anyone, but not many gals) was hot before this, so this is very strange for me!.!.!.Okay so anyways after the trip I felt very depressed about not being with the step mom anymore, and I really miss the cabin we were in too!. I know guys aren't usually this emo!.!.so just bare with me here!. Every day I play the trip back in my head and get alot of regret and dissatisfaction, and I don't know why!.!.!.It is very hard to sleep at night because of all the thinking I do (about the trip and random stuff) !. No matter what I can't clear my head!. I'm only 15 so I can't take any pills!. NO i won't tell my parents, that's just weird!.!.!.DO NOT tell me to talk to them and don't say go talk to someone else!.!.!.I simply am not going to do that!.
Have you ever been in this situation before!? Is this normal!? Advise!.!.!.
And again i'm not going to "talk" to anyone except the PC about this!.
Thanks!.!.!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Answers:
I always get depressed after a very fun vacation or trip!. That's just normal!. As for the step-mom, after being around someone for a while that you're a little attracted to and then you get back to reality where youre not around them as much, well it's just hard!. You miss their attention and being around them!. That's normal too!.
You just need to stop dwelling on it!. Admit that it was a great weekend, you got to oogle a married women, and move on!. Nothing's ever going to happen with her (But you're a smart guy, you know that already) just admit how you feel but continue on with your life!. Maybe sometime in the future you'll have another great trip!.
You're still young, you've got a lot more (and better) experiences ahead of you!. :)Www@Answer-Health@Com
You just need to stop dwelling on it!. Admit that it was a great weekend, you got to oogle a married women, and move on!. Nothing's ever going to happen with her (But you're a smart guy, you know that already) just admit how you feel but continue on with your life!. Maybe sometime in the future you'll have another great trip!.
You're still young, you've got a lot more (and better) experiences ahead of you!. :)Www@Answer-Health@Com
It sounds normal to me!. What makes it seem weird to you is probably that this step mom is most likely much older than you!. Even I had thought my public speaking teacher in college was a hottie, and she was around my mom's age and she had kids! It's probably just a crush you're having!.
Don't worry about it, mate!. This is normal for your age!. :)Www@Answer-Health@Com
Don't worry about it, mate!. This is normal for your age!. :)Www@Answer-Health@Com
sounds more like a case of infatuation than anything else!.
when a thought about this trip comes to mind and they will for a while, consciously say no to it and think about something else, after a while it will be easier to not think about it!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
when a thought about this trip comes to mind and they will for a while, consciously say no to it and think about something else, after a while it will be easier to not think about it!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
you just have a little fantasy and a crush and thats ok
but you also probably know deep down that it cant/wont ever happen!.
youre 15!. it happens honey!. theres nothing wrong with you!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
but you also probably know deep down that it cant/wont ever happen!.
youre 15!. it happens honey!. theres nothing wrong with you!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Its not unusual for adolescents to have feelings for older more mature people!. But there isent much you can do about it just suck it up and move on!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
umm!.!.!. Well I don't think that is very normal, but it happens sometimes!.!.!. Meet some more girls your age, you'll probably find another one that you like betterWww@Answer-Health@Com
totally normal!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Its normal!. 15 years old!? Thats hormone central, my friend!.
Just give it time!. You'll find someone suited for youWww@Answer-Health@Com
Just give it time!. You'll find someone suited for youWww@Answer-Health@Com
its normal!.
just go around her more and you'll get used to her!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
just go around her more and you'll get used to her!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
OMG DUDE U SOUND TOTALY HOTT!!! (i just wantd 2 say tht ;) )
n yes i kno how tht feels bt dnt wory it wil go awayWww@Answer-Health@Com
n yes i kno how tht feels bt dnt wory it wil go awayWww@Answer-Health@Com
Hm, well I've never been in this exact situation, but as far as thinking about someone and replaying the stuff you've done together over and over - oh yeah, I'm there!.
Do you think maybe you have a crush on the stepmom!?
You wouldn't qualify for taking any pills anyway, so don't worry about that, and you certainly don't need to talk to your parents or a shrink about this!.
What I really think you should do is provide yourself with things to do so you don't have as much time to dwell on this!. Get around your friends more, maybe even more girls so you can be distracted, pick up some hobbies - exercise so when you come in at night you're too exhausted to really think!.
That's what's really helped me!. That's really not much I can say!. It's only been two weeks too, it will probably just pass over!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Do you think maybe you have a crush on the stepmom!?
You wouldn't qualify for taking any pills anyway, so don't worry about that, and you certainly don't need to talk to your parents or a shrink about this!.
What I really think you should do is provide yourself with things to do so you don't have as much time to dwell on this!. Get around your friends more, maybe even more girls so you can be distracted, pick up some hobbies - exercise so when you come in at night you're too exhausted to really think!.
That's what's really helped me!. That's really not much I can say!. It's only been two weeks too, it will probably just pass over!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
I have been in situations where I have been attracted to older men, but never thought much of it!. It sounds to me like you are really attracted to that woman and you know that's not right, so you feel remorse about it, and that's why you feel sad!. Also since you mention she has been one of the first women you have been attracted to, the feeling is random to you!. I don't think you should tell anybody about it, unless you feel like your life is out of control because of it!. You might be falling in love with her, or it's simply an attraction!. If it is just an attraction let that be that!.!.!. just an attraction!. You're a man and it's okay if you have those feelings!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
You have a classic student/teacher type crush!. You are a walking hormone right now that is your problem!. You are controlled by the urge and you can't think of anything else!. You will have to find a way to vent your built up cravings before you erupt!. It can't be with the step mom I'm sorry to say!. But remember that song a few years ago where the mom is getting massaged by the pool!. That might do the trick for ya!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
lol, ok, there is a possibility that you like the stepmom!.as in a mini crush, or your hormones are just acting up, and ur reacting to anything that you find remotely hot:) and your also just getting nostalgic, and thinking about the trip because the trip was probably really fun, and you want to go on the trip sometime again soon, lol!.!.!. so!.!.!. ur thinking about this trip alot:)
it should be a phase, if you like the step mom, coz when your a teenager, ur hormones aren't stable:)
and don't worry, just keep on thinking about the trip, because it'll get out of your head one day when you find something else better to think about, such as a new trip:)Www@Answer-Health@Com
it should be a phase, if you like the step mom, coz when your a teenager, ur hormones aren't stable:)
and don't worry, just keep on thinking about the trip, because it'll get out of your head one day when you find something else better to think about, such as a new trip:)Www@Answer-Health@Com
I think I know what you are feeling- I went on a cruise in November with a bunch of people I knew from the place I moved from and it was absolutely amazing and when I got back home, I couldnt stop thinking about it and felt depressed for like 2 weeks!.!.!. that could just be because my overprotective parents prevent me from having a life so half the time i sit at home doing nothing!. I think you need to be distracted- this happened to me because I have no life and it was nice to live for four days- I felt depressed when I got back because I tasted a little freedom and I realized just how depressing my life is!. Either you have a really depressing life and are upset about this because of the fun you had or you just need to be distracted!. You'll be fine and I doubt you need medication!. If you don't want to talk to anyone about it then thats fine- its really hard for me to find someone I can talk to about my feelings like this (and I'm a girl!) so its probably hard for you!. I hope you feel better!!!Www@Answer-Health@Com
Hi,
First don't worry your not crazy or "emo" and don't have any kind of mental illness that would require pills (e!.g anti-depressants)!.
You just have a crush, it's totally normal and healthy!. Most people have been there plenty of times before!. It's understandable that you don't want to talk to anyone about it because it's pretty personal and in time you'll definitely get over it and probably move on to a girl your age!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
First don't worry your not crazy or "emo" and don't have any kind of mental illness that would require pills (e!.g anti-depressants)!.
You just have a crush, it's totally normal and healthy!. Most people have been there plenty of times before!. It's understandable that you don't want to talk to anyone about it because it's pretty personal and in time you'll definitely get over it and probably move on to a girl your age!.Www@Answer-Health@Com