How hurt do you feel, seeing people live the life you wanted, and tried to have !
Question: How hurt do you feel, seeing people live the life you wanted, and tried to have but couldnt!?
how do you stop the hurt!?
how do i condition my brain to accept, that its not going to happen, no matter what i try and do!?Www@Answer-Health@Com
how do i condition my brain to accept, that its not going to happen, no matter what i try and do!?Www@Answer-Health@Com
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My bf's brother just became a dad, which makes me an aunt!. I love my niece to pieces, but it's bittersweet!. I'm diabetic and on a ton of psych meds!. I'll probably never get to be a mom!. I look at her pictures and cry!.
Ok, so I don't have any answers for you, other than you're not alone!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Ok, so I don't have any answers for you, other than you're not alone!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
By accepting who you are and what you are!. Meaning, egoic mind has to move on AWAY from you, accept the negativity as just another story not a "BAD" issue!. Those rich people arent happy themselves, trust me, stereotypically speaking, most of them i think they just use others for their own pleasure and happiness and due to their personal gain wouldnt mean anything if there's no one around to look at it!
So anyways, i hoep one day you will gain those things you want but there's one thing that you have to remember, "It is only a personal gain" and nothing else!. And once you got to that point, your body stimulates and feels so alive but UNFORTUNATELY it doesnt last for long, its burns out and in the end you wouldnt want it anymore coz you would want something Bigger than It and so on!.!.!.!.
I really hope you can dig on that mind of yours, that's what i do! and i usually do it if i feel like crap myself!. I always ask myself on how i got to this point of overarousal/stimulation of especially negativity!.
Take care of yourself, dont get attached too much ok!?
- kRWww@Answer-Health@Com
So anyways, i hoep one day you will gain those things you want but there's one thing that you have to remember, "It is only a personal gain" and nothing else!. And once you got to that point, your body stimulates and feels so alive but UNFORTUNATELY it doesnt last for long, its burns out and in the end you wouldnt want it anymore coz you would want something Bigger than It and so on!.!.!.!.
I really hope you can dig on that mind of yours, that's what i do! and i usually do it if i feel like crap myself!. I always ask myself on how i got to this point of overarousal/stimulation of especially negativity!.
Take care of yourself, dont get attached too much ok!?
- kRWww@Answer-Health@Com
Hello,
Some things in life you just can't change!. You should look for the good in your life and learn to appreciate it ! You are blessed in many ways that you are blinded with envy!. You should evaluate your life!. make a list of pros and cons,whats good and what bad in your life!.
If you see someone living in a fancy house or driving an expensive car remember those things may not be paid for and are paid for with borrowed money!.
Don't waste your time wishing you has what someone else has!.This will make time pass very quickly and before you know it you are old and you have done nothing with your life except envy others!
Life is not about money and fancy cars! Its all over rated anyway!. More money comes more problems and the more money you have it never seems to be enough!
You can stop the hurrt and remember back to when you were a kid and it really did not matter who had what!. You just wanted to play and have fun!. You can still do those things if you really want too !
This is your life,start living it now and not through someone elses eyes however through your own !
I hope this helps you!.
ToddWww@Answer-Health@Com
Some things in life you just can't change!. You should look for the good in your life and learn to appreciate it ! You are blessed in many ways that you are blinded with envy!. You should evaluate your life!. make a list of pros and cons,whats good and what bad in your life!.
If you see someone living in a fancy house or driving an expensive car remember those things may not be paid for and are paid for with borrowed money!.
Don't waste your time wishing you has what someone else has!.This will make time pass very quickly and before you know it you are old and you have done nothing with your life except envy others!
Life is not about money and fancy cars! Its all over rated anyway!. More money comes more problems and the more money you have it never seems to be enough!
You can stop the hurrt and remember back to when you were a kid and it really did not matter who had what!. You just wanted to play and have fun!. You can still do those things if you really want too !
This is your life,start living it now and not through someone elses eyes however through your own !
I hope this helps you!.
ToddWww@Answer-Health@Com
I feel that way too sometimes!. And it could be because of my depression that is holding me back from continuing to pursue my dream!. I think that maybe you tried but gave up!. It is never too late to get the life you dream of!. If you are feeling blue or if it is affecting you that much you should talk to someone who can help you see that you can accept it and that you can pursue it again!. That your dream is in reach, you just can't give up!. Good luck and I hope everything goes well!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
My fiancee wanted to be a US Marine!. He was denied because of previously unseen heart problems - he has pulmonary valve stenosis!. It really broke his heart!. He was so depressed for so long because he really wanted it bad!. I wanted it for him as well!. It takes time to get over something like that!. You need to redirect your life to focus on things that you do enjoy!. Build your life around that!.
Also, sometimes it really just takes time for things to happen!. Maybe what you want will happen but will take some time!. Or will form in a different way!. Just give it time and remember the things you do enjoy and focus on that!. =)Www@Answer-Health@Com
Also, sometimes it really just takes time for things to happen!. Maybe what you want will happen but will take some time!. Or will form in a different way!. Just give it time and remember the things you do enjoy and focus on that!. =)Www@Answer-Health@Com
I guess you really can't stop the hurt!.!.!. It's part of being human!.!.!. But you sure can hope and dream and work hard towards achieving your goals in life!. Good luck! Don't feel sad!. I believe most of us at some point in time experience what are going through now!. Keep Smiling ;-)Www@Answer-Health@Com
Tell myself to shaddap!. My dream was the Military!. I tried!. Denied for mental health problems!. Never will i be able to join now, but hey at least i tried!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Try and find something else to want!? something more achievable!?!Www@Answer-Health@Com