Was i molested when i was younger?!


Question: Was i molested when i was younger!?
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i know it sounds stupid that i dont know if i was or not but it bugs me!.
heres whats happened!.
when i was a little girl my older brother would kiss me and he was 4 yrs older then me!. i can remeber us playing hide and seek and us hiding together and hmi just kissing me and trying to touch me and me just sitting there and he said" he hasnt found us yet, we have more time to be naughty!." and i just let him do it!. and then we would always play "barnyard" and i would be the girl animal or something and we would always hump me for a really long time when i was on my hands and knees and i couldnt of been more than 7 y'/o so he must of been at least 10 or 11!. and then my older neighbor around this same time, maybe when i was even younger took me in a hay fort he made and told me a "spider" story and used his fingers up and down my leg and put them in my pants and started touching me but he didnt go inside me or anything!. and then a year or two ago i cant remember if i was 13 or 14 but i was laying down on the couch with my older brother(remeber hes 4 yrs older than i am) and i was so happy he was there cuz i never see him that i was just lying down with him and he started putting his hand between my leg and i jumped up and said i had to go to the bathroom but i laid back down with him and he lowered his hand a little bit!. anyway later after everyone left the living room and went to bed we got up cuz he was going to stay in my room cuz i had bunk beds!. and wen he got up i noticed he had a!.!.!.!.b*ner!. and i dont think anything else happened that night
but i mean i cant remmeber anyone ever touching me like skin on skin or going inside or anything i just remember feeling uncomfortable and stuff

near my 14th bday i was laying on my back and my dad came in my room ( i was there for visitation i never see him or my older brother) and he touched my butt and i freaked out!. im sure he didnt mean to but i felt so weird that whole vist because i felt like he was looking at me weird like i wasnt his daughter and maybe he didnt mean to touch my but and he though it was my back but it was a second to long and later that night wheni went to my sisters i had a panic attack thinking about it and got all hysteric

So was i molested or am i just thinking things up!?
Even today im uncomfortable if people want to finger me but ill let any one touch my boobs or my butt and i flirt with everyone and i just dont get it!. i let them do it cuz i dont want to say no and hurt their feelings or make them mad so i let guys grab at me all the time
i just dont get this!.

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Answers:
Fooling around between younger kids of about the same age is pretty common, and doesn't mean anything, but your brother was enough older than you, that in this case, I think it's molesting!. Especially because of his behavior when he was older ( the second incident)!. I think it is a good idea to talk about this with a therapist!. I was molested by my brothers, but they were 9 and 8 years older than me - no question of kids fooling around together!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

thats disturbingWww@Answer-Health@Com

you might have been molested by your brother/neighbor, it's all about whether you feel you were molested!.!.!.
did you feel physically violated!? - that's really the main question!.!.!.
and uh i think your dad might have just made a mistake, but the situation with your brother sounds kind of strange!.!.!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

He was molesting you, sweety!.

I feel awful for you, though!. No one should have to go through anything like that, and fortunately you don't have to go through any of that now!. I just feel as though he wrongly took advantage of you, and that someone like that shouldn't be around anyone younger then them!.

You're fine now!. Don't worry about anything!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

Whether you were or weren't is irrelevant!. If you have to ask it probably hasn't affected you to the degree that it does other victims!.

My advice: let it go!. There is no benefit to trudging up old events because in the end there is nothing you can do but prevent it in the future!. Whatever you do, DO NOT tell anyone in your family or circle of friends because these things tend to destroy lives and ruin families!.!.!.!.even ones that are already screwed up!.

And don't tell yourself that I have no idea!. Because I do!. And I'm sorry for you!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

Sounds like your brother needs to be talked to about incest!. Incest is when a brother has sex with his sister!. You need to tell your mother about this!. It's just not healthy!. Why risk taking a chance with your brother around!. Obviously he can't control his feelings right now and he needs and your parents need to know!. Please tell them!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

Your brother has a big problem & you should probably stay away from him until you sort this out in your own head!. I would definitely suggest you see a Professional about this!.Www@Answer-Health@Com





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