Do I have some sort of disorder..?!
Question: Do I have some sort of disorder!.!.!?
I'm 16 and absolutely HATE being touched even if someone gets near me I always move away and dislike very much being poked and such things like that!. I had bad experiences with men before when I was little and I thought I was just being paranoid because of that reason and I should had get over it by now!. I read articles of Aspergers and Autism; I'm very shy as well but I have improved and a little more outgoing but its still, I have anger problems as well!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
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There can be multiple disorders here!. You could have anger issues, you actually explained the reason you don't like to be touched its because you had bad experiences with men and you are using a defense mechanism so you won't have anymore bad experiences!. You could have a small degree of autism but i doubt it, if you want you can get tested!. You are not being paranoid that can really affect you, you need to seek help all of these problems can be fixed!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
When you talk about having experiences with men when you were younger do you mean that you were sexually abused or touched inappropriately where you shouldn't be touched!? This would cause the feelings that you have about not wanting to be touched!. Can you talk to your mom or a school counselor, you need some therapy, professional help to recover from this!. If this is the case without help you will not be able to relate or sustain a relationship with men when you grow up!. Please talk to a trusted adult about this!. There is help and you don't have to suffer with this!. You don't just get over something like this you have been affected emotionally and need help!. Every human being has to have touch, hugs and emotional closeness, you won't and aren't capable of getting this need Please get help!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Hey hon! I hate being touched as well, i do have disorders, but i can tell you something: not one of my therapists or psychiatrist ever thought much abut the whole touching issue!.
It feels like something is wrong because it seems like everyone else loves touching and there is kind of a longing to be part of that but most people or doctors will say, 'oh well everyone is different some people just don't like being touched' which can be irritating!. I can't say much to you except take care of your other issues first- learn to be more outgoing and how to control your anger!. Maybe get some therapy for the bad experiences you've had!. I
think maybe when you meet the right person touching won't becoming as much of a problem- at least that's what happened to me!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
It feels like something is wrong because it seems like everyone else loves touching and there is kind of a longing to be part of that but most people or doctors will say, 'oh well everyone is different some people just don't like being touched' which can be irritating!. I can't say much to you except take care of your other issues first- learn to be more outgoing and how to control your anger!. Maybe get some therapy for the bad experiences you've had!. I
think maybe when you meet the right person touching won't becoming as much of a problem- at least that's what happened to me!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
All teenagers have anger problems because of hormonal growth that makes them angry because they are going thru growth and sometimes don't know how to handle the changes and it comes out thru anger!. I hated shots and still do(my experience was 1 year of lacking calcium in my bones and needed a year of shots) As to your bad experiences with men I hope that you get that out and talk to someone about that because if you don't it will haunt you for the rest of your life!. Don't worry you will grow and get over your growth spurt and meanwhile enjoy your young years and don't worry too much about life!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
As a counselor the first thing I would have you explore is were you sexually abused in any way when young!? That does not just limit it to sexual intercourse and fondling, but being bathed, or sleeping with a male, even if only a couple of years older!.
When you look at the not wanting to be touched and and the anger towards mom those are indicators to do some exploring of what happened when you were younger!. If you'd care to chat, please read my profile and IM or email me!. God Bless ReggieWww@Answer-Health@Com
When you look at the not wanting to be touched and and the anger towards mom those are indicators to do some exploring of what happened when you were younger!. If you'd care to chat, please read my profile and IM or email me!. God Bless ReggieWww@Answer-Health@Com
You seem bright, at least enough to put sentences together coherently!. If you want to develop a very good understanding of Aspergers, read The Curious Incident of the Dog in the Night-Time!. This novel is actually written from the perspective of someone with Aspergers, and I can tell you that your thought process does not seem to match his!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
I have bad anger problems sometimes, and i don't like some people touching me, but that's only particular people!. I think it's probably just how you've grown up it's not any sort of ocd or disorder, it's just a habit and you need to talk to someone who can help you out of it!. Hope that helped :)Www@Answer-Health@Com
If you have had bad experiences with men, this might be the reason why you find it uncomfortable being touched!. You might get a creepy feeling that reminds you of the past!. You might want to talk to the counselor at your school if this continues to bother you!. Good Luck!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Nothing is wrong with you and your absolutely normal!. Their spirit and yours dont attract!. Certain things we dont see our body feels!. Trust me, someone will come along who will make you feel very comfortable and you will look foward for their touch!. Dont rush yourself, your special and only another special person can open your doorWww@Answer-Health@Com
There's nothing wrong with you at all, I faced some trauma when I was a child and wouldn't let people touch me for a long time after, I refused to let people hug me or anything!. You will get over it after a while but I wouldn't worry about it, it took me a good 10 years to even be able to talk to people!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
You should see a psychologist or a therapist, especially if you've had rough experiences in the past!. People don't really avoid being touched so much, and the anger issue also should be dealt with!.
Good luck!. I'm sure you'll be just fine!. ^-^Www@Answer-Health@Com
Good luck!. I'm sure you'll be just fine!. ^-^Www@Answer-Health@Com
Hate drives more hate!. Don't listen to anyone but the Lord All Mighty!
The last thin you need to do is take medication and the very last thing you do is listen to some pathetic doctor who doesn't know you!
Now you know your better than that! Get forward and forget the past!Www@Answer-Health@Com
The last thin you need to do is take medication and the very last thing you do is listen to some pathetic doctor who doesn't know you!
Now you know your better than that! Get forward and forget the past!Www@Answer-Health@Com
maybe you have anger issues cause of supressed issues of things from your past, you said about men, The shyness could go along with taht too, I would seek a counsellor or psychologist to figure it out, probably not autism!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Hi it is not a disorder i hate crowds and being close to people, i get through it by talking to my doctor i just hate crowds and talking to people i would be a perfect hermit, perhaps you should try the same!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
I don't think this classifies as an actual disorder, you just don't like being touched!. everyone has little problems like that and its normal!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
No nothing's wrong with you!
However, I would suggest perhaps seeing a psychologist or specialist to test whether you are on the spectrum (ie you might have Aspergers)!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
However, I would suggest perhaps seeing a psychologist or specialist to test whether you are on the spectrum (ie you might have Aspergers)!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
I would say it's OCD but then again it can be anything hopefully your not developing nothing serious though which is a plusWww@Answer-Health@Com
You simply seem to be troubled and need some guidance as to how to control your anxiety!. I think you really should see a psychologist though!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
You need to see a doctor or a psychiatrist or both!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Your experiences with men at a young age have left you scarred!. Get some help from a counselor!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
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