Please help. How do I stop crying so much???? ?!
Question: Please help!. How do I stop crying so much!?!?!?!? !?
The whole story behind this is really long, but I just cant write it all!.
My family's been having problems since I was a baby!. Im 14 now!.
My mom starts to be more abusive now that im a teenager!. She slaps me, pulls my hair!. She doesnt care about me!. She says something to me everynight that makes me cry!.
One time I even started crying at school; I broke down because I couldnt hide my feelings any longer!.
When I cry, my mom doesnt do anything!. She just sits there like nothing happend!. She just tells me "shut up, your crying is so annoying!" That makes me cry more!.
One night when I was trying to sleep because I had school, I told my mom to turn off the tv because it was so loud!. I kept asking her, I said please!. But she ignored me!. So I went over to turn it off, but then she got really mad, took a hanger and started hitting me with it!.!.!. I was crying so bad, I was yelling at my brother to stop her from hitting me!. I kicked her then I ran to my brothers room and locked the door, while she chased after me! I was crying really badly!.!. I had to sleep there that night!. My dad told me to call the police when she does that!.
Now I've become so sensitive!. Im always crying over little things!. Like when my mom says your so skinny, or your stupid, or saying words in my language(tagalog) that I dont understand, but I know its mean!. Everynight I cry even though nothing happend!. When Im watching tv i start crying when its a little sad!. When the teacher says something that sounds mean even thought its not, I start to cry a little!. I never use to be like this!. I barely cried too!.
Is there a way to make me stop crying so much over little things!?
Please help!. Thanks[=Www@Answer-Health@Com
My family's been having problems since I was a baby!. Im 14 now!.
My mom starts to be more abusive now that im a teenager!. She slaps me, pulls my hair!. She doesnt care about me!. She says something to me everynight that makes me cry!.
One time I even started crying at school; I broke down because I couldnt hide my feelings any longer!.
When I cry, my mom doesnt do anything!. She just sits there like nothing happend!. She just tells me "shut up, your crying is so annoying!" That makes me cry more!.
One night when I was trying to sleep because I had school, I told my mom to turn off the tv because it was so loud!. I kept asking her, I said please!. But she ignored me!. So I went over to turn it off, but then she got really mad, took a hanger and started hitting me with it!.!.!. I was crying so bad, I was yelling at my brother to stop her from hitting me!. I kicked her then I ran to my brothers room and locked the door, while she chased after me! I was crying really badly!.!. I had to sleep there that night!. My dad told me to call the police when she does that!.
Now I've become so sensitive!. Im always crying over little things!. Like when my mom says your so skinny, or your stupid, or saying words in my language(tagalog) that I dont understand, but I know its mean!. Everynight I cry even though nothing happend!. When Im watching tv i start crying when its a little sad!. When the teacher says something that sounds mean even thought its not, I start to cry a little!. I never use to be like this!. I barely cried too!.
Is there a way to make me stop crying so much over little things!?
Please help!. Thanks[=Www@Answer-Health@Com
Answers:
omg! first of all let me say that your story has me crying right now):
i am 14 just like you only i dont have this problem!.
spend the night at friends houses alot just to get away!.
keep to yourself!. i know that it might sound hard but me and my mom get into fights all the time and i keep to myself for a couple of days cuz shes says some hurtful things too!.
when you keept to yourself!. only tell her the things she wants to hear!. dont do anything that might tick her off which you should know what that is!.
i talk to my school counsoler alot with friend problems!.
i cry alot just like u and i think that that helps!.
also you can email me and talk to me about it and i will try to help you as much as i can
your not alone with this!.
cuz i cry at the littlest things too!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
i am 14 just like you only i dont have this problem!.
spend the night at friends houses alot just to get away!.
keep to yourself!. i know that it might sound hard but me and my mom get into fights all the time and i keep to myself for a couple of days cuz shes says some hurtful things too!.
when you keept to yourself!. only tell her the things she wants to hear!. dont do anything that might tick her off which you should know what that is!.
i talk to my school counsoler alot with friend problems!.
i cry alot just like u and i think that that helps!.
also you can email me and talk to me about it and i will try to help you as much as i can
your not alone with this!.
cuz i cry at the littlest things too!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
oh my!.
first of all, let me tell you, things will be okay!.
can you live with you dad!? it seems he doesnt live with you!.
yeah, you could go to friends houses!.
and it might be hard but you can just repsect your mom and do everything right and try to please her!.
stay strong girl stay strong!.
i know this may be hard to understand, but there is a creator of the universe, God, who loves you so much, and he sent his son to die for you, so if you accept him as your lord, when you die on earth, you get to be with him in heaven for eternity!.
look it up in the bible, john 3:16
he'll always be there for you!.
and you'll be okay!.
trust me!.
if you need anyone to talk to as well, i'm here :]
good luck!Www@Answer-Health@Com
first of all, let me tell you, things will be okay!.
can you live with you dad!? it seems he doesnt live with you!.
yeah, you could go to friends houses!.
and it might be hard but you can just repsect your mom and do everything right and try to please her!.
stay strong girl stay strong!.
i know this may be hard to understand, but there is a creator of the universe, God, who loves you so much, and he sent his son to die for you, so if you accept him as your lord, when you die on earth, you get to be with him in heaven for eternity!.
look it up in the bible, john 3:16
he'll always be there for you!.
and you'll be okay!.
trust me!.
if you need anyone to talk to as well, i'm here :]
good luck!Www@Answer-Health@Com
You should talk to your school counselor!. You'd be surprised by how much they can help!. You're probably crying so much because you're really stressed out and tired and sad, right!? Well maybe you should call the police like your dad said!. Or maybe you could talk to your mom about living with your dad instead!. Just don't intentionally say things to make her upset!. If she's watching TV, just ignore it!. It sounds like your family needs some help, and now's the time to get it before it gets out of control!.
Hope everything works out for youWww@Answer-Health@Com
Hope everything works out for youWww@Answer-Health@Com
That is definatly not right!! I can't believe the way your mom treats you!. I would'nt know what todo if i was being verbally and physically abused by my mom but i sure would'nt sitt back and take that sh*t!
I Would definatly talk to a counseler, like your school counseler I think just being able to talk to someone and be able to release some of your overwhelming feelings will make you feel better and may help you to control some of your emotions Good Luck and I'm sorry for you what you have got to deal with!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
I Would definatly talk to a counseler, like your school counseler I think just being able to talk to someone and be able to release some of your overwhelming feelings will make you feel better and may help you to control some of your emotions Good Luck and I'm sorry for you what you have got to deal with!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Please talk to someone! When I was young it was the same way!. I was scared to tell anyone because I went to a private school, and my family was board members of the church and very big in with society!. My step dad would take me out of the house, my sister began to hate my mom and moved out of town with my grandparents!. My mom and step dad got a divorce!. She was nasty, she never hit my sister, but any little thing made her snap on me throwing things kicking hitting ect!. My sister got fed up and took me to my friends house, who called social serives, I got to stay w/ them for a week, she told them I made it up and I had to go back!. She is still this way!. I am an adult now!. I have a child, who I fear is going to suffer from the things he sees!. She is so negative, calls me things like "****" fat worthless ect they dont realize we are who we are because of them! Please talk to someone!. Maybe you two could go to counceling, maybe you could live with your dad, or other family members!. I am going to school for Social work now!. What I have lived through really pushed me to do it!. The sad thing is no matter where I go people see a "front" of my mother because of her job and because of who she is and who she knows, ect!. I Know those close to me know, like family, but they are family and feel they support her!. You need to get yourself out of a bad siutation! Please talk to someone!
UPDATE- If your dad wont let you live with him or a relative!.!.!. If you call cops or talk to someone who will call the cops, get social services involved, and your dad wont let you live with him, but another family member is, sorry bout him, but he has no choice!. The law is there to protect you, but it cant unless you tell the lawWww@Answer-Health@Com
UPDATE- If your dad wont let you live with him or a relative!.!.!. If you call cops or talk to someone who will call the cops, get social services involved, and your dad wont let you live with him, but another family member is, sorry bout him, but he has no choice!. The law is there to protect you, but it cant unless you tell the lawWww@Answer-Health@Com
Let me just say that you dont deserve to be treated like that, especially by your own mother, it isnt your fault, its hers!.
Im 20 years old and i would cry to if my mom ever did those kind of things to me!. Its not fair that your mom puts you down all the time!.
Honestly i say get the heck outta there, so stay with a relative, or somebody else you trust!. call the police, or talk to somebody about it, your mom could be put away for a long time for doing those things, its called child abuse!. Not only physical but emotional!. You shouldnt have to go through that!. nobody should!. You need to speak upWww@Answer-Health@Com
Im 20 years old and i would cry to if my mom ever did those kind of things to me!. Its not fair that your mom puts you down all the time!.
Honestly i say get the heck outta there, so stay with a relative, or somebody else you trust!. call the police, or talk to somebody about it, your mom could be put away for a long time for doing those things, its called child abuse!. Not only physical but emotional!. You shouldnt have to go through that!. nobody should!. You need to speak upWww@Answer-Health@Com
There are a lot of dysfunctional families and unfortunately I'm in one, too!. The best thing to do is try to stay out of your Moms way!. Find something to do that keeps you away from home that's positive!. After school programs, sports, etc!. Try reading a good book or watch funny sitcoms!. Meditate!. If you believe in God, go to him in prayer!. When you find a chance to talk to your Mom do it!. Tell her how you feel and try to keep it positive!.Www@Answer-Health@Com