Don't judge me please. :)?!
Question: Don't judge me please!. :)!?
I have a great social life, plenty of friends, decent grades!.
i'm "jolly" as others would say!.
but at home i'm depressed alot!. there's alot of reasons one being my fathers death!.
anyway!.
i've attempted several times various ways of suicide (i contradict my other question)
but i've not got the bottle too!.
my mum called the police, i had a chat, after the chat they said i came across intelligent and aware, and well not mental basically!.
basically my question is,
how can someone act optimistic, when they have NO reasons what so ever to!?
lol
thanks
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i'm "jolly" as others would say!.
but at home i'm depressed alot!. there's alot of reasons one being my fathers death!.
anyway!.
i've attempted several times various ways of suicide (i contradict my other question)
but i've not got the bottle too!.
my mum called the police, i had a chat, after the chat they said i came across intelligent and aware, and well not mental basically!.
basically my question is,
how can someone act optimistic, when they have NO reasons what so ever to!?
lol
thanks
xWww@Answer-Health@Com
Answers:
This is a case where some counselling may be in order!.
When you are with your friends what is different than being at home!? Crack that and you are on your way!. When did your Father die!? If in the past few years you could still be grieving over his death!.
We all feel lonely and hopeless at times but for most this will pass!. For the few that it doesn't a psychiatric intervention is sometimes needed!. That's not a negative thing - if you had a broken leg would you hesitate going to a doctor!. In your case your mind may need some help for you to get back on track!. This can take years but the key is to take that first step!.
If you can't speak to your Mum you do need to speak to a Doctor!. The police are not qualified to make any psychological or psychiatric diagnosis so their opinion is irrelevant!.
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When you are with your friends what is different than being at home!? Crack that and you are on your way!. When did your Father die!? If in the past few years you could still be grieving over his death!.
We all feel lonely and hopeless at times but for most this will pass!. For the few that it doesn't a psychiatric intervention is sometimes needed!. That's not a negative thing - if you had a broken leg would you hesitate going to a doctor!. In your case your mind may need some help for you to get back on track!. This can take years but the key is to take that first step!.
If you can't speak to your Mum you do need to speak to a Doctor!. The police are not qualified to make any psychological or psychiatric diagnosis so their opinion is irrelevant!.
Good luckWww@Answer-Health@Com
Honey, this happens a lot, people with the most amazing lives are depressed and this isn't your fault, it could be partly because of your fathers death and partly because you have a chemical imbalance in your brain which causes the depression, you said you were depressed at home and lets face the facts, you are at home a lot and you are missing someone in your life which is a sad sad thing, i think you are still grieving and that is making you sad!. You can act optimistic in public but at home you act how you really feel!. You need to seek help in a psychiatrist or psychologist to help your depression and grieving, i hope i helped and the best of luck to you!. <3Www@Answer-Health@Com
Dear BJ!.,
I would strongly recommend you staying alive and forget about the past!.
If you are suicidal because of the passing of your father, what you are thinking would be against human nature!.
As you are an intelligent girl and you should know it well that human beings are created with reproductions from generation to generation!. If one member of your family passes away, should all of your family end their lives as well!? Why don't you think of a way to extend and blossom your family pedigree into generations to come!?!.!.!.
As you mentioned in your paragraphs, you are a happy girl with good family and friends, and a bright student performing well at school!. In this case, a bright future should lie ahead of you!. Why would you be so pessimistic and think of ending your own life!?
As my final words, forget about the past, stay alive and think of the bright future lying ahead of you and work hard towards that direction!. Ok!?
Sincerely yours!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
I would strongly recommend you staying alive and forget about the past!.
If you are suicidal because of the passing of your father, what you are thinking would be against human nature!.
As you are an intelligent girl and you should know it well that human beings are created with reproductions from generation to generation!. If one member of your family passes away, should all of your family end their lives as well!? Why don't you think of a way to extend and blossom your family pedigree into generations to come!?!.!.!.
As you mentioned in your paragraphs, you are a happy girl with good family and friends, and a bright student performing well at school!. In this case, a bright future should lie ahead of you!. Why would you be so pessimistic and think of ending your own life!?
As my final words, forget about the past, stay alive and think of the bright future lying ahead of you and work hard towards that direction!. Ok!?
Sincerely yours!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
It's good that you still hold optimism; especially as you've been through some tough times in your life!. Have you ever thought about getting counselling!? I think it'll do you the world of good, especially if you always seem to get down when you're alone!. Keeping these feelings about your Father bottled up isn't good, along with any other problems you might be having!.
I doubt there's ever a time in someones life when they have NO reason to be positive - however sometimes the light seems too small to reach!. You sound a lot like me actually, I've tried suicide before and bottle my feelings up but feel sad when I'm alone!. If you ever feel like trying to commit suicide again then tell someone!. I know you must get REALLY fed up of hearing that but sometimes you just can't help yourself alone and need guidance of others!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
I doubt there's ever a time in someones life when they have NO reason to be positive - however sometimes the light seems too small to reach!. You sound a lot like me actually, I've tried suicide before and bottle my feelings up but feel sad when I'm alone!. If you ever feel like trying to commit suicide again then tell someone!. I know you must get REALLY fed up of hearing that but sometimes you just can't help yourself alone and need guidance of others!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
First of all i'm sorry to hear about your father's death!. Its terrible for anyone to deal with and understandable that you would feel depressed when at home!.
I feel the same sometimes, not so much depressed but the days where you wake up and just wonder about life!.
I have a lovely home, a family i love more than anything and good friends but I just feel I want more out of life!.
But what I do is flip it and tell myself that I am going to have a good day and I'm going to make something out of my life and achieve as much as possible!. You have to live each day as though it was your last!.
In my opinion, life is a gift not a given right and you have to make the most of every chance you get!.
I really hope you can be strong enough to get yourself out of the rut your in!.
good luck :)Www@Answer-Health@Com
I feel the same sometimes, not so much depressed but the days where you wake up and just wonder about life!.
I have a lovely home, a family i love more than anything and good friends but I just feel I want more out of life!.
But what I do is flip it and tell myself that I am going to have a good day and I'm going to make something out of my life and achieve as much as possible!. You have to live each day as though it was your last!.
In my opinion, life is a gift not a given right and you have to make the most of every chance you get!.
I really hope you can be strong enough to get yourself out of the rut your in!.
good luck :)Www@Answer-Health@Com
It's because you're just putting on an act!. You're trying to show everybody that you are fine and have it all together, but you're hiding your true feelings!. You need to open up to some close friends you can trust, or if you can't do that, you should really consider talking to a therapist!. Losing a loved one is very traumatic and you need people to lean on!. The police aren't able to diagnose any mental problems, you need to talk to a professional!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
tons of people have everything they "what' in life and "have" but its the things like family and freinds people need!. like for me i have everything i need!. i have material things and the most important non material things!. just some people need extral help getting things out and more attentions!. when you see a person being happy that might be them showing it but not showing how they feel inside!.i know what your saying causeim alot and i mean alot like you!. seek help and as much help as you can!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
I am at the moment suffering the death of my mom!. I can identify with you!. I think that one passed would not want you to follow!. Honest!. As much as we wish they were back and smiling and talking to us, they have gone and they would want us to continue!.
You can't act optimistic yet!. I keep having sudden bursts of tears!. It is called grief!. We are left to go on and do what we have to do!. That is what they would wish!. That is what we would wish if we had died too!.
You are not not mental!. You are sad sad sad!. I know!. My heart is breaking!.
Please do not attempt suicide!. It is not the way!. You have to go on and as your dad did after losing someone and give your family the joy he gave you!.
God Bless!. My moms funeral tomorrow!. lots of love Joan!. xxxWww@Answer-Health@Com
You can't act optimistic yet!. I keep having sudden bursts of tears!. It is called grief!. We are left to go on and do what we have to do!. That is what they would wish!. That is what we would wish if we had died too!.
You are not not mental!. You are sad sad sad!. I know!. My heart is breaking!.
Please do not attempt suicide!. It is not the way!. You have to go on and as your dad did after losing someone and give your family the joy he gave you!.
God Bless!. My moms funeral tomorrow!. lots of love Joan!. xxxWww@Answer-Health@Com
you contradict yourself, why you need to act optimistic, why not be optimistic!? Get some medication for the depression if it brings you down that much, otherwise all i can say is life is full of up and downs and you are over thinking the situation!.
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You just have to look beyond all the negative things and try to find the positive things in life!. It's hard but if you do it, it'll help you get out from under that dark cloud!. Also, excercise more, it relieves stress, clears you mind, and helps you put things in better perspective!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
At one time in all of our lives, We bury Our Parents & deal with other obstacles!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.Our Parents did the same thing;
"Only the Strong Survive", and are needed to be Good Examples for People of Future Generations, and One Great Way is to show Positive Attitudes!.!.!.!.!.!!Www@Answer-Health@Com
"Only the Strong Survive", and are needed to be Good Examples for People of Future Generations, and One Great Way is to show Positive Attitudes!.!.!.!.!.!!Www@Answer-Health@Com
Think you need to see a shrink mate!. Life is hard the only way through it is to fight every step!. You need to believe things will improve do you really think your dad would be impressed if you chopped your own head off, come on play the game and have fun!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
A person must chose to be happy!. It is not a state of mind that just happens, it actually takes effort! You must chose to find the silver lining, you must chose to be able to smell the roses amongst the rubbish!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Its very easy to put on a brave face Beth!.!.
Not so easy when you are on your own though!.!.
You should'nt be judged for it though and it must have taken something to admit there is a problem!.!.Well done to you for that!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Not so easy when you are on your own though!.!.
You should'nt be judged for it though and it must have taken something to admit there is a problem!.!.Well done to you for that!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
so !? and what can YAHOO ANSWERS do !? who do you expect to care !? yeah you did contradict your last question, you should seek help, the right help and leave yahoo !.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Sometimes being optimistic is the only thing that's going to keep you sane!.
I'm feel for you regarding your fathers passingWww@Answer-Health@Com
I'm feel for you regarding your fathers passingWww@Answer-Health@Com
Your Young and have a Full Life ahead of You Dont Give upWww@Answer-Health@Com
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I will give you fully a great social life
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well, we know you didn't try hard enough to commit suicide!.!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Because it's a sham!. Because deep down, you realise that if you act how you feel you'll hurt people and you don't want that!. You might be an incredibly selfless person and you don't want other people getting caught up in what you consider to be your own mess!.
But I'm sure there are a lot of people who love and care about you, and even if you chose only one of them that you trust and explained to them how you're feeling they will be there to hold your hand and guide you through it!. There are people in this world who care a lot about you and you probably don't even realise it!. They want to help, so let them!. Nobody should go through depression alone and in silence, it only makes it worse!. If you really have no one to talk to, I realise I'm a complete stranger but if you ever want to just rant, I'll listen!. (:Www@Answer-Health@Com
But I'm sure there are a lot of people who love and care about you, and even if you chose only one of them that you trust and explained to them how you're feeling they will be there to hold your hand and guide you through it!. There are people in this world who care a lot about you and you probably don't even realise it!. They want to help, so let them!. Nobody should go through depression alone and in silence, it only makes it worse!. If you really have no one to talk to, I realise I'm a complete stranger but if you ever want to just rant, I'll listen!. (:Www@Answer-Health@Com
Judge you - of course not! This is a very brave and poignant posting, for which you are to be congratulated!. Although you may not yet realise it, you have taken the very first - and in my estimation - the hardest step to addressing your problem!.
I can well understand how upset you must feel re your beloved father's death, but please trust me when I tell you that, as time goes by, you will come to terms with this!. As a spiritualist, I firmly believe that there is a spiritual afterlife, and it just might be that, on occasions, you will feel the presence of your father!. Always remember that the one thing death can never, ever destroy is the feeling of love between two people!. Never, ever, OK!? Pure unrequited love can never be destroyed, no matter what happens!.
Try to look at things this way: God made you, and if you are good enough for Him, you are MORE than good enough for the rest of us!. Agreed!? Great! Oh, and by the way you do come across as being both aware and intelligent!.
Now to your question!. You have not lost your optimism - no way! You are simply not using it at the moment, and this of course is perfectly understandable!. Give yourself a few more weeks, let all your feelings out by having a good cry - and remember that it takes a very brave person indeed to cry - Winston Churchill knew how and when to - so there is absolutely nothing wrong in that!.
Emotion is a God-given gift: never be afraid to use it!
You may perhaps not understand the meaning of my words right now - perfectly understandable - but as time goes by you will remember the old duffer who gave you this advice and, much to your surprise, you will be feeling much better!. No instant cure, I'm afraid, but my cure really does work!
You have a life to live!. Are you going to prove me right and at least consider what I have said!? Of course you are! I have faith in you, you see!. I think it would be rather a nice gesture to show your mother this reply, don't you!? For she is grieving too, remember!.
Good luck, I wish you well!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
I can well understand how upset you must feel re your beloved father's death, but please trust me when I tell you that, as time goes by, you will come to terms with this!. As a spiritualist, I firmly believe that there is a spiritual afterlife, and it just might be that, on occasions, you will feel the presence of your father!. Always remember that the one thing death can never, ever destroy is the feeling of love between two people!. Never, ever, OK!? Pure unrequited love can never be destroyed, no matter what happens!.
Try to look at things this way: God made you, and if you are good enough for Him, you are MORE than good enough for the rest of us!. Agreed!? Great! Oh, and by the way you do come across as being both aware and intelligent!.
Now to your question!. You have not lost your optimism - no way! You are simply not using it at the moment, and this of course is perfectly understandable!. Give yourself a few more weeks, let all your feelings out by having a good cry - and remember that it takes a very brave person indeed to cry - Winston Churchill knew how and when to - so there is absolutely nothing wrong in that!.
Emotion is a God-given gift: never be afraid to use it!
You may perhaps not understand the meaning of my words right now - perfectly understandable - but as time goes by you will remember the old duffer who gave you this advice and, much to your surprise, you will be feeling much better!. No instant cure, I'm afraid, but my cure really does work!
You have a life to live!. Are you going to prove me right and at least consider what I have said!? Of course you are! I have faith in you, you see!. I think it would be rather a nice gesture to show your mother this reply, don't you!? For she is grieving too, remember!.
Good luck, I wish you well!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
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