O.k. so I'm really insecure about a few things...?!
Question: O!.k!. so I'm really insecure about a few things!.!.!.!?
Alright, I'm in 8th grade and yes I know everyone is insecure about themselves in some way, but I really want to find a way to feel better about myself!. So, I don't really think I'm "gorgeous", but I guess I'm decent!. I'm embarrassed about my nostrils (don't laugh)!. They flare extremely wide (I think) when I laugh and smile!. I HATE with a deep burning passion my inability to talk to guys without sounding awkward/nervous!. Finally, I'm not very social!.!.!. I like to stay home a lot, but my mom wants me to get out and have fun!. I don't know why, but I just don't go out much!. Can anyone give me some advice, tips, ideas to make me feel less insecure about myself and ways to get out and be social!? Thank you 10X over and over for answering!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Answers:
firstly
ur in 8th grade, and u have no idea how much ur face is gonna change, like seriously
im in tenth grade and in eight grade i had a pimply face, a unibrow and no breasts
and in two years i have become so much prettier so i can actually attract boys and i still have more time to become prettier
secondly u prolly are pretty and ur just overthinking it
thirdly, just be urself around boys, when u stop caring about impressing them its easier to talk to them u know what i mean!? wait till you get to high school, u will see a huge improvement in all the things that u ahve mentioned
fourthly, join a club, or with whatever friends u do have, ask them to introduce u to their other friends
ur still in middle school where no one actually has a real social life believe me
once u graduate u will realize ur own potentional
ur just a butterfly in ur cacoon believe me hun been there done that
good look and dont be sad :( <3Www@Answer-Health@Com
ur in 8th grade, and u have no idea how much ur face is gonna change, like seriously
im in tenth grade and in eight grade i had a pimply face, a unibrow and no breasts
and in two years i have become so much prettier so i can actually attract boys and i still have more time to become prettier
secondly u prolly are pretty and ur just overthinking it
thirdly, just be urself around boys, when u stop caring about impressing them its easier to talk to them u know what i mean!? wait till you get to high school, u will see a huge improvement in all the things that u ahve mentioned
fourthly, join a club, or with whatever friends u do have, ask them to introduce u to their other friends
ur still in middle school where no one actually has a real social life believe me
once u graduate u will realize ur own potentional
ur just a butterfly in ur cacoon believe me hun been there done that
good look and dont be sad :( <3Www@Answer-Health@Com
Go up to people with a smile and start being friendly and you know that true beauty comes from within!. You got to think positive if somene does not like you then find people who do like you!. You can not please everyone!. Theirs always going to be someone who dont like you!. JOin activiities at school and get in a good group like church and clubs that they have at your school !. You could ask people if htey want to hang with you!. TAlk to boys like theri a person and be like hey whats up!? how are you!?Www@Answer-Health@Com
This is not a disease or illness!. It is man made!. For such things, there is no remedy on earth!. You have to win over yourself!. There are different variety and shapes in human personalities!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
I used to be like that!.
I think what I did is realized that I'm alive!. By that, I mean I'm here!. With one life!. One chance!. Why spend my hours worrying about things I can't change, or worrying about what things could have been!.
And the whole guy thing, don't worry about it!. In time you'll be able to talk to them, but you're only in eighth grade!. And believe me, they're just as nervous as you are!.
I wasn't very social two years ago!. But I changed!. I just did things on a whim, and I didn't overthink!.
I think you'll grow out of this stage soon enough!. Just remember that there are over 6 billion people on this planet all going through the same thing you are!. We're all in this together!.
Good luck (:Www@Answer-Health@Com
I think what I did is realized that I'm alive!. By that, I mean I'm here!. With one life!. One chance!. Why spend my hours worrying about things I can't change, or worrying about what things could have been!.
And the whole guy thing, don't worry about it!. In time you'll be able to talk to them, but you're only in eighth grade!. And believe me, they're just as nervous as you are!.
I wasn't very social two years ago!. But I changed!. I just did things on a whim, and I didn't overthink!.
I think you'll grow out of this stage soon enough!. Just remember that there are over 6 billion people on this planet all going through the same thing you are!. We're all in this together!.
Good luck (:Www@Answer-Health@Com
a job aka survival is more important than your insecurities!.!.
every one has them yes - and every one learns to conquer them maybe not in the same way either
but eventually
it is a slow
process ;)
sometimes
sometimes quickly it is cured
I say don't care about what they think of you - believe in yourself afterall that is who you have to live with for the rest of your life yourself - so love yourself first then you may love others -
If God helps there with that go with it!.
Each person defines love differently so you can't go wrong with all the choices!.!.
If you don't like your looks* exercise can usually fix that I really hate it when people obsess over their looks !.!.there are people who just got out of a burnt fire looking like a melted wax candle who would love to have your 'flared' nostrils!.!.!.or not have their arm blown off from a war they have to fight!.!.
I guess my whole point is to be content!? or try!?Www@Answer-Health@Com
every one has them yes - and every one learns to conquer them maybe not in the same way either
but eventually
it is a slow
process ;)
sometimes
sometimes quickly it is cured
I say don't care about what they think of you - believe in yourself afterall that is who you have to live with for the rest of your life yourself - so love yourself first then you may love others -
If God helps there with that go with it!.
Each person defines love differently so you can't go wrong with all the choices!.!.
If you don't like your looks* exercise can usually fix that I really hate it when people obsess over their looks !.!.there are people who just got out of a burnt fire looking like a melted wax candle who would love to have your 'flared' nostrils!.!.!.or not have their arm blown off from a war they have to fight!.!.
I guess my whole point is to be content!? or try!?Www@Answer-Health@Com