I feel like giving up. I feel like dying.?!
Question: I feel like giving up!. I feel like dying!.!?
I don't really know where this is going!.
I'm not looking for attention, in a bad way!. I just have no idea!. I have so much going on mentally!.
I have a hard time sleeping!. And can't sleep anymore without an aid!.
Nothing too crazy!. Just tylenol PM!.
I'm inside so much I can't function well in relationships!.
This isn't postpartdum baby hormonal stuff, my child is over a year now!. And I have always been like this!.
Everything just feels like a struggle!.
I hang on only for my son!.
I'm in a stagnant marriage, where I know I'm not perfect!. Not by any stretch of the imagination!. I am moody due to the lack of love and affection given here!.
I think of divorce, but it's too expensive, and time consuming, and no one would support me!.
Anyone, please help!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
I'm not looking for attention, in a bad way!. I just have no idea!. I have so much going on mentally!.
I have a hard time sleeping!. And can't sleep anymore without an aid!.
Nothing too crazy!. Just tylenol PM!.
I'm inside so much I can't function well in relationships!.
This isn't postpartdum baby hormonal stuff, my child is over a year now!. And I have always been like this!.
Everything just feels like a struggle!.
I hang on only for my son!.
I'm in a stagnant marriage, where I know I'm not perfect!. Not by any stretch of the imagination!. I am moody due to the lack of love and affection given here!.
I think of divorce, but it's too expensive, and time consuming, and no one would support me!.
Anyone, please help!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Answers:
you know, if you had a history of using drugs and to escape life, then you started in this marriage with baggage!. You already didn't like your life and probably chose a man that also had baggage!. When we think little of ourselves, we give ourselves what we think we deserve!. You know, suicide will gravely, severely, permanently, damage your son!. If you cared about him, the way you say, you would not even go there!. Life is not supposed to be glamourous all the time and laughing and just happy things going on all the time!. The things that are great in life is knowing we are alive, and knowing that life is valuable!. The small things that matter, like feeling the warm sun soak into your bones, smelling rain, watching the trees sway back and forth as to be speaking, to watch a thunderstorm and listen to the thunder, eating your favorite food, watching your son grow, and hear him talk and say those silly things that make you laugh!. These are the things that are important!. Now, all of us have choices!. If you believe you don't your only kidding yourself!. I call it, putting the wall up so I can say, theres no way to get over it!. You can choose to change your way of thinking!. Ask yourself, what is it that you really want!. To be happy!? Where do you see yourself happy at!? What would it be!? When you answer that, write down baby steps to get there, and believe it can happen!. Money is the problem!? or is it having to work, and if you worked, you couldn't take your pain killer!? Why do you put road blocks in your life!? Why is suicide something that seems like a solution!? Believe you can change what is happening to you!. You don't have to accept anything you don't want to!. Start doing something that you like doing!. First, you must get off the drugs, they will make you feel suicidal!. You probably know that!. Get yourself together, make a difference in your own life!. You are a good person, a valuable person, you have meaning in life, and you deserve it like the rest of us!. You say your a good mom, good moms are priceless and that is valuable!. Teach your son, the value of loving yourself enough to live life to the fullest!. Get some therapy, get off drugs,alchohol, whatever it might be, make a plan to get better!. Don't just sit there, believe you can and do it!. I know you can!. Believe!. May God Bless you, and keep you safe!. Take care!. Oh, as far as your husband goes, just tell him if he can't go to get help with you then you will have to help yourself!. You need to be heard, don't live with someone for your whole life because of money!. Find a way to make money for yourself, and he will also have to pay for your son!. This will be part of what you talk about with a therapist!. Just work on you for now, then work on changing your relationship!. We all have unstable jobs, live close to work, or change jobs!. One thing at a time, You have insomnia because you are unhappy!. Your depression will go away when you get yourself together!. You can do this!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
make a list of the good things !.
your son
his love for you
his smile
your love for your son
you can ask people on here and get caring answers
this is a start find another or some more "good"things your self
trust me the "good " list will grow
it may not be the same as a person to talk to~but we care and listen
try a smile to your son
hope the day gets better!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
your son
his love for you
his smile
your love for your son
you can ask people on here and get caring answers
this is a start find another or some more "good"things your self
trust me the "good " list will grow
it may not be the same as a person to talk to~but we care and listen
try a smile to your son
hope the day gets better!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
I understand how you feel!. I lost my beautiful wife 5 months ago to cancer!. She was 35!. All she wanted to do was live!. You are considering giving up something that some many would love to have!. God never said life would be easy!. But, it truly is what you make it!. If your marriage is failing get counseling!. Go outside and see a beautiful blue ski!. It really is worth living for!. The bible says, God won't give you more than you can bear!. Suicide is not the answer!. Don't give up on life!. Most importantly, don't give up on your son!.
Be Blessed!.
JWww@Answer-Health@Com
Be Blessed!.
JWww@Answer-Health@Com
You should go to the doctor and get a physical!. You may have low thyroid!. Go first to a regular doctor and then to an endocrinologist!. It's quite common with women!.
Medication and counseling will help a lot!. You should do it for your child and your marriage!. You're valuable to your child, more than you can know!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Medication and counseling will help a lot!. You should do it for your child and your marriage!. You're valuable to your child, more than you can know!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Please send me a private message or an email!. I will make sure my profile is set so you can do so!. I know much of your problem!. I'm old enough to be your grandmother and still suffer from much of the same problems you are going through!. Please contact me!. I hope I can help!. No matter how bad things seem, remember that death is a permanent solution to a temporary problem and it is temporary!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
i'm in the same boat as you!. if i knew what do, i'd share it with you!. but what i know is, taking your life is never te answer!. there is always room for change, and that depends on yourself!. if you don't like something, you've got to change it!. i really hope you get better and see life in a different way!. i know it sucks to feel down, but it'll pass!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
youre depressed!.!.I had postpartum for 2 yrs, but am generally depressed anyway!.!.Baby probably saved your life !. Just think !.!.now you can relate to babies depression when it turns 9 !.!.it IS passed down !. Life is a struggle!.!.the whole way throughWww@Answer-Health@Com
Please pick up the phone and talk to SamaritansWww@Answer-Health@Com
You should see a doctor about possible depression and treatment!. It very well could be the reason you're so down on yourself, irritable, and finding it difficult to sleep!. And try to go easy on yourself, so long as you are taking care of your kid!.
All the best!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
All the best!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Sorry you are not feeling better sweetheart,but "Please" keep on thinking of your child,as this is your most powerful strength!. Love and best wishes from an old man!. xxWww@Answer-Health@Com
go traveling
get a new perspective on lifeWww@Answer-Health@Com
get a new perspective on lifeWww@Answer-Health@Com
god tells us we should pray for what we want, expect to get it, and never give up faith!.
you cant be afraid to speak up, god built you with the strength to do anything, and to be anything, its not to late to change your story,
i don't sleep much either, im only 16, but ive been through more than i ever though i would at this age, my best friend died in a car wreck not to long ago, and then when i found a new friend who even made me slightly feel like i wasn't alone, her dad molested me and i had to turn him into the police, and i completely lost her, life can be hell no matter how old you are!.
people tend to do the wrong thing because its easier, doing the right thing usually puts you through some kind of something,
but that's when you think you're grown up enough that you can if you want to,
you decide you're not young and naive anymore, because you've been through so much,
but deep inside of you, in the little kid in your heart, there is that part that rejects all the reality, and is eternally hope full that things will just work out, when in the back of your head you know it wont!.
you cant put a price on your happiness,
especially when you only live once!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
you cant be afraid to speak up, god built you with the strength to do anything, and to be anything, its not to late to change your story,
i don't sleep much either, im only 16, but ive been through more than i ever though i would at this age, my best friend died in a car wreck not to long ago, and then when i found a new friend who even made me slightly feel like i wasn't alone, her dad molested me and i had to turn him into the police, and i completely lost her, life can be hell no matter how old you are!.
people tend to do the wrong thing because its easier, doing the right thing usually puts you through some kind of something,
but that's when you think you're grown up enough that you can if you want to,
you decide you're not young and naive anymore, because you've been through so much,
but deep inside of you, in the little kid in your heart, there is that part that rejects all the reality, and is eternally hope full that things will just work out, when in the back of your head you know it wont!.
you cant put a price on your happiness,
especially when you only live once!.Www@Answer-Health@Com