How do i deal with my insecurity?!
Question: How do i deal with my insecurity!?
Well my name is chris i am 16 and have a amazing girlfriend and our relationship is great but!.!.!.I have a trust problem due to past relationships because i was cheated on 6 times in my previous relationship and she changed my way of thinking because now i have problems letting my current girlfriend be around guys!. I ddon't like this but i cant help the way i think!. i feel really bad about this because its not my girlfriends fault!. How do i control my feelings about her being around other guys!. It eats me up inside just knowing that i do this!. Ive tried everything i talked to her she says she understands but she really dont because she keeps asking why i got this problem!. How do i stop myself from being this way!? What method can i use to stop myself next time!? Somebody please help me!? I need it!?Www@Answer-Health@Com
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A lot of people have insecurities for various reasons!. What you can do is try and think positive!. If you've been hurt in the past by people being untrustworthy, try and not think about those people, and instead concentrate on the positive people in your life right now!. Writing down your feelings in a letter to those hurtful people will help immensely, of course I would suggest ripping the letter up instead of sending it, but its personal preference!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
the other girls were comparing you to the other guys and found them to be better so if you are the same way like you were before then maybe you need to change but not too much and also changing is a risk since she might not like the way you would be when you changed
and if you ask me those other girls before arent worth spit if they really liked you then they wouldnt have cheated thats a fact
and also try improve on things like start working out and brushing your hair and be more of a gentle man so that your chick likes you moreWww@Answer-Health@Com
and if you ask me those other girls before arent worth spit if they really liked you then they wouldnt have cheated thats a fact
and also try improve on things like start working out and brushing your hair and be more of a gentle man so that your chick likes you moreWww@Answer-Health@Com
You probably have low self-esteem about yourself!. A lot of women like being with men with good confidence in themselves!. You probably don't have much value for yourself!. Read "THe Mystery Method" and "The Game!." They are books on how to pick-up women!. What's great about it is that it explains the physiology of men and women and why women act the way they do!. Reading these books, made me attractive to more women, and got rid of most of my insecurities!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
You should tell her about your emotional scar and make sure she'll be faithful!. I'm positive that she will understand your situation!.Www@Answer-Health@Com