How do you react when you see someone reading a book?!
Question: How do you react when you see someone reading a book!?
This probably seems dumb,but!.!.!.When you see your friend or some other person reading a book, for friends do you feel like you can't approach or talk to them how would you feel!? For some other person you see reading all the time,how do you react or what do you think!? I usually read at every lunch recess(and whenever else possible)and I'm usually isolated or by myself!. Do you think it's because I'm always reading!? I feel weird whenever I'm spending any free time not reading, like stresses especially if I don't have another book yo read i feel that if I'm not reading it's a vast of my time!.!.!.Do you think I have an Obsession!? my mom wants me to go to one of those nutters(/shrink) that problemed people go to talk about their life, you know, a psychologist because I'm a social retard!. I think that would be bad for my already low reputation!. Do you think I need help!? I'm very quiet and find it near impossible to raise my voice to normal unless a large amount of effort is applied, even so Its still not an improvement; i'm constantly clearing my throught!. At least this way I keep out of trouble for the most part!. I also keep to myself and haven't got any real friends due to the event that happened during the black out period where I just stopped talking or responding to people and walked alone every recess!. Befour I think I've was prety popular and had tones of friends to spare!. Now I feel depressed!. I also stopped singing(hate when people stare at me)under most cercomstanses and mostly never make any big movements or jestures(like that cheerleader movie with the goth cheer leader) and I don't really smile much!. At home, for the most part I'm 100 % fine!.I recovered some when I went to a new school, but now its starting to fall appart again, I've lost all social skilles at my last shool, I'm going to a new school next year!. What do you think of all this!? If you can help with what you've read, then you'll save my mum a fortune of mony that mostlikely would've been waisted in a nutters office, don't tell ME I'm crazzy(I know)!. please answer all the questions!Www@Answer-Health@Com
Answers:
sounds like you have social anxiety!. You're probably afraid of someone thinking something bad about you so you just try to avoid all social interactions yourself!. The best way to get out of it is to try to cope with it nice and slowly and so that you feel comfortable!. Like start talking to people more, join in on a group of people's conversations, but don't try too hard!. As long as you can slowly start doing that and stop caring more so what other people think about you, it will slowly get better and better!. You use the reading by escaping from reality and go in to your own little universe where nothing can go wrong!. Not trying to be harsh, but you just need to grow some balls and deal with it!. Just try acting like your nice and friendly (smile, and laugh at jokes) soon enough it will start becoming a normal thing and even though you are faking it at first!.!. it will become more of a real emotion in due time!. Just remember, nothing happens over night either!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
when i see someone reading i dont really want to interupt them!.
if you're always reading, and you dont talk to anyone, how do you expect someone to start a conversation with you!?
you need to be more social even though you're too shy!.
but if you are feeling depressed i would suggest seeing someone
even if its a school councelor!.
but really, just talk to someone
if you're going to a new school, start all over again!.
dont sit at the lunch table reading
because that'll make everyone think you're a nerd and nobody will want to talk to you!.
just talk to at least ONE person and make a friend
thats all you really need!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
if you're always reading, and you dont talk to anyone, how do you expect someone to start a conversation with you!?
you need to be more social even though you're too shy!.
but if you are feeling depressed i would suggest seeing someone
even if its a school councelor!.
but really, just talk to someone
if you're going to a new school, start all over again!.
dont sit at the lunch table reading
because that'll make everyone think you're a nerd and nobody will want to talk to you!.
just talk to at least ONE person and make a friend
thats all you really need!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
well i just think you should join a club and get to know some new people!. i read ALL THE TIME!!!! and i have lots of friends and i love to speak in public!. when i'm reading (which is like all the time!) my friends just come talk to me and i talk back i put my book down and hang with them or tell them to go away if i'm at a really good part!.!.!.!.my friends accept me for who i am and and that i love to read!.!.!. (sometimes i get in trouble because i read so much! oh well its worth it!) so just make an effort to talk to people and you'll make friends its really not as hard as it seems!Www@Answer-Health@Com
my own experiences!!! I LOVE TO READ!!!Www@Answer-Health@Com