Depression is taking over my life. Please help me.?!


Question: Depression is taking over my life!. Please help me!.!?
Okay, I had a best friend!. It was like we were inseparable, it was like we were one soul!. He has a strong personality, and one can say he was difficult to get along with!. But I learned to love his flaws, I grew so attached to him, this year is our last year in high school, we had so many plans for each other!. He use to get mad at the simplest things, but I did not mind!. And all of a sudden, he left me!. He has erased me out of his life, and found himself new best friends!. He moved out of our locker without telling me, it seems as if he hates me!. It hurts me so much, because how am I suppose to move on so fast!? How can he leave behind 4 years of beautiful moments and enchanting memories!? I guess, this only makes me see that our friendship to him was not too important!.Now I need help, I need help moving on, I need to be able to show him that he does not face me!. Please help me get through this and be strong!. Ever since that incident has happened, I have no motivation for anything!. Thank you for those to have read my question!. Please help me!.Www@Answer-Health@Com


Answers:
First, Do NOT listen to that jerk below!. Maybe you could try and talk to him and see whats going on with him!. Second!. High School is a living hell for some people!. I know!. Don't be depressed!. I know its easier than it sounds but you have your whole life ahead of you out of highschool!. If I knew then what I know now I wouldn't have let trivial things like that bother me!. Its hard when someone your close to sort of moves away from you but you will make new friends and everything will be better once you get out of highschool!. College is an amazing experience!. And even if you dont go to college dont worry you will make lots of new friends and even a new best friend!. If you are still feeling super depressed you should try talking to a counselor dont do anything rash!. Trust me you have your whole life ahead of you!.!.!.!.!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

It's often said we spend too much time caring about those who treat us poorly, and not enough time caring about those who love us!. Focus on the second group right now!. You're at a crossroads in your life, in the coming years you will mature, meet new people, and become the person you'll be for the rest of your life!. This loss must seem tremendous at this time, but in time you'll find new friends, true friends!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

Just remember that you're not alone!. There are people out there that care, trust me!. It's very sad that someone like you has to go through this!. Good luck and keep breathing because you don't know what the tide will bring in!. ^_^Www@Answer-Health@Com

Don't listen to "Tarzan!." Suicide does nothing!. My best friend just killed herself this morning and it hurts more than ever!. If you are depressed then talk to a professional!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

My helpfull hint, try this!.!.!.most cant though!.!.!.

Listen, you are used to a positive, happy, and safe enviroment,
And now its gone, correct!?

O!.K

I live in a life of pure hate, everything that is positive I hate!.!.!.
Everything negative I love!.!.!.

Learn to live in such a way where negative things only make you laugh!.
And positive things make you sick!.

You can do it, I know, I live like this and love it, trust me!.!.!.
You just need to work on being more dark and oppressed!.!.!.

People waiding knee deep in sin arent affected by lifes changes!.!.!.
TY, and good bye!.!.!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

if he just left you like that and got new friends and just forgets you like your no one then he isnt a real friend no matter how much u been through!. i no how you feel!. you have no motivation because you get thinking about this and end up all sad!. if he jusr does this and thinks it right tell him how you fell!. ask y he is acting like this!. then you will no whats going on!. but like most this its hard to move on!. just talk to someone to get this off you chest!. maybe your best friend or someone who understands you!. good luck,hope i helped!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

So I'm assuming there wasn't a reason behind his decision to rid himself of you!? There wasn't anything you might have said or did to make him rid himself of you!?
If he basically through your relationship out the window without any words, then you should do the same!.
Realize that yes he was important in your life, and try to gain closure!. Through out anything that reminds you of him, make your locker not look so empty and get out there and find new people to talk to!.
Maybe you can create a scrapbook of you and him and finish it like its another chapter in your life!.
If you can, seek closure from him as to why he up and left and tell him to give you at least that!.

Edit -
Don't listen to 'Tarzan' just another stupid troll!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

hey!. depression is taking over my life too!.

first of all, i'm sure you have other friends you can hang out with!. but you need to talk to him!. ask him why!? what happened!? it's possible you offended him and didn't even know it (if he's the touchy type, which him getting made easily makes it kinda seem like he is) TALK TO HIM!. if he just randomly changed and wants to hang out with new people, you have no choice but to move on as well!. good luck!. time heals all!.

[you can email me if you want to talk]Www@Answer-Health@Com

be emo
cut your self

last resort

SuicideWww@Answer-Health@Com





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