How can i keep my head up high in moments like these?!
Question: How can i keep my head up high in moments like these!?
Hi, I am only 17, and I live at a University about 3 hours from my home!.!.Lately, everything has been down!. I can't seem to concentrate in my classes, my friends don't contact me all that much, I haven't spoken to my boyfriend in the past 3 days because someone's doing something when the other person is free, my parents haven't called, my roommate is mad at me, because I had a few things on the ground and she thought I took her coffee, she tells me I talk to my boyfriend like crap, but when I talked to him last night (for the littlest bit) i apologized for being rude after telling him my stress lately!. My boyfriend is suppose to be coming down this weekend, and I won't be able to see him much because I have to do so many things!. And to top it all off, my uncle died today!.
Are there any words of encouragement at a time like this!? How can I get through it!? Please help!.!.!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Are there any words of encouragement at a time like this!? How can I get through it!? Please help!.!.!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
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Hey, I know we've been busy lately with our own things (classes, work, etc) but its only for a short time until this class is over!. and its 2 MAYBE 3 times a week!. I'm always here for you sweetheart!. I love you with all my heart, and i always will love you, no matter what!. :)
I dont think you need to see a doctor!. Sometimes things just happen, and unfortunately it all happened around the same time for you this time!. :( I'm sorry you're feeling so down, but after this, theres nowhere to go but up and i'll do everything i can to help take you up!. If theres anything you need, you know im here for you!. I love you so muchWww@Answer-Health@Com
I dont think you need to see a doctor!. Sometimes things just happen, and unfortunately it all happened around the same time for you this time!. :( I'm sorry you're feeling so down, but after this, theres nowhere to go but up and i'll do everything i can to help take you up!. If theres anything you need, you know im here for you!. I love you so muchWww@Answer-Health@Com
go and talk to your tutor and see if you can just go home for a few days!. they are very understanding!. if you just have that short break you will see things arent too bad and will have a renewed outlook!. things wont get to you as much
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wow it sounds like you have a lot going on ! It also sounds like you may be suffering from depression!. You should make an appointment with your Dr!. as soon as possible God BlessWww@Answer-Health@Com
I give you 1 star and I wish you good luck!Www@Answer-Health@Com
I'm sorry that all of these things have been going on in your life!. It can't be easy to lose a close family member just when you feel distant from the ones who usually support you!.
It also sounds like you are dealing with a lot of stressors that are part of your first year at the university: living in a new environment all on your own, managing a tough class schedule and dealing with lots of new people all at the same time!.
I hit this roadblock when I was a freshman!. It was a combination of being isolated from all of my favorite things back home, being out of contact with a lot of my friends, and living with people who all seemed to have different values than me!. There was no one I could really be myself with!.
What really helped me out was that one day, I decided to get up and look for someone who I could relate with!. And so I walked around and talked to everyone whose door was open!. And I met my best friend!.
You should also call your family and friends if you are thinking of them!. They may be thinking about you as well, and wondering why you haven't called!. Or perhaps they don't want to bother you because they don't know your schedule and are afraid that you'll be in the middle of class!. Anyway, I'm sure they'll be glad to hear from you!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
It also sounds like you are dealing with a lot of stressors that are part of your first year at the university: living in a new environment all on your own, managing a tough class schedule and dealing with lots of new people all at the same time!.
I hit this roadblock when I was a freshman!. It was a combination of being isolated from all of my favorite things back home, being out of contact with a lot of my friends, and living with people who all seemed to have different values than me!. There was no one I could really be myself with!.
What really helped me out was that one day, I decided to get up and look for someone who I could relate with!. And so I walked around and talked to everyone whose door was open!. And I met my best friend!.
You should also call your family and friends if you are thinking of them!. They may be thinking about you as well, and wondering why you haven't called!. Or perhaps they don't want to bother you because they don't know your schedule and are afraid that you'll be in the middle of class!. Anyway, I'm sure they'll be glad to hear from you!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
do u believe in God!? just keep praying and believing and he will always help u!. if u pray, but dont believe, nothing will happen!. so u have to believe when you pray!. i John 14:14 it says "if u ask anything in my name, i will do it!." i think that God uses times like these to help bring u closer to him!. its like one of those times where u feel hopless and have no one to turn to!. but he's always there, its just if u will believe and let him work in miraculous ways!. sometimes people never realize how much they need him, until they have no one else left!. Psalms 34:18 says "the Lord is near to those who have a broken heart!." the bible says that everyone will suffer!. not just all for God's fun, its because how can u realize how much u really need him, if yer life is already perfect!? if your life were perfect you wouldnt feel u need anyone!. God makes all bad things, turn into good things!. just believe because God has helped me through so many things and i know for a fact that he is real!. if you dont believe in God, im not trying to force my beliefs on you, but just try praying and asking him what u need him to help u with in life!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
God always helps me!.Www@Answer-Health@Com