Was I molested by other children as a kid?!
Question: Was I molested by other children as a kid!?
I need to straighten things out a little, but can't talk to a counselor or anything b/c i dont have enough money yet!. Im 17 and at age 8 girls taught me about sex and I was vulnerable and a very shy kid!. then some of em actually had sex with me naked but I didn't enjoy it!. later on, my other neighbours did the same thing to me, and this time it involved a boy and his sister the same age as me!. i will not go into details, but um weird stuff happened that confuses me now!. I am not sure if this classifies as molestation, since I participated!. But I was so shy and feel they have taken advantage of me!. All of these kids were probably molested by an adult, but I never was!. so who is to blame here, what can I do, and what side effects would I probably be experiencing now as a result!?Www@Answer-Health@Com
Answers:
yes you were molested when you were little!. I am very sorry about that!. Molestation can happen when a child abuses you sexually as well as an adult!. I am very sorry that this has happened to you!. No ONE DESERVES THIS!. No one is to blame its the continuous cycle of abuse!. None of it is your fault!. Seek counseling please!. you really need it!. it may be free!. you can try hotlines!. look in your telephone book!. i will pray for you!. no one deserves this and it wasn't your fault!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
you may be experiencing sexual orientation confusion!. depression!. guilt!. anger!. among many other things!. I am very glad you are asking for help!. if you do not seek help things will defenitely turn out worse!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
You were molested and I would report this BECAUSE THERE DOING IT TO OTHER CHILDREN!.!.!.YOUR SIDE EFFECTs are starting /and by reporting these bastards it will help you heal !.!.!.do itWww@Answer-Health@Com
If the other children were older THEY had power and control over you!.
The victim (you) are NOT to blame--ever!.
The older children (neighbors) are to blame!.
I was molested at age 14, by a older man and I too was shy, confused and scared--so did what I was told
Molestation is unwanted sexual touchng or stimulation of sexual areas of our bodies that are private!.
Also try to seek out a teacher that you know you can trust that you can talk to--if you have a hard time talking to your parents
Check and see if your area has a rape crisis center--they can help you or direct you to counseling on a sliding fee scale
Nobody who is molested really "wants" it--even if they participated in it!.
The violator gives you NO choiceWww@Answer-Health@Com
The victim (you) are NOT to blame--ever!.
The older children (neighbors) are to blame!.
I was molested at age 14, by a older man and I too was shy, confused and scared--so did what I was told
Molestation is unwanted sexual touchng or stimulation of sexual areas of our bodies that are private!.
Also try to seek out a teacher that you know you can trust that you can talk to--if you have a hard time talking to your parents
Check and see if your area has a rape crisis center--they can help you or direct you to counseling on a sliding fee scale
Nobody who is molested really "wants" it--even if they participated in it!.
The violator gives you NO choiceWww@Answer-Health@Com