Im so confused! move for my job or give love a chance? mature answers please?!
Question: Im so confused! move for my job or give love a chance!? mature answers please!?
I was with my ex fiance for a very long time and we broke up 2 months ago and it broke my heart!. We both have really long hours that we work and never really got to see enough of one another and i hated that!. I adore this guy with everything i've got, he has been there for me through everything even when i went into a dark place after i lost our baby!. He took our breaking up really bad and his friends tell me that he cant get over me, im the same i love him to bits!. My job offered me a job in California as they just opened up there & want me to go get it started, i agreed but now i don't think i can leave him behind and want us to give it another go!. He has asked me recently to think about us getting back together!. We both have mutual friends and when my friends said i was leaving on a night out the other day, he just looked at me in shock and left, i haven't seen him since!. Should i *** this job up and just be happy with the man i love!? Please give me some advice as i am so confused!. Thanks in advanceWww@Answer-Health@Com
Answers:
My best advice to you is if you truly love this man, don't take the job and stay there and work things out!. You have the rest of your life to work!. You may not have the rest of your life to get him back!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
I say do what makes YOU happy first and foremost!. It seems that your ex-fiance is a very important factor in your decision!. So with that, my suggestion to you is that you both have a sit down and figure it out together!. But also have him know that if you should decide to stay, that he is to be your rock unconditionally!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
I think I would have a talk to my ex before making any decisions!. However, you broke up for a reason and love doesn't pay the bills or put food on the table!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
I think you should have a serious talk with your ex before you make any decision!. If you're both willing to give it another shot,by all means stay and try again!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Love is the ultimate fantasy!. You have the ultimate fantasy!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
hai, you feel better in life , just step in http://ammabhagavanmiracles!.comWww@Answer-Health@Com
I think if you can keep your job where you are and it is stable, then you should give the relationship another try!. If you dont you may spend the rest of your life wondering what could have been!. Don't go jobless for him though, it is way to hard to find a new job these days!. Also, you should consider whether the things that were a problem still are!. If that is the case, it still won't work no matter how much you love each other unless you fix the problems and remove the obstacles!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
If you were engaged and broke it off, there must have been a pretty serious reason why!. It sounds like you need this time apart to really think about this relationship and what is right for you!. You obviously don't want to get back with him if the things that broke you up the first time don't change!. You have a lot of questions you need to ask yourself!. Besides your ex- what else would keep you here/ What are the benefits short and long term to moving!? Would be able to find another career opportunity like this down the line!? It's a tough economy out there right now, and people are waiting for you to mess up to come in and take the floor beneath you!. I've never been a big believer in taking an ex- back, 95% of the time it doesn't work the second time around because things don't change we become stubborn and expect the other person to make the change!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Okay you didn't really explain why you broke up!. I know you said you both worked long hours etc!. but was that really the only reason!? Doesn't seem to be!. Also what job do you have!? Will the move benefit you in the future!? Regardless of staying for the man you "love" you have to look at the career in another light!. Besides all that I'm going to be straight with you about the relationship!. I'm not in it and I can't tell you what you probably want to hear which I'm sure is stay where you are!. If it didn't work before the likelihood of it working in the future is pretty slim!. Plenty of fish in the sea that's all I'm saying!. Plus you only broke up 2 months ago!.!.!. not exactly a lot of time to get over something so I'm sure you're still in the initial stages of being upset!. You have to give the whole thing time which you haven't done yet!. I know I didn't give a straightforward answer but you have to figure it out for yourself really, or give more information!. Good luck!.Www@Answer-Health@Com