My life is hopeless....?!
Question: My life is hopeless!.!.!.!.!?
Im 25 and i feel like im 80!. I physically and emotionally hurt everyday!. I suffer from extreme anxiety!.!.!.i feel it 24 hours a day, even in my dreams i feel it!. Everyday is like jail, I spend it in places i dont wanna be doing things i dont wanna do!. I cannot socialize normally, eat normally, sleep normally, or think normally ever!.Ive been at the same job for 5 years and i hate it!. i cant find anywhere else to work!. Im in college too, studying psychology oddly enough (with a 3!.8 GPA), and i dont know why because the world and my life is hopeless!. I am engaged, but i love her so much that i dont want to put her through my mental crap anymore!. Im miserable no matter how positive i try to see things!. I see humans in general as bad and stupid, and i dont want too!.Only negative stuff happens to me even though i dont lie, cheat, steal, and am very empathetic to those less fortunate, all while the bad people i know have nothing but positivity happen to them!. I have been to 10 different doctors and tried countless meds!. None worked!. My family only tells me my problems arent that bad and people have it worse!. That doesnt help me!. I am also sick of venting it!. nothing works, i am hopeless!. I will not kill myself, but i do see death as a big relief!. If i was told tomorrow that i will die, i would be truely happy!. What else can I do!?Www@Answer-Health@Com
Answers:
Hi Bill!.
I read everything you wrote and it just sounds like you are so overwhelmed with everything!.
You have alot on your plate right now with juggling work and school and keeping up such a good grade average!.!.!.then dealing with life itself and maintaining a relationship!. You feel pressure!. I can just feel your anxiety!.
I suggest that you just lay in bed alone sometime and just let everything go out of your mind!.!.!.just let it all go!. You need some peace and some rest!.
Secondly, I want to assure you, you are a great guy!.!.!.you are in school to better yourself so that you don't have to work at this crappy job you have for the rest of your life!. Just pull through this and things will work out for the better!. Your efforts will pay off to make life easier for you and your love!.
Which brings me to your girlfriend: you love her and she loves you!. Relationships are work and sometimes it hurts, but we have to push our feelings out of the way and really look at that person and think about how much we love them and give them that love!. It is hard, yes, I know, but you have to-- and I'm sure you think she is worth it!.
I understand what you mean about your family -- it's not about who has bigger problems than you -- it's that you feel what you feel and are going through this time and need support!. You feel like you are in a vice being squeezed to death!.
I assure you, if you keep working hard and get through this, you will come out a better, stronger, even more good of a man that what you are now!. And you will be able to help ppl that go through what you are going through!.
Please don't look at other ppl and think they have it so great!. It's not so!.
Bill, everything will be alright!. I'm really proud of you for working so hard and I hope that you get through this!.!.and most of all !.!.get some rest!.!.mental and physical!.
- AmyWww@Answer-Health@Com
I read everything you wrote and it just sounds like you are so overwhelmed with everything!.
You have alot on your plate right now with juggling work and school and keeping up such a good grade average!.!.!.then dealing with life itself and maintaining a relationship!. You feel pressure!. I can just feel your anxiety!.
I suggest that you just lay in bed alone sometime and just let everything go out of your mind!.!.!.just let it all go!. You need some peace and some rest!.
Secondly, I want to assure you, you are a great guy!.!.!.you are in school to better yourself so that you don't have to work at this crappy job you have for the rest of your life!. Just pull through this and things will work out for the better!. Your efforts will pay off to make life easier for you and your love!.
Which brings me to your girlfriend: you love her and she loves you!. Relationships are work and sometimes it hurts, but we have to push our feelings out of the way and really look at that person and think about how much we love them and give them that love!. It is hard, yes, I know, but you have to-- and I'm sure you think she is worth it!.
I understand what you mean about your family -- it's not about who has bigger problems than you -- it's that you feel what you feel and are going through this time and need support!. You feel like you are in a vice being squeezed to death!.
I assure you, if you keep working hard and get through this, you will come out a better, stronger, even more good of a man that what you are now!. And you will be able to help ppl that go through what you are going through!.
Please don't look at other ppl and think they have it so great!. It's not so!.
Bill, everything will be alright!. I'm really proud of you for working so hard and I hope that you get through this!.!.and most of all !.!.get some rest!.!.mental and physical!.
- AmyWww@Answer-Health@Com
!.!.!.been through alot !.!.!.ALOT myself!.!.!.!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
sorry too lazy to read the whole thing but u r not the only one i m hopeless tooWww@Answer-Health@Com
I don't know how to solve your problem but let you know you are not the only one "hopeless"!. Me too!. I suffer from anxiety disorder!.
I don't like my current job, my colleagues but everyday, I force myself to come to work!. I need $ to support my family!.
I try to look for another job but I can't find any for 2 years!. I sent out 5 application letters weekly!. I cannot count how many letters I had been sent!. I am very miserable!. I don't have any happy thing!. My colleagues bullied me, my best friend know I suffer from anxiety, she was concerned me at first but now also ignore me!.
I am sad, hopeless, miserable everyday!.
I try to think of some positive things to cheer up myself but I can't!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
I don't like my current job, my colleagues but everyday, I force myself to come to work!. I need $ to support my family!.
I try to look for another job but I can't find any for 2 years!. I sent out 5 application letters weekly!. I cannot count how many letters I had been sent!. I am very miserable!. I don't have any happy thing!. My colleagues bullied me, my best friend know I suffer from anxiety, she was concerned me at first but now also ignore me!.
I am sad, hopeless, miserable everyday!.
I try to think of some positive things to cheer up myself but I can't!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
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Dear friend i suffered from horrible anxiety for a long time!. I also had depression and have schizophrenia!. I know what it's like to go through hell like you are!. Let me tell you there is hope! I hope that you will find the treasures of coming to accept Jesus as your Lord and savior and knowing his saving grace!. He is the best person for the job in helping you and giving you hope!. He died for you so your sins could be forgiven and you can know he wants whats best for you at all times!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
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