I was fired yesterday and now i'm really depressed.?!
Question: I was fired yesterday and now i'm really depressed!.!?
I just started 70ish days ago!. My 45 day review was a load of crap!. They said I didn't work and didn't listen!. (which is bull crap but if you don't believe me, that's ok!. its not the issue I'm asking about :) )
So I got called into the office yesterday!. Told that I had to be let go because of my "Defensive" issues!. I was like WHAT!?! She said that I didn't get along with the student teacher!. (I was an aide to the most special children in the world!. Kids that couldn't talk, walk or eat!. They all where in wheelchairs!.) I told her that I got along with her and respected her!. I told her that's not a reason!. She refused to tell me anything more saying I wasn't a good fit but that I have great qualities!.
Anyways, I'm so depressed!. I'm so down!. I haven't been able to eat or sleep!. I'm in a huge slump!.
I guess i feel so bad because 1!. I worked so hard to please them even though I know they were against me from day one and 2!. how will I ever find a job now, being fired! 3!. I worked so hard for them!.
Any tips on how to get undepressed over this!? :(Www@Answer-Health@Com
So I got called into the office yesterday!. Told that I had to be let go because of my "Defensive" issues!. I was like WHAT!?! She said that I didn't get along with the student teacher!. (I was an aide to the most special children in the world!. Kids that couldn't talk, walk or eat!. They all where in wheelchairs!.) I told her that I got along with her and respected her!. I told her that's not a reason!. She refused to tell me anything more saying I wasn't a good fit but that I have great qualities!.
Anyways, I'm so depressed!. I'm so down!. I haven't been able to eat or sleep!. I'm in a huge slump!.
I guess i feel so bad because 1!. I worked so hard to please them even though I know they were against me from day one and 2!. how will I ever find a job now, being fired! 3!. I worked so hard for them!.
Any tips on how to get undepressed over this!? :(Www@Answer-Health@Com
Answers:
Ok!.!.!.you're not Japanese, so suicide or apologizing in public is not necessary!. In an environment where everyone is looking to make budget cuts, older employees are very insecure about their positions and see young energetic underpaid newcomers as a threat to their job security!. Dear heart, you may have worked yourself out of a job!. The way around this is to keep asking people if you're doing something right and making them feel wanted--create work for them next time!. Yeah, I know it sounds innane, but it works!. Basic psychology!.
How about this !.!.!. make a phone call and get an EIN number from the IRS!. Voila, in 15 minutes you have a small business!. Now you're only limited by your imagination!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
How about this !.!.!. make a phone call and get an EIN number from the IRS!. Voila, in 15 minutes you have a small business!. Now you're only limited by your imagination!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
The best thing that ever happened to me was getting fired from the food industry by a supervisor that was threatened by someone who could flip burgers faster than she could!. She's still flipping burgers!. I've got my own business!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
You have a right to a get a detailed reason for why you were fired!. Do you belong to a union!? If so get in contact with them for advice on what to do and to find out whether your employer was justified in firing you!. If you don't belong to a union you can still contact the relevant union for your professional for advice!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
look things like this always happen to me
like something bad happened and i get really upset and then it turns out that it's good for me
i know that doesn't make sense
but how many times things happened to you that you thought it can't get any worse then suddenly you discover that it happened for a reason and maybe in the future you will happy that you didn't get this job !! who knows
keep your hopes high and GOOD LUCK !!!Www@Answer-Health@Com
like something bad happened and i get really upset and then it turns out that it's good for me
i know that doesn't make sense
but how many times things happened to you that you thought it can't get any worse then suddenly you discover that it happened for a reason and maybe in the future you will happy that you didn't get this job !! who knows
keep your hopes high and GOOD LUCK !!!Www@Answer-Health@Com
Same thing happened to me!. I left a 3 year career in Insurance because I thought I would better suite administration!. This place I worked in was horrible, but like you, I did everything I could to please them, I even took on a persona that I thought they wanted to get the job done!. In the end it turned out to be a nightmare and they let me go!.
That was 2 years ago and it still affects me now!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
That was 2 years ago and it still affects me now!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Life!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Bad things happen in life!. Let it go!. If you're boss was aloser then that's her fault, not yours!. My tip is round up some friends and go have a good time!. Remind yourself that there are always opportunities and that a better one could come up!. Once you are feeling better, you could start looking for a good job and focusing on the positives, instead of the negatives!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
"in every closing of a door!.!.!.!.!.there is always an open window,,so what it's their loss, not yours because they let go of someone like you who is passionate to those kids that you taken care of!.!.!.!.try to look at the bright side of things,theres a lot of work out there!.!.!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
If you feel they were wrong, you can call the human resource department that handles that company!. They will do a complete investigation of the situation!. Make sure you tell them everything that happened!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Get another job and prove them wrong!.
Sitting here doing nothing in terms of a new job will not pay the bills!. Nobody's going to walk up to you and offer you a job!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Sitting here doing nothing in terms of a new job will not pay the bills!. Nobody's going to walk up to you and offer you a job!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
file your unemployment first thing!.!.!.you have to have income coming in!. This has happened to me twice in 2 years!.!.!.!.!.!.but now I am working 2 jobs!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Its perfectly normal to be depressed after a sad event like this!. You'll improve as you deal with this on your own time!. Best to do is look forward to your future and try to learn from your past experiences (while you may not agree with their reviews and comments, there may have been instances where you did learn)!. You will of course find another job!.!.!.it may take a little time and hard work, but they are out there!.Www@Answer-Health@Com