I'm a guy who is 6'11" tall! I hate it! No one likes me! What can I!


Question: I'm a guy who is 6'11" tall! I hate it! No one likes me! What can I do about this!?
Sometimes I don't feel like living anymore because I'm suck a freak!. I hate myself! I have no friends at all! Don't you even dare bring up sports! I HATE sports! HATE THEM! I would never play a sport! Ever! I'm a very odd person, so people tell me!. I wish I could be MUCH shorter!. I'm such a freak of nature! So ugly!

I fear that I'm going to hurt myself!



I can't stand being myself!
I'm almost 20!.Www@Answer-Health@Com


Answers:
All that hating things is what makes you think everyone else hate you!. You are putting those feelings out and that is what you will get back!.

If you put out good thoughts and feelings about yourself and others you will get the good stuff back!. Try it, and see how it works!. But you really have to mean it!.

A bunch of guys in my family are over 6'5" and one is 6'10" - they do well in life and married with families, height was never an issue!. If they had gone through life hating themselves for it, I don't think it would have gone so well!. Funny that we don't notice their height either since they don't!.

Get used to intimidating people!. Anyone who is strong, tall, powerful, smart, active, etc!. can scare others!. Learning how to handle them in spite of that is a great ability!. Leadership ability!.

One thing though - NEVER take a drug or medication for anything to try and change your feelings, it will make them 10X worse!. It is up to you to change your own feelings for the better!. Start by helping others!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

Read this little booklet:

www!.thewaytohappiness!.orgWww@Answer-Health@Com

Hey man, the first thing I would suggest would be to see a therapist, I'm not joking!.
next, look at people in history like Lincoln!. He was extremely tall for his time, and people always called him ugly and made fun of him!. He was really aukward in his speeches, and he ended up the president of the United States!. Think of the potential that every person has!. Take the talents that have been given you, and put them to use to better your life and the life of others!. Like I said, you should get a therapist to help, looks like severe depression!. whatever you do, don't listen and pay attention to the ridicule, even though it's easier!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

I can understand how frustrated you are but that's the challenge of life! Everyone's got to work on something that they hate about themselves and learn to accept and work with what they've got!. You don't need to impress too many people to live a happy life!. People are LUCKY to count more than 5 GOOD friends who they'll have in their lifetime!. You're only a freak if you think you are!. Why don't you try and make the most out of what you've got and be grateful that you're really tall and odd instead of disabled and paralyzed!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

I have a friend who is 6'10" everybody loves him!. Nobody thinks there in anything wrong with his height!. If anything we are all fascinated by it!. I also have insecurities about my height I'm 5' 0", and I wish I was taller, but people tell me there is nothing wrong with my height!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

Friend who is tall, and me who is shortWww@Answer-Health@Com

i know you feel horrible but god made you who you are for a reason!. it sounds like depression,which i think you need to find a counsler who can help you cope with your feelings of lonliness and hopelessness!.
please don't hurt yourself,god gave you life and only he gets to decide when he wants you to come home to him!.
to ward off bad thoughts,i would exercise,watch comedy movies and shows on tv to laugh and take your mind off of your problems,i would go for walks to clear your head and write down your feelings in a journal!. i am sure you are not a monster and if people are rude and mean to you,so what!? don't worry about unimportant,unhappy,insecure people who are not worth your time!.
just be yourself,be friendly to people and you will make some friends with cool people who will like you for you!.
pray to god and talk to someone,you are worthy!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

hey dont hurt yourself being tall has some good sum good points!. im 5"2 and i dont like being short!. and your not ugly ive never seen you but thats how people bring theirselfs down, ive said that ever since i was 16 and now im 18!. i wish i could take back everything i said!. so my advice tell yourself your a good person and its not your fault if your tall you just got it in the family!. and if people say anything about your height then just tell them to either like you or get over theirselfs!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

Are you kidding!? Its so cool that you're that tall!. Besides your height isn't actually who you are, its just a trait that you have, like brown hair!. I think that in order for others to appreciate you, you have to appreciate yourself!. You are not a monster because I know you care about what others think of you, meaning you care about others, a real "monster" wouldn't!. Seek professional help!. There's more to you than your height!.

When it comes to making friends, make humor about your height, it truly makes you less intimidating (I had a similar experience in HS and because of this I was way better off)Www@Answer-Health@Com

dude

all you can do is come to terms with it!.!.!. I personally am not the most attractive person in the world but I make up for it with my kick *** personality and im fat but I am who I am and not alot I can do about things out of my control!.!.!.!. I am a fugly bastard !.!.!.!. sad but true but you know what !.!.!. **** happens!.!.!.!. women dig confidence and I have that out the *** !.!.!.!.!.!.!. if you want to get laid !.!.!.!. use my patented method !.!.!.!.!.!.!.shoot at everything your bound to hit something!.!.!.!.

You cannot do anything about your size!.!.!.!. but you can do something about your personality and who you are!.!.!. figure out what works for you !.!.!. if you are thinking about ending it !.!.!. remember one thing!.!. if you succeed there are no take backs, no do overs, no mulligans!.!.!.!. YOU DO NOT GET A SECOND CHANCE!.!.!.!.!. if its that bad talk to a therapist get drugs prescribed or otherwise!.!.!.!. do what you have to do but you cannot give in to to the bad thoughts!.!. if you need someone to talk to my yahoo msg is bumpndanight!.!.!.!.

BryanWww@Answer-Health@Com

Have you ever thought that maybe no one wants to be your friend cause your not a nice guy!?

Ponder that oneWww@Answer-Health@Com

go on dating sites and craigslist to meet people who wont care!Www@Answer-Health@Com

Join a circus!Www@Answer-Health@Com





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