Someone help me. i dont know what to do. i want to kill myself or runaway.?!


Question: Someone help me!. i dont know what to do!. i want to kill myself or runaway!.!?
i had a boyfriend even though my religion is very strict i never told my family about him!.!.!.!.i have been with my boyfriend for 5 years and loved him until he lied to me!.!.then i went to my country where i was in an arranged marriage!. i did it only to please my family!. i liked the guy at first but come to realize we are completely different and i can never love him or sleep with him again and want out of the arranged marriage!.

i love my ex-boyfriend and want to be with him!. i cant see my life happy without him!. iive always only been hapopy with him and regret not bringing him around!.

now i tried to get out the marriage and my family wont allow it!. my husband is in love with me but i'm not!.

i just want to run away or die!. please tell me what i should doWww@Answer-Health@Com


Answers:
Talk to your husband first of all!. If he loves you he seems nice enough to at least understand or want to understand how you feel!. Maybe he can help make your life with him easier, or maybe help you do what you feel in your heart is right!. Truly if he loves you he should let you be with who you love, but he might also want to keep you and make you happy himself!. Either way he would like to know what you are thinking!.

If it comes down to it, it will probably have to be between choosing between the man you love or your family!. If you want to really run away and live with him, make sure you love him enough to never see everyone else again!. Sometimes that is the cost of love!.

Otherwise you can just make the adult decision, realize that not everything works out like it does in the fairy tales, be happy with what you have and appreciate your husband, and do your best to live a happy life with what you have!. Most people aren't that lucky to have a family and a good home!. Maybe if you give your husband a chance you will find you do love him!.

Not everyone knows what they need in life either, and out of passion people can make some big mistakes!. Take a nap, talk to your husband, and think things over!. read a book or something!. go watch Casablanca!. Hope this helps!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

Definatly DON'T DIE!.!.!. bad mistake doing that
Tell them you should make your own decisions since its your life and not theirs please let them understand your need and try to relate it to life and there love
Be strong during this and don't give in just remember about your need and your happyness!. Otherwise, leave your a grown woman and do things for yourself things that please you and no one else, however, be considerate in other situations!. Follow your heartWww@Answer-Health@Com

you have to do what you want to do, & be with the man you love!. it's your choice, not your family's, & if they can't understand that then they're not worth it!. don't kill yourself or run away - i've learnt running away from problems isn't right & doesn't solve anything!XWww@Answer-Health@Com

divorce him, it obviously what you want!. F#ck your family, if their so pretentious that they want you to suffer all for the idea of a marriage, than they arent familyWww@Answer-Health@Com

If you are an adult you can get a divorce without your family's approval!. Just do it!. Contact a divorce attorney!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

if you;re not afraid of him tell him the truth if you think he may hurt you !.!. sometimes when he;s not around just leave and get afr away!.
but dont jump into something worst!.
be very carefulWww@Answer-Health@Com

Stay with your husband!. Forget the past and start new life!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

leave your boyfriendWww@Answer-Health@Com

i ain't not sure about that!.!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

divorce get more boys dont let your family shooce a guy for uWww@Answer-Health@Com

What country do you live in now!?Www@Answer-Health@Com

Sounds like on of those fairy tales you hear about!. I know you loved your ex-boyfriend but if he lied to you is that a relationship you want!? Be careful on who your affecting try loving back if that fails terribly have the marriage annulment, just consider what your doing because life doesn't always go the right way!.
did you know opposites attract!?
That's my advice!.Www@Answer-Health@Com





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