need advise for a emotional freind?!


Question: Need advise for a emotional freind?
(were in 9th grade) i try to help my freind out and shes doing better but she doesnt think thigs through. i helped her break out of a relationship that she didnt no how to and she said she was guna be single for a while and then she dates 2 other guys. she got in a fight with her mom and cut herself. i dont no if i should walk away or try and help more.. i wana help her but she lies to me like everyday. she said she wasnt guna cut and she wasnt guna date and she did both the nexted day. i dont no what to do and i need some advice. sould i say i dont wana talk till ur cut heals or what. help anyone?

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Save yourself. You are NOT responsible for your friend. She is as toxic for you as she is to herself. Her Parents need to get her professional help now while she is a minor. Explain your feelings to her Parents and yours so they can be prepared to deal with whatever arises. Then tell your friend you love her but won't be part of her self destruction. You are only 15-16 yrs old. Focus on what is healthy for you and pray for your friend to do the same.



well i think your friend really needs you right now. you need to talk to her and tell her how you feel and that she needs to stop lying to you. friends dont need to lie to each other and her cutting herself could eventually kill her if she goes to deep. just explain to her that she is a good person and that what she is doing is self mutilation and is stupid. also, you can only help someone so much. if they are willing to help themselves, then you cant really help them...the choice is yours.



Dont ever back out on a friend when they really need you the most. She might say that she doesnt want your help but she will thank you in the long run. If you are comfortable with her parents you for sure should talk to them about the situation...your friend is hurting herself and that is not okay. Get involoved and try and help her cause its clear that she is not stable.




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