Can someone help me please?!


Question: Can someone help me please?
I feel so overwhelm and suicidal .My grandmal just moved back in ...She so negative .No one hears anything positive .I just want to take some pills .Now I really do want to die .I can't take it anymore I just want the pain to go away.I want to run away .I don't want to be put down all the time.I just don't know what to do .Please no rude comments

Answers:

first of all, nothing in life is worth dying for. they may not purposely be putting you down. if you feel like they are, you all need to sit down and talk and tell them how you feel. never take your own life though, regardless of what others say to you. everyone was put on this earth for a reason. there are so many people who would be hurt if you killed yourself, especially your mom and dad. you mom and dad conceived you and she gave birth to you. it would be like losing part of themselves. if you do talk to them and it does not help, you can go to the hospital and tell them you feel like killing yourself and they will put you on suicide watch and admit you. if you dont want to do that, here is the number for the national suicide hotline.

National Suicide Prevention Lifeline 1-800-273-TALK (8255): Suicide hotline, 24/7 free and confidential, nationwide network of crisis centers.



when she is in a room just find a reason to be someplace else. i went through this with my mother. i don't think she ever heard the word "positive" in her life. she made everyone around her miserable. so i just found a reason not to be around her any more than i had to. believe me though suicide is NOT THE ANSWER to your problem. i have tried that 4 times in my life and it solves nothing. try talking to your mom or dad ( depending on whose mother she is). explain to them that although you love your grandma her negative attitude towards people and things is making a nervous wreck out of you and can they please talk to her about it. maybe you could suggest that they try to get her interested in something such as bingo or bridge, ect. that will get her out of the house several days or nights a week

been there and understand how you feel.



Your grandma has a problem with being very negative. i know people like this, and unfortunately in life, you will meet up with lots of people like this.
But you know what? that is NO reason to end your life!!
How old are you? At some point you will be out, on your own and starting your independent life!

Without getting enraged and yelling, i would simply express your feelings.
When grandma says something negative, just say 'wow, that's really a mean thing to say'--or ''why are you so angry , grandma?'--or simply IGNORE her.
I know it is hard. is this your mom's mom? Talk with your mom and tell her that grandma is so negative and it is making life miserable for you. Maybe she can talk with grandma.
Say 'do you love me grandma--why do you criticise me so much?" tell her she is ruining your confidence and self-esteem.

Taking some pills will get you committed to a psychiatric facility! You don't want that--you deserve to be happy.

24 yrs psych healthcare



Email me at dreamsofsomeday@live.com
I'm here if you need someone to talk to.

I understand what it's like to have negative people in one's family, and I know how hard it is to deal with them. However, I know this seems possible, but you need to ignore them. Try to stay away from her if you can. Stay out all day with your friends if you have to. Anything to get away from her, as long as it's safe. Don't let her do this to you.

Please don't do anything to yourself over this </3.

My friend also has an awesome Facebook group: http://www.facebook.com/home.php?sk=grou…

There is also a suicide hotline that is anonymous: 1-800-SUICIDE
It can't hurt to call it. :)



I would sit down and have a talk with your grandma. Let her know how much it hurts when she puts you down. Sometimes older generations can be like that to younger ones. Thats something I
do not understand. It is important to let her know how bad it makes you feel. You don't deserve that.



I know its hard, but you have to try to not let it bother you. I am in cosmetology school with 30 females and they make mean remarks all day, steal and mess with your stuff, talk about you behind your back..at the beginning of the year I would go home crying everyday but I learned to not let it bother me. I know how you feel though email me if you need to talk. Kristinnicole91@yahoo.com



there are children dying being raped && beaten, && you want to END YOUR LIFE b/c your grandma says mean things to you? please calm yourself down.

help?



You have to let it go in one ear and out the other. I have a coworker like that and the only way I can do that is to totally ignore her. You have my sympathies.

Best of luck to you!



Firs of all never try to end your life just bcoz u r depressed. Only losers do that. Calm down your mind by meditating and take things the positive way..



ur table manners are a cryin shame, ur playin with ur food is this some kind of game?
dont u know that other kids are starvin in japan -so Eat it -Just eat it
-Weird Al-
the 80s

yahoo




The consumer health information on answer-health.com is for informational purposes only and is not a substitute for medical advice or treatment for any medical conditions.
The answer content post by the user, if contains the copyright content please contact us, we will immediately remove it.
Copyright © 2007-2011 answer-health.com -   Terms of Use -   Contact us

Health Categories