I'm depress and want to die?!


Question: I'm depress and want to die?
Everyday I try to pretend I'm normal...... I try to hide it when I have anxiety attacks and panic attacks but I only make a fool of myselfa nd embarass myself often. I go to college, and almost everyday i have a bad day because I panic in class and its so embarassing people think im crazy or something and i feel bad. I have horrible trouble making eye contact, I feel like people are staring at me and I can't beat the feeling..... I can't even see good in class like if anyone eyes can amke contact with mine my vision goes really blurry and i can't see much its like my pupils are turning smaller so i can't see other peoples eyes cause in my mind they are a danger to me and my body reacts to fight a danger situation by making my pupils smaller so i can't see them in a way.... how can i just be happy and make my life normal?

Answers:

go to a psychologist, some kind of social anxiety disorder, don't kill yourself though, not worth it, you only get 1 shot to live, why would you want to give up so easy? you're still young like me, I'm holding out hope I'll be ridiculously happy one day, you just have to work at it and make things happen for yourself, but yes, go to a psychologist, there are treatments to help you that will improve your quality of life so you can figure out how to be happy, and with their help you can start a new life



Maybe go for private tutoring, with someone you feel relaxed with, and maybe go for counselling, it really does help, but make sure you like the person and the environment of the counselling, otherwise, it could make you feel even more depressed. I also think you should go on anti-depressants. And try to remember, there's nothing to be ashamed of in your situation, and you don't want to be normal, normal is often boring. Try to put a smile on in the hardest of situations, and try to stay positive. Hope this helps.



Just realize that some people are "dangers" to you, but others are the reason for living. Ask most content people - they'll tell you that the people filling their lives make them the most happy and fulfilled. You seem to be blocking everyone out. Also, if you're noticeably fidgeting when someone looks at you, this may make others JUST as uncomfortable to talk to YOU. You have to be empathetic sometimes. Give people a chance, show them the real you - the real you isn't this person. But in addition to that, talk to a counselor or a therapist. It's cliche as mess, but they really do help. And they don't gossip your life.



Well I think you need to chill.
Ya see I live on the code DGAF don't give a fu#&.
don't give a fuc# what they think I have friends to chill with and pass it to ya know what it is. smoke some of that good weed. but not to much it might mess with your mind at first.
but about a few weeks into it you should be a real chill person. don't kill yourself. I was somewhat the same



Please feel better. It makes me sad to read things like this. Life is beautiful. Please give it a chance. You should do something that brings happiness to your life. There's a lot of friendly people out there:]
give it a chance, just take a breathe and relax. Try doing yoga or relaxation excercises. I keep a journal, I find it really helps to relieve pain:]
god bless. Stay positive<3
you are loved



Your anxiety sounds like it significantly impacts your ability to function in a social environment. If you haven't tried medication yet I would recommend you speak to a psychiatrist and try out some of the different medications available.



I now what you are going thure, life is good, try to get some help, go to church and see a doctor that can help you, thats what I did



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Don't do it mate,It's not worth it everyone has something to live for,Right?

Oh and please do not use the word "like" a lot mate it's a Yank custom.



You might want to see a doctor and look into starting an anti-anxiety medication. These can really help take that horrible feeling away, and make every day more enjoyable.



pray god will help you it could take lots of time or however long it goes but he will help you the key is to have faith believe he will help you and patience

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Don't do it, you have too much to live for. Get professional help asap. You will thank me in the long run.



first of all, go see a doctor. This may be a sickness, not trying to be mean, but it may be true. It can be treated though with therapy



Join an activity or a club and begin to interact people.



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At least you arent this girl that sat next to me. She would not stop humming i wanted to punch her



GF Bro



You should stop hiding and open up to those around you and reach out for help. Good news...anxiety is treatable and there is lots of help out there. If you have health insurance, check with them and see if psychological care is covered. I would talk with your family or maybe even reach out to someone at your college you can help you find a way to get help. Anxiety affects many many people. You are NOT ALONE! You only continue to suffer because you have not yet reached out for help. There is no shame in admitting this to people. I used to suffer from bad social anxiety. My hands would shake when I knew people were watching me. Opening up to people helped me tremendously. I rarely ever have anxiety like I used to anymore. You're ok! :]



: "Why should I not commit suicide?"

Our hearts go out to those who have thoughts of ending their own lives through suicide. If that is you right now, it may speak of many emotions, such as feelings of hopelessness and despair. You may feel like you are in the deepest pit, and you doubt there is any hope of things getting better. No one seems to care or understand where you are coming from. Life just is not worth living...or is it?

If you will take a few moments to consider letting God truly be God in your life right now, He will prove how big He really is, “for nothing is impossible with God” (Luke 1:37). Perhaps scars from past hurts have resulted in an overwhelming sense of rejection or abandonment. That may lead to self-pity, anger, bitterness, vengeful thoughts, or unhealthy fears that have caused problems in some of your most important relationships.

Why should you not commit suicide? Friend, no matter how bad things are in your life, there is a God of love who is waiting for you to let Him guide you through your tunnel of despair and out into His marvelous light. He is your sure hope. His name is Jesus.

This Jesus, the sinless Son of God, identifies with you in your time of rejection and humiliation. The prophet Isaiah wrote of Him in Isaiah 53:2-6, describing Him as a man who was “despised and rejected” by everyone. His life was full of sorrow and suffering. But the sorrows He bore were not His own; they were ours. He was pierced, wounded, and crushed, all because of our sin. Because of His suffering, our lives can be redeemed and made whole.

Friend, Jesus Christ endured all this so that you might have all your sins forgiven. Whatever weight of guilt you carry, know that He will forgive you if you humbly receive Him as your Savior. “...Call upon me in the day of trouble; I will deliver you...” (Psalm 50:15). Nothing you have ever done is too bad for Jesus to forgive. Some of His choicest servants committed gross sins like murder (Moses), murder and adultery (King David), and physical and emotional abuse (the apostle Paul). Yet they found forgiveness and a new abundant life in the Lord. “Therefore, if anyone is in Christ, he is a new creation; the old has gone, the new has come!” (2 Corinthians 5:17).

Why should you not commit suicide? Friend, God stands ready to repair what is “broken,” namely, the life you have now, the life you want to end by suicide. In Isaiah 61:1-3, the prophet wrote, “The LORD has anointed me to preach good news to the poor. He has sent me to bind up the brokenhearted, to proclaim freedom for the captives and release from darkness for the prisoners, to proclaim the year of the Lord’s favor…to comfort all who mourn, and provide for those who grieve…to bestow on them a crown of beauty instead of ashes, the oil of gladness instead of mourning, and a garment of praise instead of a spirit of despair.”

Come to Jesus, and let Him restore your joy and usefulness as you trust Him to begin a new work in your life. He promises to restore the joy you have lost and give you a new spirit to sustain you. Your broken heart is precious to Him: “The sacrifices of God are a broken spirit; a broken and contrite heart, O God, you will not despise” (Psalm 51:12, 15-17).

Will you accept the Lord as your Savior and Shepherd? He will guide your thoughts and steps—one day at a time—through His Word, the Bible. “I will instruct you and teach you in the way you should go; I will counsel you and watch over you” (Psalm 32:8). “He will be the sure foundation for your times, a rich store of salvation and wisdom and knowledge; the fear of the LORD is the key to this treasure” (Isaiah 33:6). In Christ, you will still have struggles, but you will now have hope. He is “a friend who sticks closer than a brother” (Proverbs 18:24). May the grace of the Lord Jesus be with you in your hour of decision.

If you desire to trust Jesus Christ as your Savior, speak these words in your heart to God: “God, I need you in my life. Please forgive me for all that I have done. I place my faith in Jesus Christ and believe that He is my Savior. Please cleanse me, heal me, and restore my joy in life. Thank You for Your love for me and for Jesus' death on my behalf.”




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