I dont wnt to live any more , but i know life is hard can u help?!

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Hey, I'm sorry about that. Heartbreaks can hurt like hell.
You may have heard this before, but regardless of how cliche it sounds, it's true. Killing yourself won't solve anything. Life is wonderful, and there is a lot to live for. The pain you are currently feeling will pass away, with time, and once it does, life will be filled with happiness. All you have to do is hold on, and let time heal the wounds.
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Hi,

Hey he loves you and wants to live for his family after breaking up with you so why dont you think of living for you family. Why this guy seems to be so important in your life than your family. He may be right at his place. If you love him truly, understand his situation and make it easy for both of you to take a break.

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hey if death is end for anything then none of them can live in this world . can you find any person without nil problems all of them have problems we should tackle them in a better a way.he is a only buddy for you ah .may god has a still better person for you dear girl.don't try for foolish things to die.
face your problems courageously.every end has a good beginning

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watch the movie jab we met and anjana and anjani then come back to me if u still wants to die friend

I've felt physical, emotional and social pain many times in my life. It probably damaged my psyche. I've felt like killing myself many times. Many people do but trudge on. Suicide is politically correct for the coward's way out.

Life is hard but if you commit suicide how do you think your friends and family will feel? They won't respect you, they will be pissed. If my folks tried suicide I wouldn't even go to their funeral. Not that I hate them or anything but it's a respect thing.

Do you want to be remembered as a coward or do you want to live on and enjoy everything life has to offer?

Get your spirit up, meditate, listen to motivating music, excercise, but damnit don't throw your life away. Your probably younger than me and you have so much to live for.

You know how sad it is when kids die? They have a whole life that they lost or threw away and it's usually over temporary things.

Never ever ever ever ever pick a permanent solution for a temporary problem like suicide. Talk about your feelings with your loved ones and friends but don't run around talking about wanting to kill yourself. The way school systems work these days is if you say that to teachers or staff they label you a liability and either throw you in a mental hospital or similar.

I only want to help you. So please don't do something stupid like suicide. Go play a videogame, watch a movie, hug your dog or cat and tell them how much you love them, excercise, just something else.

Please listen to me.

I'm 18 years old, loved, lost, been through alot and will see alot more in my life.

by the way, try venting to your friends about how you feel. If you feel like you're going to kill yourself tell them but otherwise just tell them how bad you feel.

Sweetie:(
I can definitely say that I've felt the same way:-S life is always going to be tough..and sometimez I thought the easiest thing was just to die...but turnz out that when i thought NO ONE cared...then at least one person did...and that one person would be devastated if I was gone. I know that people would miss you too if you weren't around...
Giving up is like the easiest thing to do..thatz why you havta show life that you're better than that...that yu can get through this even though itz hard.
It can be so f**king annoying if people are being bobble headed optimists 24/7 when all you wanna do is break down....but seriously the best thing you can do right now is think of the nice little thingz in yur life..and trust me there are some!
FOooooor instance:D i just had THE best icecream ever.....i'm not kidding:D it was amazing:)
annd i'm not living on the streetz:D..yayy...i have parentz that put a roof over my head even though i hate them:D but thatz a good thing.
if yu ever wanna talk some more than just ..email me or something. (insanedane2@yahoo.com)
i really hope yu feel better cuz i cann't stand to see someone hurt this bad :(...<3

Love can be a wonderful thing, but falling in love or having your hopes for love dashed can be truly craziness. You don't sound like someone who wants to die, but rather someone who's world has been turned up-side-down. You thought you loved this guy, you thought he loved you, and now things are different. And, you don't know which end is up. There's very little I could say to make you feel better, the pain you are experiencing right now is horrible. But, I do know a couple of things:

(1) It will get better .... slowly .... but if you are patient it will get better. Does this mean you will be with this guy? Who knows ... but better means that you will feel better about yourself, more confident and happy again. And, isn't that what is really important in the long run?

(2) You will learn from this experience and become a stronger person. This may not make you feel much better today or even tomorrow, but there is so much truth to the statement: "It is better to have loved and lost and than never to have loved at all". What you will learn is how all your inner needs and desires express themselves -- projected, as it were -- on to the object of your love. Your inner needs and desires are completely legitimate. However, looking for them or projecting them on to another person may not always be the best way to satisfy those needs. Some needs you may need to satisfy yourself, and other needs you may learn to accept that they will never be completely satisfied --- and you will be okay with that. It takes a while to learn all this, but going through this very painful experience right now can help you begin the process of learning these important life lessons that will ultimately make you a happier person.

Good luck to you and know that anyone out there who ever had a heart has had it broken. It's not the end of the world, even though it really feels like it right now.

Take care.
Dale

This too shall pass.

In the famous words of Dory (from Finding Nemo): "Just keep swimming."

Focus on the things that give you joy in life. I've had lows where I really just wanted to focus on the negative... but it helped get me out of the rut to focus on my family and my friends. Life is still worth living.

Please don't give up and find someone to talk to about your feelings and thoughts, preferably a therapist, or at least a friend.

Look, sometimes love can feel really dramatic, especially when you break up, but you really need to show some maturity here, it isn't as dramatic as it feels, you'll love again, his love, evidently wasn't a deep love, or he would've chosen you.

So you're better off without him, trust me, you don't want a man, that doesn't stand up for you, or his family, that's a life-time full of frustration, and you deserve better.

So wallow in self-pity for a while(don't do anything stupid, because he isn't worth it), then go out, and do something fun, enjoy life, and before you know it, you'll be meeting new people, and I'm willing to bet, there's a man in there, that wants you, as much as you want him.

And won't wimp out, when you need him.

Don't waste too much time on this guy though, he wasn't good enough for you.